Imposter syndrome rarely shows up when you’re doing something easy. It shows up right before you do something that matters: raise your rates, pitch the client, post the content, lead the room, take up space.
And self-sabotage usually doesn’t look like quitting. It looks like delay, perfectionism, overthinking, and “just one more tweak” — the tidy, plausible habits that keep capable women stuck.
In this episode of Grit & Grace, we unpack imposter syndrome and self-sabotage in a grounded, practical way — without hype and without fluff. You’ll learn how to recognise the moment the thought hits (“Who do you think you are?”), why self-sabotage often disguises itself as productivity, and how to build confidence the only way that actually works: evidence and follow-through.
In this episode, we cover:
- What imposter syndrome really is (and why it spikes before a level-up)
- A vivid example of self-sabotage in disguise: the late-night “website tweak” spiral
- The three most common sabotage patterns: perfectionism, preparation-as-procrastination, and overcommitting
- The practical reset: “do it scared, do it small”
- The CEO Evidence Method: name it, collect evidence, take the next step within 48 hours
- A simple 7-day challenge to stop obeying the thought and start building a track record
Disclaimer: This episode is general information only and does not take into account your personal circumstances. It is not financial or tax advice. Please seek advice specific to your situation.