Talk to me baby... but not during sex! In this episode, we answer a listener's question on how to connect and enjoy sex when her husband likes to talk. It's more common than you may think!

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Obviously, you are not using Vick's VapoRub with any sex position! But, Kim did use Vick's to get through this podcast! In this episode, we go there on sex positions and why you should be trying as many as your can or want! There are four basic positions but many variations that, based on your current flexibility, strength, abs, and sheer willpower, you can add to your sex life and SPICE IT UP!

Christian-Friendly Sex Positions 

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We found and watched an old marriage series that we did back in 2008! We laughed, cringed, and laughed some more! It was HORRIBLE y'all!!! We want to apologize to anyone who sat under this teaching. This type of teaching is what is wrong with a lot of marriages in the church today!! What did we say? Take a few minutes to listen as we apologize, laugh, and debunk the myths, lies, and stereotypes we used to teach! 

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"Your family is SO weird!!" We have all said this! Here's the reality, all of our families are weird! And we carry their weirdness into our relationships. This is called family of origin. It affects how we communicate, how we parent, how we spend money, how we show intimacy, and even affects our sex life! In this episode, Chris and Kim share which of their families is the weirdest and just how much family culture shapes your relationship.

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"Do you hear the words coming out of my mouth?!" If we are honest, we all have felt this way talking to our spouse! Some of the worst advice we were given before we got married was, "If you just communicate, your marriage will be fine." There is more to it than that! Most people don't struggle to communicate, they struggle with nothing happening when they do! In this episode, Chris and Kim touch on communication, standing up for "yourself", and why arguing isn't always a bad thing.

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Do you still date your spouse? If you don't, you should! There is something powerful about being able to sit and look at each other in the eyes and discuss why you think the greatest superpower is being invisible or where your favorite place to have sex is! In this episode, Chris and Kim, talk about why Date Night is a MUST for a healthy marriage!

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Don't forget, in honor of our 10th Episode airing on the 10th of March, we are giving away a $10 Gift Card to Starbucks! All you need to do is email us at [email protected] and tell us which of the first 10 episodes has been your favorite and why! We'll draw a name on Tuesday, March 16th, and let you know!! 

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Have you ever got into one of "those" fights where you didn't want to say sorry because you KNEW you were right and your spouse was wrong, and then you go almost 2 1/2 days with minimum conversation because, well, only the PRIDEFUL survive? Yeah, that was us this weekend. 24 years together and we still screw it up! In this episode, Chris and Kim talk about what happens when Pride walks in and love walks out.

"Pride has broken more hearts than love ever will." -Unknown

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Do you like Corn Flakes? Eat them often? Has it curbed your desire to masturbate? Did you know that is why they were created? In this episode, Chris and Kim take on the topic of Masturbation. They answer questions like, "Is masturbation sin?", "What does the Bible say about masturbation?", and "Can masturbation have a healthy place in the marriage?" Enjoy the episode!

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How many times a week should a married couple have sex? This is a question as unique as each couple. The answer is not based on social norms but is rather based on the sexual desire a couple has. In every relationship, there is a high desire spouse and a low desire spouse. One desire is not right or wrong, it just is. In this episode, Chris and Kim unpack sexual desire and share how it is different from sexual arousal.

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Valentine's Day or Hallmark Holiday? Like so many things in your relationship, it comes down to communication, expectations, and fun! This week Chris and Kim share how to spice up your Valentine's Day. You'll laugh and be encouraged!

Valentine's Day Resources:

Show Her Off Dancing

Intimately Us App

Gottman Card Deck App

CovenantSpice.com

90's R&B PlayList

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