Grace & Truth Talks

Grace & Truth Talks

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Grace & Truth Talks episodes

  • EP 33: The Difference Between Your Plan and God’s Timing

    Are you entering the New Year feeling like you’ve missed your moment? In our final episode of the year, Pastors James and Tiffaney Edwards pull back the curtain on the "refining" process of God. Whether you are navigating a season of crushing, a sudden career transition, or a season where you feel hidden and overlooked, this episode is a necessary reset for anyone looking for clarity in their next season.

    Pastor Tiffaney shares her raw testimony of losing a million-dollar career and starting over in a space she never expected, while Pastor James breaks down the difference between Chronos (chronological time) and Kairos (God’s opportune time). Stop counting the days and start making the days count.

    In this episode:

    • [05:46] Why the person who trusts the least wants to control the most
    • [12:08] Chronos vs. Kairos: Understanding the two types of time.
    • [15:13] The Floyd Mayweather Story: When a "No" from man is actually God’s "Yes."
    • [23:07] Starting Over: Tiffaney’s journey through the crushing and being hidden.
    • [30:45] How to stay faithful when you’re being "bossed" in an arena you should own.
    • [34:15] The 3x Increase: How humility unlocks the supernatural.
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      1 hr 11 min
    • EP 32: Is Anyone Ready for What They Want?

      Pastors James and Tiffaney pick up where the men’s panel left off and go straight into the tension behind “I want a healed man” and “I want to be led.” They unpack why “strong” can quietly turn into control, why some men confuse a woman’s help with threat, and how God’s design for order is supposed to produce safety, not competition. This episode also gets real about what emotional safety actually looks like, why some people aren’t open to being “pushed” (or expanded), and how a relationship shifts when your partner can see more in you than you currently believe about yourself. Plus, a raw Q&A segment on rebuilding trust, navigating immaturity, and what to do when you’re running out of breath in a relationship you chose.

      In this episode, you’ll learn:

      • The difference between strength and control, and how to spot it in yourself
      • How submission works when it’s submitted to God’s order, not someone’s ego
      • Why “help” can get misread as control when pride is present
      • What humility looks like in a man (and why it makes leadership safe)
      • Why you can’t “pour” discipline or desire into someone who won’t choose it
      • What it takes to rebuild emotional safety when trust has been violated
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        1 hr 14 min
      • EP 31: Don’t Quit in the Winter: The 4 Seasons of A Relationship

        We’re living in a world where it’s easier to "cancel" a connection than it is to work through a conflict. But often, we get too weary from a year of "shedding" to see the harvest that’s actually right in front of us. Whether you’re ending the year celebrating a string of wins or you’re sitting in a "winter" season where everything feels cold and stagnant, this conversation is the roadmap for what’s next.

        In this special Christmas Eve episode, Pastors James and Tiffaney break down the Four Seasons of Relationship. They discuss "cancel culture" that has crept into the church and break down why friction isn't always a sign to walk away, it could be a sign that God is prepping you for a major transformation. Don't let a temporary winter rob you of your permanent spring. Your breakthrough might just be maturing.

        In this episode:

        [05:49] The Growth Gap: Why we can't assume everyone values growth.

        [12:18] The 4 Seasons: Understanding Fall (Shedding) vs. Winter (Dying).

        [15:32] The Power of the Receiver: Why how you "hear" is more important than what they "say."

        [23:23] Real Transformation: Moving from "Out of Sight, Out of Mind" to Godly Forgiveness.

        [32:18] The Thanksgiving Trigger: A raw story on how past rejection affects current peace.

        [34:43] Silence as a Weapon: Knowing when to grab yourself before you lose your future.

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        1 hr 7 min
      • EP 30: What Men Really Want Part 2

        In this episode, Pastor James sits down with Terrence, Derek, and Anthony for part two of a timely conversation that sparked debate online about men, relationships, and what “growth” really means.

        They respond to last week’s women’s panel and the viral “teacher/go higher” moment, clarifying what got misunderstood. This is about alignment, pace, purpose, and the difference between contentment and complacency.

        Pastor James and the panel unpack what “I’ll push you” should mean in a healthy relationship, why it can land as “you’re not enough,” and how couples can avoid the trap of mothering, micromanaging, or trying to change someone they chose. The episode also goes deeper on spiritual leadership, emotional safety, and what men actually need to feel safe enough to open up.

        In this episode, you’ll learn:

        • How to tell peace from stagnation
        • What partnership looks like when both people grow
        • Why emotional safety is a track record, not a speech
        • How to pick with clarity instead of chemistry-only
        • Comment below: Should a partner “push” you — or accept you as you are?

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          1 hr 9 min
        • EP 29: Grace & Truth’s Top 5 of 2025

          In this special year-end episode, Pastors James and Tiffaney revisit the most viral, debated and controversial moments from Grace & Truth in 2025, and give their unfiltered reactions. From submission and self-awareness to growth, dating standards, and respecting a man’s voice, they unpack the real heart behind each moment and respond to the praise and the pushback. If you’ve ever watched a clip and thought, “Did they really say that?” - this one’s for you.

          In this episode:

          • Why “this is just how I am” is killing relationships
          • The truth about submission and what it actually means to come under a man’s mission
          • Dating vs Pursuing: Why a look, a smile, or a DM might not be that deep
          • Why some men feel disrespected—and what women might not realize about his voice
          • How to choose someone you truly respect before you say “I do”
          • Comment and let us know which moment made you pause, reflect, or even push back?

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            49 min
          • EP 28: What Do Women Really Want?

            In this honest and eye-opening episode, Pastor Tiffaney sits down with a panel of wise, purpose-driven women to explore what women really want in relationships, and what they need in order to feel seen, safe, and secure. From the meaning of submission to the weight of provision, this conversation goes beyond surface-level dating talk and into the real standards and expectations that shape godly relationships.

            In this episode, we discuss:

            • What women actually mean when they say they want a man to lead
            • How submission is often misunderstood and what it really looks like in healthy relationships
            • Whether “provision” is just about money or something deeper
            • Why spiritual maturity matters more than status or income
            • How to tell the difference between potential and a project
            • The kind of man women pray for, and how men can show up as that
            • Whether you're dating, healing, or praying for your future spouse, this one will challenge you, encourage you, and make you think deeply about the kind of love you’re building, and who you’re building it with.

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              1 hr 13 min
            • EP 27: Ask The Pastor: Love, Relationships & Purpose

              In this vulnerable and wide-ranging episode, Pastor James opens up about his journey from a selfish lifestyle and federal prison to discovering his true calling. He shares the hard lesson learned from a past "transactional" marriage where he tried to cover up a mistake rather than repent, leading to a quick annulment.

              "Ask the Pastor" panel featuring Carin, Oge, and Talonna, where they discuss the difference between Purpose (the destination), Vision (the roadmap), and Gift (the transportation). Pastor James explains why he turned down a "good" opportunity to be the chaplain for the Golden State Warriors because "good" is often the enemy of the "God thing". Finally, the group dives into relationship dynamics, discussing why couples must be "Root People, not Fruit People" to identify the deep-seated issues that mutate like a virus if left unchecked.

               

              Key Topics:

              • Redemption: How hitting rock bottom and prison forced a shift from selfishness to purpose.
              • The Marriage Impact: Why your spouse doesn't determine your purpose, but they dictate if you ever arrive at the destination.
              • Dating & Growth: How to test if a partner is truly "signed up for growth" by giving them a small assignment.
              • Self-Awareness: Why you cannot be fully self-aware without allowing someone else to call out your blind spots.
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                1 hr
              • EP 26: What Do Men Really Want?

                What do men really need to feel safe in a relationship? In this episode from Grace & Truth Talks, the conversation gets real about growth, humility, leadership, and the often-overlooked ability to submit when your partner is stronger than you in certain areas. This is a powerful and necessary discussion for anyone pursuing healthy love and purposeful partnership.

                The guys break down one of the most missing elements in modern relationships: growth, not just physical attraction, humility, or family values, but the intentional decision to evolve together. They explore how powerful it is when two people choose each other not just where they are, but where they’re going.

                 

                You’ll hear honest stories about:

                • Submitting ego when your partner is better in certain areas
                • Creating financial plans as a team
                • Why accountability and humility matter
                • The beauty of a woman who leads with elegance, wisdom, and presence
                • The struggle many couples face when it comes to saying “I’m sorry” and taking responsibility
                • The conversation is open, raw, and real, touching on the ego of men, the accountability blind spots of women, and the importance of introspection, spiritual character, and emotional maturity in relationships today. If you’ve ever wondered why great relationships fall apart, or what keeps strong couples growing together, this clip hits home.

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                  1 hr 11 min
                • EP 25: What Single Men Look For In A Wife

                  Everybody asks women what they want in a man, but this time, the fellas got the mic. In this raw and mature Grace & Truth episode, Pastor James sat down with three single men to have an honest conversation about what marriage-minded men actually look for in a wife, beyond looks, status or social media trends.

                  They talk humility, emotional safety, growth and how ego, pride, and timing shape the way men love and lead. It’s real, relevant and necessary. In this episode:

                  • The balance between strength, softness & submission

                  • How ego and pride affect love & leadership

                  • Emotional safety: why men shut down or open up

                  • Right woman, wrong season — when timing matters

                  • Modesty, femininity & what actually draws a godly man

                  This is one for the group chat! Send it to a friend who’s praying for “the one.” Don't forget to like, comment and share with someone who needs this! SUBSCRIBE for more real conversations on faith, love and relationships. Available now on all podcast platforms.

                  55 min
                • EP 24: Who’s The Prize?

                  On this episode of Grace & Truth, we are getting real about the difference between infatuation and mature, sacrificial love. We discuss why so many of us get stuck in relationships that move in circles rather than spiraling upward, and why "potential" is the most dangerous thing to fall in love with. Pastor James and Pastor Tiff share the blueprint for spotting "fruit" in a partner—looking past the material things to see character, discipline, and purpose.

                   

                  In this episode:

                  • The Reality Check: Why 85% of people who get into toxicity never come out of it.
                  • The Safety of Real Love: Why feeling emotionally safe is the ultimate indicator that you are with the right person.
                  • Financial & Emotional Red Flags: How selfishness shows up in small ways (like eating alone in the car!) and what it says about a person's character.
                  • The Law of Investment: Why you cannot reap a harvest where you haven't sown, but you must ensure the ground is fertile first.
                  • The final, liberating realization you must have: You must stop trusting God for the relationship and start trusting God with you and your future.
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                    1 hr 10 min

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