The truth is, the way Jesus defines friendship, you can't really force friendships, but you can be a friend. To be friendly, is to act like a friend would before you really are a friend.

This issue of singleness is complex, and you'll notice that it impossible to talk about one issue, without a host of questions about another area come up.

Understanding singleness is impossible without understanding what we think about friendship and marriage, which then leads to misunderstandings and the questions about sex and same sex and how all those things come into play.