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Beautiful people, it's a wrap! Today's episode is the finale of our 11th season and in today's episode we're closing it off right by pungin' melee on all of the topics we wanted to touch on before we head off on another break! Got ideas for next season? Send them our way!

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In this week's episode we talk about misinformation, media literacy and the bravery of people in the comment sections. On an internet so saturated with content, it's hard to tell what's being fed to you. How do you verify that what you're reading and viewing is the truth?

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In this week's episode we discuss the intersections of singlehood, loneliness, solitude, healing and self-love. We challenge the idea of healing journeys and the pursuit of romantic connections being mutually exclusive. We also discuss the importance of centering self-love and how it can impact your ability to navigate dating and relationships.

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In today's episode our literal FAVE Tyrone joins us for a hilariously honest conversation on navigating ADHD as Black millennials. From self-diagnosis, formal diagnosis, to creating life structures based on navigating our neurodivergence and more - this is a conversation you don't want to miss.

Find Tyrone on BlueSky, Tiktok, & Redd Jack Productions!

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This week Deidre is treating is by providing answers to all of your burning questions on astrology! She discusses the basics behind natal charts and the astrological signs that help to explain more about who we are and the paths our lives take.

Curious about your natal chart? You can find out here: https://astro.cafeastrology.com/natal.php

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In this week's episode we talk about the concept of community building and being "in community" with others. We discuss what being in community means, what it takes to incorporate that framework into your life, and why we struggle with the concept of community in 2025.

Do you feel like you're "in community" with others? 

What are some of the ways that you show up for your neighbors, friends, and people who share your lived experiences? 

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In today's episode we're doing our favorite thing: pungin' melee! That's gossiping for those of you who aren't from the VI. Occasionally Deidre and I just need to catch up because we stay busy, so for this episode we took a moment to do that.

We also recapped our favorite moments from the 2025 Grammy Awards, from our favorite performances, to award moments we found shocking and more. We also briefly talked about recent dating experiences and current trending topics on TikTok.

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Season Sponsor: Greater Changes
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This week we discuss the concept of conflict, how we navigate conflict according to our conflict styles and how friendships and relationships are made better by addressing conflict sooner. 

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Season Sponsor: Greater Changes
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This week we've taken a page out of the popular TikTok trend "We Listen and We Don't Judge" where couples take a get-out-of-judge free card to share things they secretly do, say, or feel with their partner.

To get in on the fun, our sister Diamond joined us to help us share our own judge-free revelations. Our listeners also used an anonymous link to their their own - which we read and reacted to.

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Season Sponsor: Greater Changes
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In this episode we're talking about our spirituality and the foundations of our faith, as well as what it looked like to deconstruct our faith from the religious ideologies we were born into.

Has your spirituality ever shifted? What other religions have you researched out of curiosity or a desire to better understand your own faith?

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Season Sponsor: Greater Changes
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