It is accepting that we have own special place in this world. Feeling unloved and unworthy is a very lonely feeling. If you cannot find anything to love about yourself, you are probably struggling on the inside with a whole range of feelings. 

thoughts and self-wealth feelings on external things like how successful we are in  our roles as mothers or husbands or how well we can sing even how good looking we are. While acknowledging their role in our life, our self-worth and self-acceptance is about the person we are, the person we are comfortable being around when everyone else has left and we are alone. 

the person we are comfortable being around when everyone else has left and we are alone. If we are not comfortable with that person, we do not love our self.