In Week 8 of the “Come and See” series, the Grow Group reflects on the theme of mercy and relationship with Jesus over task-oriented service. Using scriptures including the story of Mary and Martha, the parable of the narrow way, the prodigal son, and the rich young ruler, the group explores how spiritual growth hinges on prioritizing personal connection with Christ rather than checking religious boxes. The discussion is honest, personal, and filled with humor, touching on topics like hospitality, self-righteousness, forgiveness, and grace in community and politics.
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00:00 – 04:24 | Banter & Opener
Light-hearted stories about snacks, vacations, and a neighbor’s unexpected passing.
04:25 – 06:28 | Mercy & Childhood
Barry tells a story from his youth tied to the concept of mercy—shifting to how Jesus modeled compassion and forgiveness.
06:29 – 08:38 | Defining Mercy
Mercy involves forgiveness, empathy, and restoring relationship—demonstrated by Jesus and expected of us.
08:39 – 10:34 | Mary & Martha
Jesus values presence over performance. Mary chooses relationship; Martha is distracted by doing.
10:35 – 13:06 | Being With Jesus
We’re reminded that ministry and activity can’t replace time spent with Jesus.
13:07 – 14:53 | One Thing Is Necessary
Spiritual fruit comes from abiding with Christ—not religious multitasking.
14:54 – 16:05 | The Narrow Way
Jesus warns that salvation isn’t about deeds but knowing Him personally.
16:06 – 17:47 | Ministry ≠ Relationship
Serving in church can feel like intimacy with God, but it’s not the same as knowing Him.
17:48 – 19:26 | Knowing vs. Being Known
A reflection on the difference between admiring Jesus and being in relationship with Him.
19:27 – 20:57 | Rich Young Ruler
The man keeps the commandments but refuses to surrender—Jesus wants the heart, not just behavior.
20:58 – 23:08 | Letting Go
We can’t cling to earthly things and fully receive God’s kingdom.
23:09 – 25:08 | Goodness & Grace
We all fall short—our efforts don’t make us righteous; only Jesus does.
25:09 – 27:11 | Hidden Sins
Cultural sins are overlooked while visible ones are shamed. God cares about the heart.
27:12 – 28:15 | Quote Reflection
“The soul cannot receive divine fullness if it clings to the finite.” Full surrender brings spiritual fullness.
28:16 – 29:48 | Parables of the Lost
Luke 15 shows Jesus relentlessly pursuing the lost—whether sheep, coin, or son.
29:49 – 31:10 | Pharisees & Judgments
Jesus critiques religious judgment. We often fall into the same trap today.
31:11 – 34:21 | Politics & Mercy
Modern division mirrors Pharisaical attitudes. Mercy should override labels.
34:22 – 35:55 | Prodigal Son’s Brother
The older son resents grace. God invites us to rejoice when others are restored.
35:56 – 37:32 | Recognizing Our Reward
Faithfulness doesn’t go unnoticed—being with the Father is the true reward.
37:33 – 39:24 | Pursuing the Lost
Jesus continually rescues us—even when we stumble repeatedly.
39:25 – 41:03 | Grace Again and Again
God’s grace isn’t limited. He comes for us every time we wander.
41:04 – 42:32 | Prayer Requests
The group shares needs for healing, patience, guidance, and spiritual growth.
42:33 – 46:03 | Prayer & Wrap-Up
Closing prayer of gratitude and reflection. Encouragement to stay close to Jesus.