Grayer & Gayer

In this conversation, David & Jeffrey, and their guest explore the complexities of love, relationships, and personal growth, particularly within the LGBTQ+ community. They discuss the importance of communication, the impact of aging on relationships, and the journey of self-discovery. The conversation also touches on the role of sexuality in relationships and offers advice for younger generations navigating love and intimacy.

Wise words from Whoopi: www.facebook.com/reel/1076065530829712

In this episode David and Jeffrey talk with Thompson Lang and explore the profound journey of grief experienced by the loss of his husband, Joe Vargo, during the COVID-19 pandemic. It delves into the unique challenges faced by the LGBTQ community in navigating loss, the impact of shared history, and the importance of community support. Thompson shares heartfelt memories, the struggles of grieving alone, and the process of rediscovering life and love after loss. The discussion highlights the ongoing nature of grief, the lessons learned, and the ways in which Thompson honors Joe's memory while embracing new experiences.

In this conversation, David, Jeffrey, along with guest Nancy Beverly explore the themes of hiking, aging, and the importance of maintaining physical and mental health through outdoor activities. They discuss personal experiences with hiking, the challenges of aging, and the significance of community and connection in outdoor pursuits. The conversation emphasizes the need for mindfulness, the benefits of staying active, and the role of technology in ensuring safety while hiking. Ultimately, the discussion highlights the joy of being in nature and the importance of making conscious choices for a fulfilling life.

Nancy Beverly's Novel: ⁠Shelby's Vacation ⁠»

Palm Springs Hiking Trails: ⁠visitpalmsprings.com⁠ »

In this conversation, David & Jeffrey discuss the importance of legal rights and advocacy for LGBTQ seniors. They cover topics such as estate planning, healthcare proxies, and the role of wills and trusts. They emphasize the need for LGBTQ seniors to regularly review and update their end-of-life documents. The conversation also touches on the fear of aging and the importance of having an advocate. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of legal security and peace of mind for LGBTQ seniors.

Five Wishes: Developed as an advance care plan (ACP) to address personal, emotional, and spiritual wishes, in addition to medical treatment.

https://www.fivewishes.org

NOLO: Information and tools that help people from all walks of life resolve their legal issues.

https://www.nolo.com

FreeWill: providing free access to will-making service.

Freewill.com

In this conversation, David & Jeffrey discuss the importance of creative expression and art in our lives. They talk about  how they found fulfillment through their creative pursuits. They emphasize the need for creative outlets and how they contribute to personal happiness and fulfillment while also discussing the impact of art on child development and the benefits of art classes. Overall, the conversation highlights the universality and significance of creativity in all aspects of life, the importance of art in healing, pursuing creative passions, leaving a legacy, and advice to younger selves. 

Banksky Girl w/Red Balloon: youtu.be/2kTwpOxEgzM?si=Dgx2r2DrSCCfHVsr⁠

Max Alexander ⁠maxalexander.shop⁠, ⁠youtube.com/shorts/pE_55kxbzKQ?si=BQIJET_gCZ7HHJGC⁠

National Gallery of Art LGBTQ section nga.gov/features/lgbtq-queer-artists-art-history.html⁠ 

Watch: Where The Bears Are: wherethebearsare.tv⁠

Joe Dietl Art: dietlart.com⁠

Ben Zook - The Dirty Show featuring America's favorite actor-singer-dancer-psychic, Sklyer Gentry!: facebook.com/thedirtyshowwithskylergentry/⁠

Rick Copp - Actor - Author - Producer - Screenwriter: rickcopp.com

In this episode David & Jeffrey focus on building community among queer people and fostering intergenerational connections. They discuss, along with Millennial Luke Elick, the importance of role models and mentorship, as well as the challenges faced by younger generations in finding affordable housing and fitting into the gay community. They also touched on the acceptance of bisexuality and the impact of technology on social interactions. Overall, the conversation emphasized the need for individuals to take initiative in creating and supporting LGBTQ+ communities.

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Camp Lost Boys

⁠www.camplostboys.org⁠

Camp Lost Boys is a traditional summer sleep-away camp for men of transgender experience over the age of 18.

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GLAAD

glaad.org/transgender/resources/

List of Resources for Transgender People

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The LGBTQ Community Center of the Desert

⁠thecentercv.org⁠

Creating vibrant community by helping LGBTQ+ people along their way.

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CenterLink, The Community of LGBTQ Centers

www.lgbtqcenters.org

CenterLink is an international nonprofit organization and member-based association of LGBTQ centers and other LGBTQ organizations serving their local and regional communities.

Grayer & Gayer Show: In this episode the conversation revolves around the topic of Pride events and their relevance in today's society. David & Jeffrey discuss their personal experiences with Pride and the importance of embracing one's sexual orientation and gender identity. They also interview a guest, Mitch Battersby, who shares his involvement in Pride and the impact it has had on his life. The conversation touches on the history of Pride and the need for safe spaces for the LGBTQ+ community. The hosts also mention the upcoming Palm Springs Pride event and encourage listeners to get involved and volunteer.

Volunteer for Palm Springs Pride at: www.eventeny.com/events/festival-2024-10668/

Grayer & Gayer Show: In this first episode David & Jeffrey will share who they are and why they decided to create this podcast. They'll introduce their regular contributor, Derek Lenington, who will serve as their financial coach to help with discussions of retirement and financial planning.