In this episode of the Growing Hearts Podcast, Lucia Garcia is joined once again by Fr Sam for a deep dive into the sacrament of confession. Building on last episode’s discussion on forgiveness, Fr Sam helps us understand why confession is not just about “telling God directly,” but about loving Him in the way He asks to be loved. 

Discussion Points:

• Why confession is more than a formality — it’s God’s chosen way of healing us. 

• The “battle at the confessional door” and why saying our sins out loud matters. 

• How confession restores us completely — as if the sin never happened. 

• The power of hearing the words of absolution spoken aloud. 

• Practical tips for overcoming hesitation, shame, or nerves when approaching the sacrament. 

• Confession as a doorway to spiritual direction and growing deeper in love with God. 

Fr Sam also shares insights on how going to confession regularly helps us live a freer, humbler, and more merciful life. He reminds us that confession isn’t about perfectionism but about being at peace with who we are, trusting in God’s boundless mercy. 

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Confession can feel intimidating, but it’s one of the most profound ways we encounter God’s love. As Fr Sam reminds us, God doesn’t just forgive reluctantly — He restores us completely. 

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• What holds me back from going to confession more regularly? 

• How have I experienced healing or peace after confession? 

• In what ways can I encourage others to see confession as a gift rather than a burden? 

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In this episode, we are joined by Chehade Richa, a father, mentor, and teacher. Together, we delve into how parental reactions influence children's emotional development and worldview. We discuss the significance of consistency and authenticity in parenting to prevent fostering a 'two-faced' nature in kids. Discover how building trust and open communication, along with virtues like charity and patience, can create a nurturing environment for your children.

• Parental Reactions as a crucial factor in shaping children's emotional development and worldview. 

• The importance of being truly present, investing time, and sharing personal stories to build trust. 

• Integrating virtues, such as charity, patience, and forgiveness into parenting practices to nurture character and resilience in children, balancing love and expectations.  

   

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In this episode of the Growing Hearts Podcast, Father Sam explores the deeply human and deeply divine reality of forgiveness. He talks about why forgiveness is so central to the Christian faith, why it can feel so hard, and how it shapes our relationships — especially in family life. 

Father Sam shares personal reflections, gospel stories, and practical insights to help us see forgiveness not just as a duty, but as a path to healing and true freedom. 

Discussion Points: 

• Why Forgiveness Is Necessary 

Without forgiveness, we remain tied to the people or events that hurt us, trapped in what Father Sam calls a “victim mentality.” 

• Forgiveness in the Christian Faith 

At the heart of Christianity is God’s unconditional forgiveness, most powerfully shown on the cross. 

Christians are called to forgive without limits, because we have first been forgiven. 

• Divine Forgiveness vs. Human Forgiveness 

God forgives fully, restores us completely, and forgets our sins because of His love. 

Human forgiveness can be incomplete; we often struggle to truly let go. 

• The Role of Feelings and the Challenge of Letting Go 

Forgiveness isn’t always about feeling ready; it’s often a choice before it becomes a feeling. 

Sometimes people hold on to hurt because it gives a sense of identity or emotional power. 

• Forgiveness in the Family 

The home is the first place children learn what forgiveness looks like. 

True forgiveness in families includes mercy and helping each other grow into better people. 

Parents shouldn’t fear hurting their kids by setting expectations — children need to see love, joy, and a call to something greater. 

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Forgiveness isn’t just about forgetting or excusing what happened — it’s about choosing freedom and love over resentment. Father Sam invites us to see forgiveness not as a one-time decision, but as a process that draws us closer to God and makes us more like Him. 

Reflect on these questions and share your thoughts with us: 

• When have I experienced real forgiveness — either giving or receiving — and how did it change me? 

• What does forgiveness look like in my family? Do we make space for both mercy and growth? 

• How can I help my children — or those around me — experience forgiveness as something healing and hopeful? 

We’d love to hear your stories. Share your reflections and keep the conversation going with us! 

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In this episode, Fr Phil and Fr Paul explore what kids need most from their parents, emphasizing the importance of understanding reality and the imperfect love we receive. We discuss how parents can instil faith, beauty, and hope in their children, and how to be a living example of joy and faith. Learn practical tips on teaching young kids to pray, create family traditions, and broaden your teenagers' horizons. Discover the profound impact of showing children that life can be awesome.  

Discussion Points:

• The importance of giving children experiences of beauty to open their perspectives. 

• How to promote a Living Faith: with naturalness and freedom. 

• How to help children understand that God is alive, and we can talk to Him through simple prayers.  

• The importance of knowing that suffering is a reality that can exist alongside hope. 

• The importance of expanding teenagers' horizons and the meaning of self-giving. 

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In this heartfelt and lively conversation, Fr. Phil and Fr. Paul dive into the life and message of St. Josemaria Escriva, the founder of Opus Dei, to explore what it truly means to become a saint in everyday life. With wit, honesty, and real-life examples, they dismantle the myth of the saint as a "spiritual superhero" and propose something far more attainable—and transformative: holiness through ordinary life. 

This episode touches on why sanctity isn’t about doing something extraordinary, but about allowing God to work in us, especially through our work, our relationships, and even our study habits. Whether you're a student stressed about exams or a parent guiding your child’s formation, this episode offers clarity and hope rooted in the deep message of divine filiation: you are a beloved child of God. 

Discussion Points:  

• How the vision of Opus Dei reframes daily work and study as pathways to holiness. 

• The connection between childlike trust and spiritual growth. 

• The concept of gift-mentality and rediscovering wonder in ordinary life. 

• Study as prayer and service: practical tips for students. 

• What schools inspired by St. Josemaria try to cultivate: personal mentoring, deep friendship, and family involvement. 

• How one-on-one relationships reflect the Gospel pattern of encounter, and how Jesus models this personal, loving attention. 

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Do you sometimes feel like holiness is out of reach or only for a select few?  

How have you experienced God working through your ordinary, everyday responsibilities?  

If you're a parent or educator, how do you help children see their work and life as a path to holiness? 

We’d love to hear from you! Share your thoughts or questions by emailing us at [insert contact info], or join the discussion on Instagram @growingheartspodcast  

Other Resources: 

Who is St Josemaría Escriva? What is Opus Dei? 

The Heart of Work: St Josemaría’s vision 

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In this heartwarming and laughter-filled episode, Ponch sits down with two sisters, Lucia "Cia" and Anica, to explore the beautiful (and sometimes chaotic!) reality of growing up in a family of four daughters. Together, they reflect on the shared memories, road trips, dinner table conversations, and life lessons that shaped them. 

From pillow forts and Macca’s breakfasts to intentional parenting and the power of saying “I’m sorry,” this episode dives deep into how family culture, communication, and individual respect laid the foundation for strong sibling bonds and personal growth.  

Whether you’re a parent, sibling, or just someone reflecting on your own upbringing, this episode will remind you that the little moments—when approached with love, presence, and intention—are what ultimately form the strongest family ties. 

Discussion Points:  

• How everyday moments like family meals, road trips, and kitchen time can become lasting sources of connection and joy. 

• Exploring how a home filled with four sisters stayed grounded through open dialogue, mutual support, and intentional parenting. 

• The normal ups and downs of sibling life, and how choosing to say sorry and forgive quickly helps preserve relationships. 

• Why it matters when children, especially teen, feel their opinions and feelings are genuinely considered—whether it’s choosing a house or navigating social situations. 

• How doing chores, being relied on, and helping one another builds a sense of ownership and unity within the family. 

• Celebrating the beauty of unique personalities and different career paths—all nurtured under one roof without comparisons or competition. 

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We’d love to hear from you! 

What are some of your favorite childhood memories with your siblings or family? Have you experienced moments when your parents (or you as a parent) made space for dialogue and understanding? How do you encourage individuality while keeping family unity strong? 

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In this episode of the Growing Hearts Podcast, we delve into the challenges and opportunities of nurturing faith during the teenage years. Our special guest, Seb James, shares his personal journey and insights from his extensive experience working with teenagers. Seb, a journalist and director of the Nairana Study Centre, discusses the importance of faith, the role of parents and mentors, and how to support teenagers in their spiritual and personal growth. 

Discussion Points: 

Challenges Teenagers Face Today: 

• Identity and the need for unconditional love. 

• Influence of social media, technology, and peer pressure. 

• Helping young people understand their true identity and worth as children of God. 

Role of Parents and Mentors: 

• Building loving and trusting relationships with teenagers. 

• Setting boundaries and providing guidance. 

• Importance of fathers spending quality time with their sons. 

Support Systems for Teenagers: 

Seb shares the activities and intentional programs offered at Nairana Study Centre, including: 

• Optimal Work Sessions  

• Study time  

• Community Service trips and Local service initiatives  

Openness at the Study Centre 

Seb acknowledges that some parents may have concerns or questions—and that's a good thing: 

• “It is okay to have worries and doubts—it is a very natural thing. We want parents to be very concerned; they need to know what we are doing.” 

To foster this trust, Nairana organises regular events to engage with parents: 

• “That’s why in these places we have a lot of days or activities where we get parents to come and we try to explain what we are trying to do. For example, at the end of every school term, we have a night where we explain what Opus Dei is (…)” 

For families of all backgrounds: 

• “We believe also, if you are non-Christian or Catholic, that these activities will help your son grow in virtue, become a man of character.” 

He warmly invites parents to engage in person: 

• “If you have doubts or concerns, please come and visit us. I’m very happy to sit and talk.” 

Resources Mentioned 

• Nairana Study Centre 

• Mirrabooka Study Centre  

• Optimal Work 

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In this special May episode of the Growing Hearts Podcast, Ponch Sahagun is joined by mum, mentor, and Tangara alumni Tamara El-Rahi for a heartfelt conversation on motherhood. From the unexpected shifts that come with becoming a mum, to the quiet strength and inspiration we can draw from Our Lady, this episode dives deep into the emotional, spiritual, and practical realities of raising children today. Honest, funny, and moving—this conversation is an uplifting companion for mothers navigating the highs and lows of daily life.

Video Mentioned: Watch the video about the Wedding Feast at Cana referenced in this episode.

Event: A MOTHER’S HEART - A Day of Reflection for Women

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In this episode, we welcome Matt Unicomb to share his powerful conversion story. From growing up in a secular household to discovering the Catholic faith, Matt takes us through the pivotal moments that led him to embrace Christianity. Through intellectual exploration, deep personal reflection, and the influence of his wife, family, and mentors, Matt's journey is one of humility, truth-seeking, and transformation. 

Resources Mentioned: 

• Ross Douthat’s article: A Guide to Finding Faith 

• St. John Paul II: Veritatis Splendour 

Connect with Matt: 

• Podcast: Human Ecology 

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In this episode of Growing Hearts, Fr. Paul and Fr. Phil explore the deep connection between a child’s relationship with their parents and their understanding of God. They discuss the weight of expectations—how children internalise them, how they shape their sense of self-worth, and how parents can navigate them in a healthy way. 

At te heart of the conversation is the theme of hope, inspired by the Jubilee Year’s message: A Hope That Does Not Disappoint. The discussion dives into false hopes, the dangers of misplaced expectations, and the true foundation of hope—God’s grace. 

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