Goodies Gospel

In Episode 2 of Goodie’s Gospel, I unpack how a woman who was raised by strong women, warned not to center men, and always saw herself as independent still became a textbook “pick me.” From the public unraveling of Remy Ma and Papoose’s Black Love story to my own history of long-term relationships, compromise, obedience, and quietly fitting myself into structures created by the men I loved, I examine how easily women can absorb roles no one ever explicitly taught us to play. I talk about the difference between partnership and self-erasure, why being chosen once felt like proof of my value, and what years of solitude finally taught me about choosing myself. Because picking me doesn’t mean I stopped loving men. It means I stopped disappearing in order to love them. #RemyMa #Alimony #BellHooks #GoodiesGospel #FromPickMeToPickingMe #DecenterMen #PickMeCulture #BlackWomenPodcasters #BlackWomenHealing #RelationshipPatterns #SelfDiscovery #ChoosingYourself #WomenAndRelationships #Unlearning #SoftLifeWithBoundaries #HealingOutLoud #PodcastForWomen #BronxWomen

I spent years learning how to read the room, adjust, bend, flex and become whatever version of myself seemed to belong there. Somewhere along the way, I got so good at the dance that I had to ask myself who I was when I wasn't performing. In the first episode of Goodie's Gospel, I'm hitting the defrag button and unpacking the lessons I absorbed about culture, partnership, God and belonging, including the ones nobody ever actually taught me. Some lessons helped me survive. Some helped me succeed. And some taught me that showing up in part was better than showing up whole. I'm unlearning that shit. The microphone is plugged in. Goodie's Gospel is back. Let's get free.

Goodie Gabor is back with another episode of her gospel, this week she talks about Rachels stealing cultures, SCOTUS and the internet, and Black men leaving black women and longing for the return home. Press Play

#Rachels #karens #raquelsaraswati #SCOTUS 

Goodie is back with her first episode of the year! Goodie gets into some good news for the ladies (although the men disagree), shares her perspective on the restart of a romance; and lets y'all know what she has going on:

Podcasting All Over:

Youtube Channeling:

The Good News: 00:50

• We gotta read more and tweet less; thoughts on 30 million-dollar crack pipes
• Kanye West can go tuh hell.
  • Billie  English is better than Goodie!
• Dababy Brawls till a dude falls
  • Brandon Bills is better than Goodie.

The Truth Is: 18:35

• Goodie reflects on if her perspective on cheating is hypocritical.

What Would Goodie Do (WWGD): 28:53

• Wheelchairs, Cheating, Syphillis, and confusion?
  • This chick is better than Goodie.

The Goodie Bag: 31:25

• Black Digital Content creators
  • Gabbin w/Goodie Gabor
  • Goodie Gabor's Ascencion  Intentions
  • Cameshia Reviews
  • NYCHomeTeamPod

Goodie is back for the new year with a few revelations. She missed you and intends  to never miss you again.

In this episode of The Goodie's Gospel podcast, Goodie does a rundown of a few stories in the wonky news cycle, which she immediately follows with a deep dive into what it cost her as an adult growing up in a ridiculously strict household. 

Let's get to the thangs. Press Play. Enjoy.

In this episode of Goodie's Gospel, Goodie reflects on the times she has received after-date critiques. She then struggles with figuring out if she should share dating feedback she heard about one friend who tried courting another. Press Play. Enjoy