Jesus tells the parable of the persistent widow so his disciples will always pray and never give up. The widow has almost nothing going for her: no husband, no son, no lawyer, no money, no power, and an unjust judge who does not fear God or care about people. Her persistency is the one thing she has, and she keeps coming with the same request: “Grant me justice.” The unjust judge finally gives her justice because she is wearing him out, but God is not like that judge.
God does not need to be talked into caring for his children. Christ uses the crooked judge to show that his people must demonstrate determination in faith. Prayer is expected in the life of a Christian, because Jesus says not “if you pray,” but “when you pray.” Christ himself gives the example by praying in the critical moments and in the everyday moments, even giving thanks before meals.
Prayer is communication with a good Father who loves his children and wants relationship with them all the time. God calls for praise, confession, thanksgiving, and petitions, because he wants his children to talk to him and hear from him through his Word and Spirit. Prayer grows as believers grow, yet childlike honesty must not be lost along the way. Children say things like they are, and honest prayer comes to God with that same open heart.
Prayer must never be exhausted. The widow’s repeated coming pictures a faith that does not quit after one request, one disappointment, or many years of waiting. Christ’s question at the end of the parable brings the matter home: when the Son of Man returns, will he find faith on the earth? Persistent prayer becomes an ongoing demonstration of faith, not a passive religious act. Prayer is active ministry, prayer until something happens, and a life of continuing to ask, seek, and knock.
Prayer is also effective. James says that the prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective, and God’s children are called to pray with confidence in his promises. Christ says, “Ask and it will be given,” “Seek and you will find,” and “Knock and the door will be opened.” God answers in the right time and the right place, according to his will, but his children must pray seriously, with all their heart, believing what he has said.
Forgiveness belongs right in the middle of prayer. Christ says that anyone standing in prayer while holding something against another person must forgive, so that the Father may forgive. Prayer is not magic for trouble; prayer is the connection to God, the source and supply of every need. Prayer therefore needs an intentional time and place, removal of distractions and sin, right motives, faith, persistency, and grace-filled prayer for the church and its leaders.