We can be SO OBSESSED with hunting down the splinters in each others’ eyes instead of dealing with the log in our own.
This obsession is a symptom of a wounded heart.
This obsession is a symptom of a life in need of grace.
Are we willing to let go?
Are we ready to live our lives on the path to a heart mended by beginning with understanding just how much we are already forgiven?
A good place to start is our own sense of self-identity with the truth of God’s grace?
Do we understand the our God has compassion for us?
Because God understands that we have lived our entire lives in a mixture of broken systems.
- we’ve been born and raised in a world that keeps track
- We are surrounded by leaders and messages and even theologies that tell us it’s okay to keep track—that the best way to live is with ledgers.
But there IS another way.
God already relates to us in that other way.
God’s grace is present with us to lead us into that other way if we are willing to let go of the way of ledgers and keeping track.
And…forgiveness is not only about the past.
There’s also foregiveness:
Romans 14 is Paul’s appeal to the churches in Rome who have differing ideas about what it means to be faithful
Paul says, “You don’t have to agree. That is not what we are called to do.”
What matters to God is not if you agree with each other, but if you are living as faithfully to God as you can in your own heart so that we can live together as family.
If a particular practice or behavior is truly right or wrong for you in your own heart, then act accordingly.
And…trust others to act accordingly, too.
(Trust God’s grace in your own life…and in others’ lives, too)
This doesn’t mean we permit anything and everything…
This isn’t an argument by Paul that everything is relative…
This a way to live right HERE and NOW that doesn’t keep track.
This about how to trust God’s grace through the Holy Spirit to get us all where we need to go.
Some people in our church are less developed in their faith:
They are new…
They are young in their faith…
They are growing…
They simply haven’t had the experience to understand all that they WILL one day when they have more experience and understanding.
So…until then…we are all to welcome each other into our space as we are…
Doing EVERYTHING we can to help each other learn and grow in our faith.
Those who are more experienced…more developed…more capable…stronger in their faith are to enter this space with less expectation of everyone…
…focused more on how to nurture unity than uniformity…
…giving of themselves to show love and grace and encouragement…
This is FORE-giveness.
This is how to live with a heart being mended.
And it all begins with understanding our own reality in God’s grace.
God has been at work through the Holy Spirit in all of our lives from the beginning.
God has worked in countless ways—some of which we are aware and some of which we are not.
Regardless…
A life of faith inevitably brings us to the awareness of God’s grace at work for us.
My siblings, when we can start our day…
Start a conversation…
Start the discernment process about someone who has wronged us…
Start an interaction with other people being founded upon God’s grace in our own lives, it changes everything.