Grief & Pizza

In this episode, we spoke with fellow Notion pro, educator, and project management expert Monica Lim about productivity and life including strategies on handling and recognizing burnout. Check out this episode if, like Monica, you love learning and making things happen!

Links

• MonicaLim.co
• @MonicaLim on Twxtter

Takeaways

• Volunteering in high-pressure situations, such as firefighting, can help build resilience and reduce nervousness in other areas of life.
• Teaching experience can provide valuable skills for public speaking, as it involves helping others understand and learn.
• Managing ADHD requires finding strategies for prioritization and focusing on important tasks.
• Developing principles for decision making can help in prioritizing and avoiding distractions.
• Helping others can be fulfilling, but it's important to set boundaries and prioritize personal well-being. Burnout is a state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion caused by excessive or prolonged stress.
• Recognizing the signs of burnout and implementing strategies for recovery is crucial in managing and preventing burnout.
• Creating ideal days and rituals can help maintain balance and prevent burnout.
• AI can be a valuable tool in offsetting burnout, particularly in research and decision-making. Curiosity can lead to a deeper understanding of AI and automation.
• Automation can make tasks feel like magic and increase productivity.
• Learning to code can provide more control and power in automating processes.
• It is important to identify areas that can be automated and find the entry point to automation.
• Prioritizing learning and having a specific goal or project in mind can help determine the value of learning to code.

Creators & Guests

Thomas Frank has been leveraging his learning through multiple businesses and media channels. Today he joins the Oki Doki team to talk about Notion, life, and his new knowledge capture tool, Flylighter.

Links

• Flylighter
• Thomas Frank on YouTube
• Thomas Frank Explains on YouTube
• Learn Notion with Thomas

Takeaways

• Transitioning from content creation to software development can be challenging, and it's important to recognize your strengths and delegate tasks that are not in your wheelhouse.
• Building a team and finding the right people to work with is crucial for the success of a business.
• When pricing a software product, it's important to consider the value it provides to users and gather feedback to determine the optimal pricing model.
• The future of software development lies in modular and flexible tools that can adapt to users' needs and integrate with various platforms.
• Structured play is an effective way to learn and explore new topics, allowing for experimentation and discovery. Breaking the habit of checking the phone first thing in the morning can lead to a more productive start to the day.
• Living without smartphones for a significant part of one's life can provide perspective on the need for constant connectivity.
• Changing focus and obsessions can lead to new creative outlets and a shift in mindset.
• Being closer to family and having a sense of community can be important factors in making decisions about where to live.

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In this episode, Mariah shared her unique approaches to content creation, exploring the ease and effectiveness of podcasting as a marketing channel. She reflects on her business pivots and the transition to a new business structure that allows for more spaciousness and personal growth, discussing her transition from a CEO role to a Creator-Founder role. She also shares her desire to experiment and try new things, which led her to downsize her team and focus on her own creativity. So much amazing learning in one episode; what a treat!

Links

• MariahCoz.com

Chapters

• (00:00) - Mariah Interview

• Creating a neurodivergent-friendly business involves designing processes and systems that accommodate individual needs and mental health challenges.
• Focusing on substance over aesthetics in content creation can lead to faster and more efficient production.
• Podcasting can be an easy and effective marketing channel, providing a platform for sharing ideas and connecting with an audience.
• Transitioning from ads to podcasting can offer more freedom and flexibility in content creation and delivery.
• Reevaluating roles and creating spaciousness in business can lead to personal growth and a more sustainable approach to work. Transitioning from a CEO role to a creator role requires making changes to the way programs are delivered and the structure of the business.
• Embracing change and experimentation is essential for personal and professional growth.
• There is a difference between a "Creator" founder and a CEO, and it's important to understand one's own strengths and desires.
• The creator CEO role requires elasticity and the ability to transition between different roles and responsibilities.
• Fear of visibility can hold back growth, but saying yes to new opportunities can lead to personal and professional development.

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Marie Ng, founder of Llama Life, shares her journey from advertising to software development and the challenges and successes she encountered along the way. She discusses the importance of building a customer base and the resonance of her product with the ADHD community.

Links

• LlamaLife.co
• Marie on Twitter

Chapters

• (00:00) - Living the Llama Life with Marie Ng

 
Takeaways

• Transitioning from one career to another requires dedication and a willingness to learn new skills.
• Building a customer base requires effective marketing strategies and resonating with a specific target audience.
• Seeking funding can provide opportunities for growth and expansion.
• Hiring the right team members is crucial for filling skill gaps and supporting the growth of the business. Hiring is a challenging and time-consuming process, but having prior experience working with someone can help ensure a good fit.
• Design and branding play a crucial role in creating a distinct and enjoyable user experience.
• Creating a supportive team environment with open communication and low ego is essential for managing ADHD as a founder.
• Entrepreneurship allows for more control over one's work environment and the ability to solve personal problems.
• Building and scaling a product involves making decisions and managing tech debt, but it's important to prioritize and focus on the customer experience.

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In this episode, we talked to Khe Hy, discussing his identity journey and transition to a post-achievement career. We explored the evolution of his interests and the challenges of defying audience expectations. Khe offered insights on success, creative expression, and time management, delving into post-achievement, and noting that financial success doesn't guarantee deep satisfaction.

Links

• RadReads
• Examined Life Podcast
• Khe on Twitter

Chapters

• (00:00) - Introduction

• Transitioning identities is a natural part of personal and professional growth.
• Post-achievement professionals question the traditional playbook of achievement and seek deeper satisfaction and contentment.
• Success should be defined by personal values and principles, not just financial achievements.
• Grieving and letting go of identities is an important process in personal growth and finding fulfillment. 
• Investing in relationships and seeking therapy can lead to personal growth and a deeper understanding of oneself and others.
• Psychedelic therapy can provide profound insights and experiences that can positively impact relationships and personal development.
• Integration and reflection are important after therapy experiences to fully process and apply the insights gained.
• Changing one's relationship with stakes and embracing challenges can lead to personal growth and a healthier perspective on success.

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In this episode, we spoke with Jonny Miller, the mind behind Nervous System Mastery, about the critical role of understanding our nervous system. Jonny shared insights from his personal journey through grief, leading him to delve into the connections between emotions, physicality, breathwork, and the nervous system. He introduced the concept of interoception and its importance in building emotional resilience, alongside the complexities involved in teaching and sharing the nuances of mastering our nervous systems. 

Our conversation also ventured into the realms of psychedelics and their potential to deepen our connection with our nervous systems, the impact of COVID-19 on professional life, and the hurdles faced while scaling an online course. Jonny's story is a testament to the power of curiosity, the expression of emotions, and the search for joy in times of sorrow.

Links

• Nervous System Mastery
• Curious Humans Podcast
• Jonny on Twitter

Chapters

• (00:00) - Nervous System Mastery with Jonny Miller

• Understanding and mastering the nervous system is essential for emotional resilience and overall well-being.
• Grief and burnout can be transformative experiences that lead to personal growth and a deeper understanding of oneself.
• Interoception, the ability to notice and interpret bodily sensations, is a key aspect of emotional awareness and regulation.
• Communicating the concepts and practices of nervous system mastery can be challenging, but finding relatable language and using personal experiences can help make it more accessible. Interoception is gaining more attention in the research community, with studies showing its correlation with conditions like ADHD and PTSD.
• Measuring interoception can be done through assessments like the MAIA, which evaluates different areas of interoceptive capacity.
• Psychedelics, like MDMA and ayahuasca, can play a role in nervous system healing by surfacing incomplete reflexes and providing a space for emotional completion.
• Teaching and guiding others in emotional exploration requires setting boundaries and referring individuals to somatic therapists when necessary.
• Grief can be a transformative experience that leads to a deeper understanding of joy and connection.
• Future plans include in-person retreats and strategic collaborations with freelancers or contractors.
• Challenges include prioritizing projects, investing in assets that appreciate over time, and maintaining a sustainable and enjoyable approach to teaching and scaling the course.

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In this conversation, Sara Campbell discusses her work as a coach and her mission to help people develop a strong relationship with themselves. She shares her journey of becoming who she is meant to be and the importance of removing layers of who we are not. Sara also talks about the lessons she has learned from Zen Buddhism, emphasizes the value of living out loud and sharing vulnerability, as well as the importance of self-compassion and overcoming self-criticism.

Links

• SaraCampbell.co
• Tiny Revolutions
• Sara on Twitter

Chapters

• (00:00) - Becoming Unkillable with Sara Campbell

• Developing a strong relationship with oneself is essential for personal growth and fulfillment.
• Becoming who you are means removing layers of who you are not.
• Zen Buddhism and the Bodhisattva vow teach the importance of mindfulness, self-acceptance, and treating oneself and others with respect and care.
• Living out loud and sharing vulnerability can create connections and help others feel less alone.
• Practicing self-compassion and overcoming self-criticism are crucial for personal well-being.
• Getting started with meditation can be done through apps like Headspace, Calm, and Waking Up. Start a meditation practice by using meditation apps or attending local meditation centers.
• Take action and start somewhere, even if it's small, to avoid getting overwhelmed by choices.
• Simplify belongings and focus on actions rather than material possessions.
• Set intentions and goals to guide your actions and progress.
• Experiment and embrace emergence in your personal and professional development.
• Consider podcasting as a medium to share ideas and engage with listeners.
• Integrate podcasting into courses and coaching programs to enhance the learning experience.

Creators & Guests

Barrett Brooks, former COO of ConvertKit and now an executive coach, shared his deep connection with nature and the significance of confronting past pain. He reflected on the complexities and rewards of executive coaching, the balance between coaching and personal creative work, and the necessity of personal growth and clear professional agreements.

Barrett discussed his own experience of leaving a company, highlighting the lessons learned about boundaries, contracts, and the challenges posed by conflicting desires for company growth. He stressed the importance of navigating company departures, processing grief, and understanding the interplay between grief and joy.

Additionally, he talked about his future plans, including writing a memoir and starting a podcast.

Links

• BarrettBrooks.com
• BarrettABrooks on Twitter

References

• Richard Schwatz - No Bad Parts
• Reboot Coaching
• Emotion Sensation Wheel
• Francis Weller - Wild Edge of Sorrow
• Ruthie Ackerman
• Maggie Smith - You Could Make This Place Beautiful

Chapters

• (00:00) - Introduction

• Nature can have a profound impact on our well-being and should be protected.
• Acknowledging and integrating past pain is essential for personal growth and success.
• Coaching can be a valuable tool for individuals to navigate their personal and professional challenges.
• Creating space for personal growth and creative pursuits is crucial for maintaining balance and fulfillment. Having clear boundaries and a contract is essential when entering into agreements.
• Incompatible desires for company growth can lead to conflict and ultimately the decision to part ways.
• Navigating the complexity of leaving a company requires open communication and a willingness to process emotions.
• Grief and joy are interconnected, and allowing oneself to fully experience grief can lead to a deeper appreciation of joy.
• Writing and ritual can be powerful tools for processing grief and creating closure.
• Storytelling and making meaning are important for personal growth and understanding.
• Creating a beautiful future involves healing and integrating past pain.
• Writing a memoir and starting a podcast can be powerful ways to share personal experiences and inspire others.

Creators & Guests

Joe Hudson discusses the impact of the Art of Accomplishment courses and the relationship between productivity and emotions, emphasizing the importance of embracing intensity and finding ease in decision-making. Joe also introduces the VIEW framework and its role in creating productive conflict and making informed decisions. He highlights the transformation that occurs when individuals allow themselves to fully feel and accept their emotions.

Links

• Great Decisions Course
• Art of Accomplishment
• Joe Hudson on Twitter

Chapters

• (00:00) - Introduction

Takeaways

• Embracing intensity and finding ease in decision-making can lead to greater productivity and personal growth.
• Creating a culture of productive conflict can improve communication and relationships within teams and organizations.
• The VIEW framework, which stands for vulnerability, impartiality, empathy, and wonder, can enhance communication and decision-making.
• Allowing oneself to fully feel and accept emotions can lead to transformative experiences and expanded emotional range.
• Choosing compassion over constriction allows for a more open heart and a deeper understanding of others.
• Translating in-person work to an online platform can be challenging but can also have a significant impact.
• Word-of-mouth referrals are the primary source of new students, highlighting the transformative nature of the courses.
• Creating alignment and consistency in all aspects of the work is more important than focusing on short-term success.
• Joe envisions a platform that goes beyond his own teachings, with a community of individuals who have done the work and can contribute their unique perspectives.
• The best way to access Joe Hudson's work is through the Art of Accomplishment website and his podcast, as well as upcoming YouTube content.
• Transitioning and figuring out what's next can be challenging, but it allows for growth and new opportunities.
• Collaboration and sharing experiences can help support and amplify the impact of the work.

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