The Weekly Hot Spot

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The Weekly Hot Spot is a podcast hosted by Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika, with fabulous guests.. These women are active in the real-life fetish scene and do Distance Domination on the phone. Hear cand... more

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November 10, 2025 Kink for Dummies with Dr. Jaime Grant
Ever found yourself whispering a desire into the phone, prefacing it with, “You’re probably going to think I’m weird for this…”? If so, you’re far from alone. On this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Mistresses Olivia and Erika sit down with a true leader in the world of sexuality and relationships, Dr. Jaime Grant, to dismantle that very notion and explore the empowering landscape of kink.

Dr. Grant, a renowned research activist, relationship coach, and author of pivotal works like Great Sex: Mapping Your Desire and Polyamory for Dummies, joins us to discuss her latest essential guide, Kink for Dummies.

The conversation immediately delves into one of the most common hurdles for newcomers: the fear of being "weird." Dr. Grant brilliantly reframes kink not as an anomaly but as a deeply rooted part of human history and desire, sharing fascinating insights about "ancient kinksters" that will change how you view your own longings.

We focus on a question we hear constantly from listeners and callers alike:
How do I talk to my partner about kink?
This is where Dr. Grant’s expertise truly shines. She offers compassionate, practical advice for navigating these vulnerable conversations, whether you're in a long-term partnership or a new situationship.

She emphasizes the importance of building "faith in yourself" first, suggesting that sometimes the safest initial step is to find community and gather information outside the primary relationship to fortify your own understanding. As Mistress Olivia reflects, this often aligns with why individuals turn to Dommes like us for distance domination – it provides a structured, judgment-free space to explore without the complications of daily life.

Other topics include:
The ‘desire discordant’ couple and finding a ‘third way’ that honors the needs of both partners.
How to realistically create compromise in relationships.
The transformative power of kink and how exploring kink can become a radical act of self-reclamation. Dr. Grant says: “We’re dealt a hard hand around sexuality, but we get to play it however we want—for our own gratification.” That’s the promise of kink: not escape, but reclamation.
Using safe words in BDSM scenes, including the point that using a safe word isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s an act of profound communication and self-care that strengthens the entire dynamic.

This episode is a masterclass in normalizing kinky desire and providing the tools to integrate it into your life with confidence and safety. Dr. Grant’s wisdom, combined with our own experiences from the front lines of phone sex and distance domination, creates a dialogue that is both intellectually stimulating and deeply practical.

Ready to explore your desires with more clarity and courage?
What’s the one kinky desire you’ve been most nervous to voice?
We’d love to hear from you.

Books by Dr. Jaime Grant on Amazon
Kink for Dummies
Polyamory for Dummies
Great Sex: Mapping your Desire

Contact us:
Mistress Olivia: [email protected]
TwitterX: @MistressOlivia1. Blue Sky: @MsOlivia
Blog: Experienced Mistress

Mistress Erika: [email protected]
TwitterX and Blue Sky: @ErikaEnchantrix
Blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

MEET DR. JAIME GRANT
Friday, November 21 at Red Emma's Bookstore in Baltimore
Dr. Grant and her co-author Jack Harrison-Quintana do exercises from the book and share bits of their kink highlight reels.

Wednesday evening, January 21, 8pm at the Washington Hilton Hotel, as part of the Creating Change Conference.
Dr. Grant and her co-author Jack Harrison-Quintana read from Kink for Dummies and share tips.

From late January through mid-March, Dr. Grant will be at the SketchPad Artist's residency in Hyannis Mass, offering Desire Mapping open studios every Saturday.

Book readings on the Cape in this period TBD.

Friday April 24th @ 7:30pm, at Charis Books in Atlanta, Dr. Grant will talk about Kink for Dummies with Ignacio Rivera, technical editor on the book, and two kink story contributors, Asha Leong and tia marie.

Reach out to Dr. Grant for readings or coaching at [email protected] and catch her podcast at www.justsexpodcast.com

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November 03, 2025 When Someone You Love Is Kinky: Love, Fear, and the Power of Acceptance with Janet Hardy
Today’s episode isn’t just a podcast about kink or BDSM – it’s a masterclass in emotional courage, vulnerability and redefining power in loving relationships. Author / kink educator, Janet Hardy helps to bridge the chasm between “normalcy” and kink.

Listener questions drive this episode and you’re likely to hear your own worries in their questions. You don’t have to be kinky to benefit from these insights - many of these issues are universal challenges in life: how do you be vulnerable enough to speak what you want and is it always a good idea to be blunt?

We begin with this question: “What if a woman struggles to own her power because of cultural beliefs?” As Footstool so poignantly puts it, many men fantasize about their vanilla partner becoming their Mistress — but how does she step into dominance when a lifetime of conditioning whispers, “Be nice. Be passive. Don’t lead.”? Janet offers a compassionate, no-nonsense response: Dominance isn’t about dominance — it’s about responsibility, clarity, and self-awareness. You don’t need to be born a Domme. You become one — through practice, reflection, and permission to shed old scripts.

Then came Wellspanked’s dilemma: “When negotiating spanking, should we talk technique and intensity beforehand — clinically — or let it unfold in the heat of the moment?” The tension here is real: too much planning kills the spark; too little, and safety frays. Janet reminds us that true eroticism thrives in the space between trust and structure. Yes — talk logistics outside the scene. But leave room for improvisation within it. A safe word isn’t a buzzkill — it’s the foundation of freedom.

One of our listeners, Ben, shared a fear so common it aches: “If my partner rejects my kinks, is the relationship irrevocably broken?” Janet’s answer? No — but it might need to evolve. Rejection isn’t always final. Sometimes, it’s the first step toward honest dialogue. What matters isn’t immediate acceptance — it’s willingness to listen, to be curious,and to try. What do you do if you get bad news? Janet has an honest answer - the relationship may need to change form — or end — with dignity.

Then came the knife-edge question: “Can a partner ever see you as equal after extreme degradation?” This cuts to the heart of humiliation play — one of the most misunderstood, feared, and exciting dynamics in kink. Janet doesn’t flinch. She explains that the power of degradation lies not in the words, but in the aftercare. It’s not about erasing dignity — it’s about temporarily suspending it, with consent, for shared catharsis. And yes — equality returns, if both partners honor the reintegration. The scene ends. The love remains.

Erika then turned to Janet’s latest work — Notes on an Aging Pervert — a book that’s “funny, sad, mind-bending.” She asked: Which essay was a lightbulb moment — for you or someone you love? Janet shared a story about aging, desire, and the myth of the “perfect scene.”

The real magic, Janet said, isn’t in the play — it’s in what happens after:
How do you come back to each other?
How do you integrate the intensity?
That’s where connection deepens — not in the whip, but in the whisper that follows.

We closed with a truth that resonates through every episode of The Weekly Hot Spot podcast: Kink isn’t an escape from love — it’s a path into it. Deeper. Messier. More honest.

If you’ve ever feared being “too much,” or worried you’re “not enough,” this conversation is for you.
Tune in. Listen closely. And ask yourself: What would it feel like to be truly seen — kinks and all?
Janet Hardy’s website
When Someone You Love is Kinky
The Ethical Slut
Radical Ecstasy

Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
[email protected]

Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
[email protected]

DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika
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32min
October 27, 2025Ethical Sluts & Radical Ecstasy: Desire, Consent, and Coming Into Power with Janet Hardy
What happens when surrender becomes sacred? When boundaries are not barriers—but bridges to deeper intimacy? Meet one of the most influential voices in modern kink culture. Janet Hardy is today’s guest. She’s the co-author of the revolutionary The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures and Radical Ecstasy: SM Journeys to Transcendence … to name just two of her books. She has a wealth of knowledge and experience.

Listeners of The Weekly Hot Spot podcast, sent in a lot of questions and inspired this intimate conversation.
Topics include:
The intersections of power, pain, love and liberation.
Myths and fears about ethical non-monogamy in kink spaces.
Details about the new Workbook for The Ethical Slut.

When Janet shares about how real change begins with honest self-inquiry, not permission from others, all three women talk about claiming their own personal erotic power.
What does it mean to really choose who you are in your relationships?
And, what is beyond tolerating a relationship. Hint: it’s not always easy or safe to open up to this view of love and pleasure. Janet talks about building emotional resilience when having these vulnerable conversations.

You’ll hear Mistress Olivia’s personal reflection on how Radical Ecstasy transformed her understanding of Dominance and submission — not as control, but as co-created surrender. “Pain is not the goal. Surrender is.” That one line shifted everything. Together, they explore how power exchange is one of the most intimate acts we’re capable of — a dance where trust becomes tangible, and vulnerability becomes strength.

We also tackle real listener questions:
A trans woman shares her experience of feeling Dominant with male partners and submissive with female ones — is this a known dynamic? Janet offers thoughtful insight into gendered power dynamics and erotic archetypes.
For the nervous beginner — especially the "vanilla wife" being asked to step into Dominance — what are the real fears women face? Spoiler: It’s not about lack of interest. It’s about responsibility, judgment, and the weight of expectation.
And then… the eternal debate: Who’s really in control — the Domme or the sub? Janet’s answer may surprise you. (Hint: It’s not a power struggle — it’s a paradox.)
Finally, for those walking the spiritual edge of kink, we explore how to distinguish emotional overwhelm from authentic spiritual surrender — because not every tear in a scene is transcendence. Some are signals. Learning the difference? That’s where true mastery begins.

This episode isn’t just for kinksters. It’s for anyone who’s ever loved deeply, feared openly, or longed to be seen. It’s about coming into power — not over others, but within yourself.

Janet Hardy Website
The Ethical Slut
Radical Ecstasy

Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
[email protected]

Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
[email protected]

DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika
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37min
October 20, 2025Wired to Obey? How a Submissive Sissy Finds Power in Pleasing a Femdom Mistress
Today’s episode is an intimate dive into one of the most misunderstood — yet deeply rewarding — dynamics in the world of Femdom and distance domination: the submissive sissy.
Spoiler: It’s not just about lace, lipstick, or humiliation.
It’s about surrender, self-discovery, and the quiet power found in your devotion to your Mistress.

Have you ever asked yourself:
“Why do I feel drawn to this role?”
“Is wanting to serve a woman… weak?”
“How do I truly become the sissy my Mistress deserves?”
…then this episode is your permission slip to lean in.

What We Explore:
Why not all sissies are submissive — and not all submissives are sissies
The emotional and psychological journey of embracing feminization
How a true Femdom Mistress guides, shapes, and transforms her sissy
The paradox of control: giving up power to gain freedom
The sacred art of being of service — beyond just sex or chores
Why communication is the most important part of a D/s relationship
Navigating boundaries, vulnerability, and trust in a D/s dynamic
The myth of “more is better” — and why following her lead beats initiative every time
And the big one: How submission changes you… and how the submissive also changes Mistress.
Remember, it's not about escaping who you are — it’s about uncovering who you were meant to be under the gaze of a woman who sees you, owns you, and refines you.

A skilled Femdom Mistress doesn’t just dominate — she mentors.
She holds space for your fears, your shame, and your curiosity.
Above all, she rewrites your future whether you are:
New to sissy training
Stuck in a cycle of self-sabotage or secret shame
Or already serving but craving deeper connection and purpose
…this episode will remind you:
You’re not broken. You’re becoming.

Get in touch:
Mistress Olivia:
email: [email protected]
Discord: LDWOlivia
Twitter X: @MistressOlivia1
blog: ExperiencedMistress.com

Mistress Erika:
email: [email protected]
Discord: LDWErika
Twitter X: @ErikaEnchantrix
blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
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29min
October 13, 2025 Kinky Halloween: Dressed by Mistress
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika crack open the candy bowl of taboo for this episode which is inspired by a listener question. Jen Jenn asks about sissy costume suggestions for Halloween and your Femdom hosts decide to talk about all sorts of fun, festive and naughty costumes.

First though, we go off on safari about CANDY CORN.

This is the perfect holiday for feminization in public.
We give some specific ideas how you can be femme and get away with your sissy play at a Halloween party.

Costume ideas for sissies:
a Hooters Girl
slutty costumes
comics cosplay
and more.

Speaking of cosplay, a perfect blend of feminization and humiliation bondage could be a Harley Quinn costume with literal restraints!

Hear what each Mistress is thinking about for her Halloween costume.
We also talk about blending BDSM, kink and creativity for this fun holiday.

Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
[email protected]

Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
[email protected]

DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Available for phone or texting sessions
800-356-6169
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31min
October 06, 2025 The FILTHY MILFS return to talk blow jobs, sexy lingerie, having great sex and exploring BDSM
Ellen Ancui and Sophie Levine, hosts of the new podcast FILTHY MILFS return to have a candid conversation about sex, foreplay, power exchange, kink and more. If you’ve ever seen a group of women having a fun, lively conversation and wondered what they’re talking about then you’re in luck.

This is like we’re all sitting around with cocktails and dishing about:
Blow Jobs
How to make cum taste good
Reaction of women to sucking cock
Snowballing and cum eating

Sharing erotic fantasies with your partner
Intimacy and great sex
Sexual wellness
Aging and keeping sex juicy and exciting

Normalizing the conversation around all aspects of sex
Being open minded about different kinds of erotic pleasure
Swingers lifestyle
Taking viagra for phone sex sessions
Sex work and sex workers
Luxury lingerie and why it's so fun to dress up.

Finally, we have a conversation about women and power. Could either or both of these ladies want to be a Femdom? We talk about myths and misconceptions about BDSM as well as the relaxation and release for the submissive.

FILTHY MILFS podcast is available on all podcast platforms, YouTube, Instagram, Facebook and maybe even Linkedin.
Here’s the link to FILTHY MILFS on Spotify

Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
[email protected]

Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
[email protected]

DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika

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33min
September 29, 2025 Meet the FILTHY MILFS, stars of a new podcast of the same name.
They say they’re FILTHY and MILFY and this is a new podcast you will thoroughly enjoy! Ellen Ancui and Sophie Levine are the FILTHY MILFS. Sophie says, “We’re just a couple of randy, curious, highly intelligent horny ladies.” What a fun conversation!

Topics include:
The power of female sexuality
Embracing the SLUT label
Social standards for the sexual behavior of women
Self empowerment that comes with BDSM, kink, Femdom, and sex work.
Sexual pleasure and aging

Exploring the popularity of MILFS
Sexually experienced women and confidence.
What did family and friends think of the name of the podcast?

Join us for this uncensored and intimate conversation with the FILTHY MILFS.

Look for the FILTHY MILFS podcast on all the podcast platforms and Youtube!
Here’s the FILTHY MILFS on Spotify

Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
[email protected]

Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

[email protected]

DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika
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42min
September 22, 2025 Pleasure And Pain: the Femdom Guide To Rough Kink
What is rough kink or BDSM pain play? What makes that different from other kinds of rough sex? Why does a Femdom enjoy delivering pain? This episode explores pleasure and pain to answer listener questions about BDSM.

Topics include:
What is rough kink in the framework of BDSM pain play?
How rough does it need to be to be considered BDSM?
Who gets to define it?
What are some of the items used in rough kink?
Does someone need a spanking or CBT to be considered pain play?

How do you know you’re ready to explore rough kink?
How do you communicate with your partner?
The role of BDSM negotiation in safe scenes.
What is a safe word and how does it apply in BDSM?
How does a Mistress gauge when to push your boundaries?
What sorts of questions should a Dominatrix ask you before pain play?

BDSM terms:
SSC: safe, sane and consensual
RACK: risk-aware consensual kink
PRICK: personal responsibility, informed, consensual kink or personally responsible in consensual kink.
AndThe 4 C’s: caring, communication consent and caution.

The importance of aftercare for the submissive and the Mistress.

Personal stories, behind the scenes of Distance Domination, and more. You never know what you’ll hear and we appreciate you enjoying the podcast!

Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress

Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika
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33min
September 15, 2025 Behind the scenes with famous trans porn star Eva Maxim
Popular adult entertainer with multiple accolades from AVN, XBIZ and Transgender Erotica Awards (just to name a few) returns to the podcast to talk about the porn industry, changes in the adult industry and being in control of her career.

Topics include:
Why being a porn star used to be more glamorous.
The role of Only Fans in changing the porn industry.
How Only Fans allows adult entertainers to connect directly with fans.
Creating custom adult content on demand.

Being a trans woman in the adult industry:
Exploring sex, sexuality and a variety of partners
Dating while being in the adult industry
Objectification as a trans woman
Objectification as a sex worker
Coming out to her conservative family

Being a business woman:
Ways in which the adult industry allows for financial freedom
Why working for a porn studio is often not worth it
Being part of the all trans cast of the Lily Wachowski’s sci fi film D.O.L.L.S

This conversation is a thoughtful peek behind the scenes of porn, the adult industry, stigma and sex work. Listener questions inspired many of the topics in this interview.
Here’s to all of us living life without regrets!

Eva Maxim’s Only Fans page
Twitter X: @Eva_Maxim

AdultTime (where to watch D.O.L.L.S)

Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress

Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika
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September 08, 2025 Meet one of today's most popular porn stars, Eva Maxim.
Get to know one of the hottest porn stars in the adult industry, Eva Maxim. This trans woman is the winner of a lot of awards. You know her from her hot sex scenes but today you’ll get a peek behind the scenes.

Today’s episode talks about:
Adult industry awards
The business side of pleasure
Why and how Only Fans has changed the adult industry.
Why she prefers producing content for Only Fans rather than filming a scene for a traditional porn studio.

Eva graciously answers listener questions about:
When she fully realized she is a STAR
Prepping for a porn shoot
Connection to the sissy community

Speaking of sissies, since Eva is a Top, it’s natural to ask her about trying some Femdom scenes with a sissy or two. Ms Olivia and Ms Erika offer to team up with some Domme content.

This is the first of a 2 part interview and Eva will be back again!
Eva Maxim Only Fans

Twitter X: @Eva_Maxim

Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
[email protected]

Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
[email protected]

DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika

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32min

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