God is in charge and wants to lead you. You cannot move in the supernatural and miraculous, if you do not give the Holy Spirit His rightful place. God teaches you what is best for you; meaning you do not know what is best for you. Do not only obey God when it is convenient to you. Do not call Jesus, Lord, if you are not willing to follow His Lordship over your life. For God to effectively lead you, you must be dead to self.