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What happens when love finds you after divorce? Scottie and Vicky Albious join us to share their remarkable journey of building a marriage where one spouse had been previously married with a child, while the other was experiencing marriage for the first time.

Their story begins at a church volleyball game that sparked a friendship, eventually blossoming into something deeper. Scottie, having experienced divorce and raising a young daughter, initially planned to remain single until his daughter reached her teens. The complexity of introducing another relationship seemed overwhelming—until Vicky entered the picture.

The couple candidly discusses the unique challenges they faced during their first years together. "I am not her," Vicky would remind Scottie when past marriage patterns threatened to infiltrate their new relationship. This crucial distinction helped them forge their own path rather than retreading old ground. Their testimony reveals how trust became the foundation of their blended family, with Scottie acknowledging the wisdom Vicky brought to parenting despite never having been a mother before.

Communication emerged as both a challenge and eventual strength. While Scottie describes himself as naturally outgoing, he admits that expressing deeper emotions initially proved difficult. "Intimacy doesn't always mean sex," he reflects, "it just basically means 'into me you see.'" This vulnerability transformed their connection, especially when facing conflicts. Rather than responding to anger with more anger—a common relationship trap—Vicky would retreat to prayer, a response that completely shifted their communication dynamics.

Marriage conferences played a significant role in their growth together, with both acknowledging how these experiences regularly revealed blind spots and opportunities for personal development. Their advice for others in similar situations comes from hard-won experience: take your time introducing children to new relationships, be absolutely certain this path is God's will, and never hesitate to seek help.

After eleven years together and raising three children—Khira (17), Israel (9), and Titus (7)—their story stands as a testament to what's possible when grace, patience, and faith guide the formation of a blended family. Whether you're navigating a similar journey or simply want to strengthen your existing relationship, this episode offers wisdom that transcends circumstances.

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