Personal holiness is a process that is unique to every person following Christ. Even in the first century church people struggled to know how to handle new believers; or as Paul calls them in Romans 14, the weak in faith. For far too long churches have expected people to look, talk, and act a certain way if they were truly saved. In reality, sanctification is a life-long process of becoming less like the world, and more like Jesus. What we need to focus on is not the actions of the person, but the heart of the servant. We're called to unity in the church, and our mission is to take the Christ's message of forgiveness and unity to the world around us.