Golds, Girls & God

Finding joy in these hard times is essential. While balancing through life, work, school, and anything else that comes your way, you must be open to finding the little hints of joy during your day. This is how we make it through sometimes. Whether it be through self care, twerpies, finding bingable shows, or freestlying, in this episode we offer ways toThrive, not just survive. We also figure out how to become immortal.


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What if I told you that children come into this world knowing what they like and where they're destined to go. We as parents try to conform them and make them fit into our world, in the here and now. Godly parents must walk the line of honoring the authenticity that God put into our children, while preparing and protecting His children to make it to their destiny. God must be our co-parent.
In order to raise whole, flourishing children against Satan and his influences, we as parents must be submitted to the will of God, and close enough to Him to hear his directions. If we do not, we run the risk of helping the enemy disarm our children. Within the sacredness of childhood, is your child allowed the space to discover and explore who they are destined to be?

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They say "all you need is love," but do you also need marriage? The definition & necessity of marriage, commitment, and a union is a personal one. With lists of "non-negotiables" and contradictory visions of successful relationships, the question becomes one of how you define success in love.

Traditional ideals say women are the "helpmates," and in order for a “Godly” marriage to work, submission to God from both parties are necessary. We discuss the difference and balance between secular/natural and spiritual marriages, as well as the idea that sometimes we are put together by God to help smooth out each other’s edges. However, in this day and age, are the ideas of traditional marriage still necessary?

We dig deep to honestly share our stories of putting on our armor to deal with the oppression that surrounds us. In our personal spaces, as well as professional, we constantly deflect or combat blows and hits as they come from every angle, while trying to maintain our identity and humanity. Every time we show up, we must show up in ways that are not understood by all because we are defying the ways the world has interpreted us as black women. We must be intentional in how we proactively and reactively handle the process of kicking down oppressive doors in this revolutionary moment. We recognize how oppression has filtered into every aspect of our lives and discuss our next moves.

Now, where do we begin....


TRIGGER WARNING: We will be open & transparent in our journey thru oppression as black women. We will share our experiences honestly and transparently.

How and why do you love and rep your city? Do you choose your city or does the city choose you? In this emotional and personal love letter, the ladies explore loving and believing in your city enough to give love to its people and using your gifts to build it up, despite instilled constructs, racism, unfulfilled dreams, and reputations that are tearing down and hurting our city with violence, broken spirits and mentalities while trying to heal in survival mode.

Loving your city means loving the people. Bmore has a “negative,” yet truthful reputation that many are quick to claim. You’ve seen The Wire and The Corner, but there’s so much more to this wonderful city. This city has many jewels and all of them are out in the open and “in plain sight” for all to see. From the skillful corner boys, the encouraging teachers, the entrepreneurial squeegee boys, to the life saving doctors, the city changing creatives and developers, we all have gifts that make this city amazing and strong despite high murder rates, educational struggles, and riots that are balanced in love with community outreach, youth programs, and Sunday church services.

The authenticity of Baltimore in all its grimy, glistening, gutter turmoil and love is made of beautiful people who are striving to hold their families together and support themselves through good times and bad. “Charm City,” is made up of hardworking, determined, driven people with amazing talents and values that make this city great! Bmore, stand up, put on your favorite 92Q club mix, grab a chicken box, & get ready to rep your city!!!


*We had to record apart..cuz of Rona...please excuse the audio differences

We tune in weekly. We invite them into our homes. We may even be addicted to being voyeurs of their lives. We shout our opinions at the television, we get emotionally involved, and even choose sides. Housewives From Orange County to ATL, Married to Medicine, Love & Hip Hop,… They’re the reality stars we love to hate.

Every week, women on television come into our home with their craziness, drama, and rachetness. We delve into the psychology of ratchetness as we sit from our privileged seats to consume their pain that’s for pay. As many of our favorite stars of reality are grown women, we wonder is there a responsibility and an age limit on foolishness?

It seems as though the toxicity of our youth is holding us back from growing and disallows the teaching future of generations from learning to be better. Ratchetness, at times can be a tool, but does it reflect the real you or the you you are perpetrating to be?

We continue our conversation raising question of possible beliefs, habits, and ideas we as black women have to unlearn in order to have a functional, meaningful relationship with a black man. We know what a good relationship should look like, but what does it take to actually attain and cultivate one? There are things on both sides that single men and women must unlearn when coming together, but do we end up presenting our "true" selves or does our ego and pride get in the way? Your ego has no place in a relationship with man, woman, or God. We can't have a truthful, bare-all, naked relationship with others until we first are presenting and grounded in our "true" selves. But how do we have authentic connections and fulfill our purpose without magic and your gansta?

Are you ready for this?! In our second episode, we delve into relationships and the true meaning of Black Girl Magic. As singles, we often operate on our own terms, making our lives work for us. However, when we meet a mate, do we need to change how we operate to make room for the new boo? Must we unlearn certain habits and beliefs in order to have a successful, meaningful, and functional relationship with another who may need to unlearn some ways as well. Within our daily lives we may be holding ourselves back from having a great relationship because of the magic tricks we perform. What is the true meaning and cost of our belief in magic?

Welcome to the first episode of Golds, Girls, & God!!! Meet us at the intersection of Hip-Hop culture, femininity, and Faith and get ready for it to get real! On this episode the ladies discuss shaming. We have all seen it, Mommy shaming, Slut shaming, the list goes on and on. However, is it our right as followers to shame or do we bear some responsibility when we post? In our current "anything goes" culture, are there situations for which we should be shamed? Nowadays, someone is always watching and judging the things we say and do. Are you a judge or being judged?


Shame, Shame, Shame....