It’s hard to judge a book by its cover. Lame males will front & play the role of a MAN when they first meet you then once she gives him her heart & her loyalty he switches up & reveals the real him for mentally and control reason but that’s a little boy for ya
I wouldn’t judge a woman’s past we all been there , but Single mothers DESERVE a Man who can LEAD himself She shouldn’t have to lead herself AND her child/ children AND him. making every financial decision in her life, dealing with stress, AND paying all the bills, and also praying all by her self.BUT shes good enough to have all these kids and he still haven’t put a ring on it . sounds more like your single which means until further actions stop wasting your years and move the fuck around and do what makes you happy