They say one way to catch a monkey is to place something sweet in a jar with an opening the size of the monkey's fist. The monkey slips its hand in and grasps the goodies unable to get its hand out without letting go, something it will not do. In the same way, many of us are clinging to our stuff--our money, comfortable lifestyle, our possessions--and unless we let go we will never enjoy life because they get in the way of our relationships. We must relinquish our idols if we are to love God, love others and love ourselves.