According to James we cannot play favorites –by excluding people based on race, gender, status, job or any of the “OTHER” group. We can’t just put people in boxes and say you’re fake, or you’re poor. We have to remember WE ALL (not they, them, those people) feel lonely, sad; we can all pretend to be happy and be dying on the inside. How do we take “those people” out of the box and extend a compliment, a gesture, try and show them humanity.