Grace in Real Life

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  • What IS Prosperity Gospel? Part 1

    What is Prosperity Gospel, and why is it so popular? Prosperity Gospel offers financial and health incentives for perceived depths of faith. But we know that the bible doesn’t actually offer health and financial riches as an incentive for faith. In fact, we know that the bible promises trials and persecution. So why do people fall into the trap of Prosperity Gospel? Like the current focus on the Law of Attraction, people want to believe that they can get what they want if they just believe hard enough.

    Check out the full show notes at https://graceinreallife.com

    32 min
  • Understanding and Managing Anxiety Through Faith and Prayer

    Ever wondered why you feel anxious when there doesn't seem to be a reason for it? Or how to differentiate between everyday 'nerves' and clinical anxiety? This episode takes you on a journey to understand the twists and turns of anxiety, revealing its potential triggers and the value of professional help. We discuss the human physical response to anxiety, using Jesus's experience in the Garden of Gethsemane as a reference point to affirm that fear and anxiety do not equate to inadequacy.

    Plunge into the teachings of Paul and the wisdom of the Proverbs as they guide us in managing our anxiety. Find solace in the Bible's instructions to lean on God during overwhelming times. Learn how to discern between regular anxious moments and more serious anxiety conditions and harness the power of prayer and hope. We offer practical strategies to cope, including recalling God's past faithfulness and understanding that God is not a variable but a constant in our lives. 

    The episode concludes with an exploration of the power of gratitude and kindness in redirecting our focus and altering our circumstances. We discuss the importance of biblical memorization and provide specific verses to help remember God's faithfulness. Don't miss the chance to discover how prayer can be your strongest tool in managing anxiety. We wrap up with a heartfelt prayer for those battling anxiety and depression and a review of the episode's key insights. This is your invitation to join us in a conversation that could change your perspective on anxiety and provide you with practical tools for navigating life's anxious moments.

    In a world as incredibly affluent as the United States you would think that anxiety levels would be the lowest in the world. It really shows you that anxiety and peace have less to do with things than it does with something else. 


    In this episode, listen for:

    • What is Anxiety 
    • Examples of anxiety in the bible
    • 5 implications of Be anxious for nothing and 
    • Verses to memorize for anxiety
    • How to apply the trial test
    • Why prayer is a powerful tool 



    Resources + Links

    Join the FREE Community!
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/doersoftheword 

    Follow us:

    https://www.instagram.com/graceinreallifemedia 

    Visit the show website:

    https://graceinreallife.com 


    Deborah Hawkins on Instagram

    http://www.instagram.com/the_deborahhawkins 

    Wendy Coop on Instagram

    https://instagram.com/savvybudgetgirl

    https://instagram.com/mrswendycoop 




    Inerrancy and Infallibility of Scripture 

    https://www.logos.com/grow/inerrancy-of-scripture/ 


    Fighting Words by Ellie Holcomb

    https://amzn.to/3DQuVrW 


    Anxiety Journal from The Daily Grace Co

    https://thedailygraceco.com/products/scripture-for-anxiety-journal 


    Seizing God’s Promises Fearlessly 

    https://a.co/d/ifdq6Cg


    Bible Verse Memorization Tattoos

    https://dwelldifferently.com/


    Proverbs 16:3 

    Matthew 6:34

    Isaiah 41:10 

    Joshua 1:9 

    1 Peter 5:6-7 

    Proverbs 12:25 

    Psalms 77

    Philippians 4:6-7 

    1 hr 12 min
  • Exploring the Intricacies of Developing a Deeper Relationship with God

    In a world of fast information, it can be hard to determine what is fact and what is opinion. it is important to have a close personal relationship with the Lord so you know what is true and what is not. 

    In this episode, listen for:

    • How to develop relationships
    • The difference between book knowledge and experience knowledge
    • Tips for developing a relationship with the Lord
    • Why obedience is an important part of our walk with God

    Ever wondered about the foundation of your relationship with God? How communication and understanding play key roles in nurturing it? Join us, Deborah and Wendy, as we pull back the curtain on the intricate dynamics of developing a deeper connection with God and how this shapes your relationships with others. We dive into the heart of the matter, discussing how relationships are like work, requiring constant nurturing and initiation of contact to flourish.

    In a world where we tend to rush conversations and relationships, slowing down and paying attention to the nuances of communication is vital. In our second segment, we explore this power of communication in establishing a personal relationship with God. We navigate the delicate balance between book knowledge and personal experience, emphasizing the need for active participation and understanding different population dynamics to empathize better with others' experiences.

    Towards the end, we roll up our sleeves and examine the essential role of obedience in our relationship with God, and the pitfalls of legalism. We highlight how the core of loving God is intertwined with adhering to His commands. We round off our conversation by discussing the Bible's crucial role in discerning truth, ending on a note of prayer for all our listeners on their journey of deepening their relationship with God. Don't miss this enlightening discussion!

    Resources + Links

    Join the FREE Community!
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/doersoftheword 

    Follow us:

    https://www.instagram.com/graceinreallifemedia

    Visit the show website:

    https://graceinreallife.com 


    Deborah Hawkins on Instagram

    http://www.instagram.com/the_deborahhawkins 

    Wendy Coop on Instagram

    https://instagram.com/savvybudgetgirl

    https://instagram.com/mrswendycoop 




    X: Multiply Your God-Given Potential by John Bevere (husband of Lisa Bevere)

    https://amzn.to/3KpduCG 


    Prevenient Grace

    https://www.gotquestions.org/prevenient-grace.html  


    The Pursuit of God by A.W. Tozer

    https://amzn.to/3Oie7Pp 

    Verses:

    John 6:35
    John 8:12
    John 10:11
    John 11:25
    John 14:6
    John 15:1
    Proverbs 27:17 
    John 14:23
    1 John 2:3-6 
    Psalm 81:10


    46 min
  • Breaking Down Legalism: A Journey Toward Grace and Compassion in Faith

    Have you ever felt that you're missing the mark in your spiritual journey because of imposed expectations? Is it possible that legalism is creeping into your faith, muffling the message of the gospel and causing feelings of insignificance? We're stepping into this critical conversation, breaking down the barriers of legalism, and illuminating the path of grace and compassion. 

    We tackle the heavy issues, such as instances where legalism has been a shield for abusers within the church. By exploring Eileen Gray's heart-wrenching story, publicly denounced by John MacArthur for separating from her abusive husband, we underscore the need for accountability and restitution. We also delve into the shocking revelations of child sex abuse cover-ups in Hillsong Church as exposed in the documentary series The Secrets of Hillsong. 

    Finally, we shine a light on the transformative power of grace. We share inspiring stories of biblical figures such as Noah, Moses, David, Paul, Mary Magdalene, and the Samaritan woman, reminding you that God's power, not our own, enables us to do amazing things. Our discussion pivots towards the importance of compassion and mercy as powerful antidotes to legalism. Let's walk together in understanding, compassion, and spiritual growth, embracing our individual faith journeys free from the shackles of legalism.

    In light of the heavy legalistic IBLP movement from the last two weeks. A discussion regarding legalism in today’s church is essential!  If we do not have the wisdom to understand and see legalism we are liable to cause hurt. 

     “Legalism is any action added to the gospel in order to please God.” - Phylicia Masonheimer in Stop Calling Me Beautiful


    In this episode, listen for:

    • Stories about Leglaism 
    • Tips for recognizing legalism
    • A tip for how we can behave when we are confronted with legalism
    • A wealth of resources for learning how not to be legalistic 


    Resources + Links

    Join the FREE Community!
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/doersoftheword 

    Deborah Hawkins on Instagram

    http://www.instagram.com/the_deborahhawkins 

    Wendy Coop on Instagram

    https://instagram.com/mrswendycoop  

    Visit the show website:

    www.graceinreallife.com


    Verity Podcast - Reconstructing After Legalism

    https://veritybyphylicia.libsyn.com/114-reconstructing-after-legalism?_ga=2.27405116.1265463938.1688853304-750706461.1686248478 


    Verity Conference with Phylicia Masonheimer

    https://phyliciamasonheimer.com/verity-conference/


    Every Woman a Theologian by Phylicia Masonheimer

    https://amzn.to/3NJ1i0b


    Stop Calling Me Beautiful by Phylicia Masonheimer

    https://amzn.to/3NJ1n3Z 


    Legalism in the church

    https://biblereasons.com/legalism/ 


    It -  by Craig Groeschel https://a.co/d/2PpvWBW


    Wendy’s Fundraiser for the NYC Marathon (Team for Kids)

    https://runwithtfk.org/Profile/PublicPage/100737 


    Matthew 23:23

    Ephesians 2:8-10, ESV

    1 Corinthians 3:18-23


    1 hr 2 min
  • Shiny Happy People - Part 2

    In recent weeks Prime Video released a documentary on the Duggar Family entitled Shiny Happy People. In this expose much was revealed about the IBLP or Institute of Basic Life Principles. 

    ****This episode contains topics of a sensitive nature. Listener discretion is advised.****


    In this episode, listen for:

    • Umbrella of Protection and Authority
    • The Attempted Political Movement of the IBLP
    • The Social Media Movement of the IBLP and others 


    Resources + Links

    Join the FREE Community!
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/doersoftheword 

    Deborah Hawkins on Instagram

    http://www.instagram.com/the_deborahhawkins 

    Wendy Coop on Instagram

    https://instagram.com/unconventionaldiabetic  

    Visit the show website:

    www.graceinreallife.com


    Shiny Happy People on Amazon Prime

    https://amzn.to/3XGFlnc 

    I Survived I Kissed Dating Goodbye Documentary

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybYTkkQJw_M 

    Verity Podcast by Phylicia Masonheimer

    https://phyliciamasonheimer.com/podcast/ 

    Verity Conference

    https://phyliciamasonheimer.com/verity-conference/ 

    How to Faith a Life on YouTube 

    https://www.youtube.com/c/HowtoFaithALife


    1 hr 1 min
  • Shiny Happy People - Part 1

    In recent weeks Prime Video released a documentary on the Duggar Family entitled Shiny Happy People. In this expose, much was revealed about the IBLP or Institute of Basic Life Principles. 

    **** But before we get started, we must tell you about possible trigger warnings: This documentary series discusses pornography, sexual abuse, and sexual assault, including those of children. Listener discretion is advised. ****


    In this episode, listen for:

    • Information about Josh Duggar’s Sexual Abuse and subsequent Porn Addiction
    • Homeschooling via the IBLP and the Wisdom Booklets
    • How the Hyperfocus on Sexual sin leads to over-sexualizing everything


    Resources + Links

    Join the FREE Community!
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/doersoftheword 

    Deborah Hawkins on Instagram

    http://www.instagram.com/the_deborahhawkins 

    Wendy Coop on Instagram

    https://instagram.com/savvybudgetgirl

    https://instagram.com/unconventionaldiabetic 

    Visit the show website:

    https://graceinreallife.com 


    Link to more information about the Wisdom Booklets, what was taught, and how the IBLP weaponizes Bible verses to ensure there are no victims:

    https://www.recoveringgrace.org/2014/04/there-is-no-victim-a-survey-of-iblp-literature-on-sexual-assault-and-abuse/

    Shiny Happy People Documentary on Amazon Prime

    https://amzn.to/3XGFlnc 

    Verses from this Episode:

    John 16:33  
    James 1:2- (NLT)
    John 15:19
    1John 2:15 
    1 Peter 2:21
    James 3 

    1 hr 1 min
  • How to Deal with Doubt as a Christian
    Overcoming doubts in faith is a normal human struggle, and this episode of Theological Thursday dives into the root of the issue and shares personal experiences of doubt and how to deal with them.

    In this episode, listen for:

    • Wendy’s struggle with faith, doubt, and Islam
    • Deborah’s own faith struggle
    • The role of doubt in the life of a Christian

    Here are some must-listen moments from this episode:

    00:02:05 - Wendy's Struggle with Doubt

    00:08:08 - Deborah's Struggle with Doubt

    00:11:42 - The Story of Doubting Thomas

    00:18:22 - It's Okay Not to Have All the Answers


    Are you tired of feeling like doubt is a weakness in your faith? Have you been told to just pray harder or have more faith but still find yourself struggling? Join us in this episode as we explore how embracing doubt as a normal part of our spiritual journey can actually lead to a deeper connection with God. We'll help you anchor your beliefs in Biblical teachings, identify potential roadblocks, and tap into the power of your faith community for support and strength. Say goodbye to ineffective solutions and hello to a stronger, more resilient faith.

    Resources + Links

    Join the FREE Community!
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/doersoftheword 

    Deborah Hawkins on Instagram

    http://www.instagram.com/the_deborahhawkins 

    Wendy Coop on Instagram

    https://instagram.com/mrswendycoop  

    Visit the show website:

    https://theologicalthursday.com 

    Faith in Seasons of Doubt

    https://wellwateredwomen.com/faith-in-seasons-of-doubt/

    7 Ways to Deal With Doubt

    https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/7-ways-to-deal-with-doubt/

    Verses

    John 20:24-29

    Matthew 28:16-17

    Deuteronomy 29:29

    1 Corinthians 15:3

    Mark 9:24


    45 min
  • The Dangers of Cherry-Picking Verses

    Did you know there’s a danger in taking verses out of context? Let’s discuss the problem with cherry-picking verses.

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    This episode is NOT sponsored. Some product links are affiliate links, meaning we'll receive a small commission if you buy something.

    Verses:
    Jeremiah 39:16

    Jeremiah 44:11, 27

    Jeremiah 29:11

    Matthew 7

    2 Timothy 2:15

    2 Timothy 3:16-17

    Ephesians 4:11-15

    📒 Show Notes  + Resources 📒

    Dangers of Cherry-Picking the Scriptures

    https://testeverything.blog/2019/12/23/the-danger-of-cherry-picking-the-scriptures/

    Slave Bible on History.com 

    https://www.history.com/news/slave-bible-redacted-old-testament

    Taking Verses Out of Context

    https://www.gotquestions.org/Scripture-verse-out-of-context.html 

    Emotionally Healthy Discipleship by Peter Scazzero

    https://amzn.to/412LM3X

    Radical Candor by Kim Scott

    https://amzn.to/3AOCXjz 

    Hermeneutics - the branch of knowledge that deals with interpretation, especially of the Bible or literary text (Google)

    How to Interpret the Bible Correctly: Exegesis & Hermeneutics (How to Faith a Life)

    https://youtu.be/hHR1_stDqn0 

    NKJV Cultural Backgrounds Study Bible

    ​​https://amzn.to/3APJquw 

    Every Woman a Theologian book and workbook by Phylicia Masonheimer

    https://amzn.to/3NyGkTa 


    Got a question for a future episode? Leave your question here or a confidential prayer request:
    https://www.speakpipe.com/bibletalk

    On social:
    Wendy Coop
    https://instagram.com/mrswendycoop
    Deborah
    http://www.instagram.com/the_deborahhawkins


    1 hr 1 min
  • 3 Books for a Productive Spring - Theological Thursday Book Club

    Spring book club recommendations.

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    This episode is NOT sponsored. Some product links are affiliate links, meaning we'll receive a small commission if you buy something.


    📒 Show Notes  + Resources 📒

    Try Audible Plus and get free books!

    https://amzn.to/3Ls6ohr 

    Integrity by Dr. Henry Cloud

    https://amzn.to/3L6Aplv 

    Contagious by Jonah Berger

    https://amzn.to/443AGhO 

    Declutter Like a Mother by Allie Casazza

    https://amzn.to/3V9OfYZ 

    Organizing for the Rest of Us by Dana K. White

    https://amzn.to/3AsKGn4 

    Dana K. White - Dishes Math

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rc5svV_ATPA 


    Got a question for a future episode? Leave your question here or a confidential prayer request:
    https://www.speakpipe.com/bibletalk

    On social:
    Wendy Coop
    https://instagram.com/mrswendycoop
    Deborah
    http://www.instagram.com/the_deborahhawkins



    56 min
  • How to Memorize Scripture

    Learn some tips and tricks for memorizing scripture.

    Join the FREE Community!
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/doersoftheword

    This episode is NOT sponsored. Some product links are affiliate links, meaning we'll receive a small commission if you buy something.

    Verses:
    Ephesians 6:10-17

    Matthew 4:1-11

    Psalm 119:11

    📒 Show Notes  + Resources 📒
    Bible Hub

    https://biblehub.com/ 

    Not Consumed Scripture Cards

    https://store.notconsumed.com/collections/scripture-cards-collection/products/notconsumed-scripture-cards?variant=39373383630944

    The Lord’s Prayer (It’s Yours) by Matt Maher

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=36hBlBGVFSs 

    How to Faith a Life on YouTube

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1fPMmSexhB0 

    Fighting Words by Ellie Holcomb

    https://amzn.to/3N1zCFg


    Got a question for a future episode? Leave your question here or a confidential prayer request:
    https://www.speakpipe.com/bibletalk

    On social:
    Wendy Coop
    https://instagram.com/mrswendycoop
    Deborah
    http://www.instagram.com/the_deborahhawkins



    45 min

About Grace in Real Life

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Welcome to Grace in Real Life, the Christian podcast where co-hosts Deborah Hawkins and Wendy Coop have conversations about faith and life to equip and empower women to live authentically. Join them every week as they discuss how to understand the Bible better and apply its teachings to daily living.