Fourth of July 2020...Can happiness and sorrow coexist on holidays and other festive occasions? Can you open the door just a bit to create a little hope?

Do you believe that your beloved was taken too soon? And is that a painful belief? Is there any other way to look at it that might bring peace instead of pain?

Do you receive signs and messages from your loved one?

Is keeping busy the path to healing? Does Keeping busy fix the hole in your heart? No, but there is a path to healing.

Words have power. The story you tell yourself is the story you live. The beliefs that you hold onto become your words. Your words become your story. The story you tell yourself either brings you pain or gives you peace. What story are you telling yourself?

Have you ever wanted God to do life your way? Have you ever prayed for a miracle? How do you define a miracle? Have you ever considered that a shift in perception might bring you peace? Let's unpack these big questions and find answers that bring peace.

Tom answers life's fundamental questions. Asking and answering these question until you find the answers that bring you peace instead of pain is a path to healing.

Healing is not a matter of strength. In order to heal you must give yourself permission to mourn. You must give yourself permission to feel the feelings and to ask the questions.

Sit down and breathe. Your heart wants to tell the story of your beloved over and over and over again until it no longer needs to. That is how you take in what has happened. That is a path to healing. Come sit down. I will listen.

When someone we dearly, dearly, dearly love leaves this world it cracks us wide open. It leaves us with questions that we need to answer. Those answers allow us to put the pieces of our life together in a way that brings us peace.