You know, we get caught up in toxic relationships.We get stuck in complacency.We settle for the same old same old, even if it makes us miserable...and we stay cuz it’s comfortable.But guess what bro, people grow apart, plain and simple.Nothing stays the same.Not people, places, or thingsEverything has a life cycle it’s just how it is. But sometimes...Well actually, most of the time, one person grows and the other one doesn’t and that’s how we break apart at the seams. That’s how you get stuck, feeling left out.But you need to know it’s not you, it’s them. And it’s not them, it’s you.Either way, both of your needs to moves to a different frequency, obviously. And it’s important to know that if you go too low in your frequency, it will affect how you feel about yourself, and that will make the changes harder than they need to beSo if that’s you, then you need to accept that the changes are for the best. And I know it might be hard to see that when the wounds are fresh. When your Monster is out, ready to attack. To get back. But you have to do your best to let yourself see that they aren’t the one for you. If they were then you would still be together.If they were right for you, they’d fight for you. They’d be there no matter what. They’d give up all the other stuff that keeps you separate.They would make you their number one.They wouldn’t break trust. They wouldn’t lie and they wouldn’t sneak out at night, to hook up with someone on the side.And you wouldn't do any of those things either. So I guess what I’m tryna say is, don’t expect relationships to stay the same because that's insane. And don’t make one person your only source of happiness, OK? Because that will never make you happy in the way you really want...the way you think.What you really want is YourSelf.Who's that?Well, that’s what you need to find out. I'm out. SOCIAL MEDIA // @ArtistSarahLong artistsarahlong.com artistsarahlongstore.com  EMAIL // [email protected]