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There are so many men who are walking through life with no leadership, blueprints or GPS on the next step in manhood. There is a cost to every man who do not take it consideration to get a group men who can guide, train and uplift you to get to the next level of your manhood. 

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Overthinking keeps you stuck. Overacting leaves you broken. In this episode of Grown Man University, Joseph Perkins breaks down the silent battle every man faces: when your mind won’t let you move—or when you move without your mind.

Through scripture, real-life examples, and timeless lessons from Hamlet and Mike Tyson, you’ll discover the hidden dangers of both extremes and how they rob you of confidence, peace, and progress.

Joseph equips you with a 5-step Grown Man Clarity Plan to stop spinning your wheels, align your thoughts with your actions, and start moving with power and purpose by Monday morning.

If you’ve been paralyzed by fear or wrecked by impulse—this episode will show you how to rise above both and step into disciplined, strategic manhood.

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You’re Not Broken — You’re Becoming
By Joseph Perkins | Multi-Award-Winning International Men’s Empowerment Speaker | Host of Grown Man University

Every man has moments where he looks in the mirror and wonders: “Am I broken? Am I too far gone?” But here’s the truth—you’re not broken, you’re becoming.

In this raw and empowering episode of Grown Man University, Joseph Perkins shows why the struggles you face aren’t signs of failure, but proof that God is still building you (Philippians 1:6).

You’ll discover:
 ✅ 3 truths about becoming a man that will set you free
 ✅ 5 hard facts about staying stuck in brokenness
 ✅ The tale of Samson vs. Joseph—and what it teaches about manhood
 ✅ A 7-step, 30-day process to move from brokenness to becoming
 ✅ Why your pain is preparation, not punishment

Because manhood isn’t about perfection—it’s about progress. And even when you can’t see the growth yet, God is still at work.

👑 You’re not broken. You’re being built.

🔥 Listen now to Grown Man University and start becoming the man you were created to be.

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Purpose Over Popularity
By Joseph Perkins | Multi-Award-Winning International Men’s Empowerment Speaker | Host of Grown Man University

In a world obsessed with likes, clout, and validation, too many men are trading their purpose for temporary popularity. But real manhood isn’t built on applause—it’s built on mission.

In this empowering episode of Grown Man University, Joseph Perkins breaks down:
✅ The key difference between popularity and purpose (Galatians 1:10)
✅ The hidden cons of chasing clout that no one tells you about
✅ The lasting rewards of living with purpose
✅ 5 modern commandments for men who refuse to sell out their character
✅ 7 values every purpose-driven man (ages 16–30) must live by
✅ Beginner steps to start finding your purpose today

Because popularity is loud—but purpose leads.

👑 Stop performing for likes. Start building a legacy that lasts.

🔥 Listen now to Grown Man University and learn how to choose purpose over popularity.

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The Quiet Pain of Fatherlessness
By Joseph Perkins | Multi-Award-Winning International Men’s Empowerment Speaker | Host of Grown Man University

There’s a pain many men carry that no one talks about—the pain of growing up without a father. Whether your dad was absent, emotionally unavailable, or hurtful instead of helpful, that wound leaves a mark that shows up in silence, anger, relationships, and identity.

In this raw and powerful episode of Grown Man University, Joseph Perkins breaks down:
✅ The 5 hidden pains fatherless men carry into adulthood
✅ How Psalm 68:5 reveals God as a Father to the fatherless
✅ Why ignoring your pain doesn’t heal it—it deepens it
✅ 5 beginner steps men ages 16–30 can take to start rebuilding
✅ How to find strength, brotherhood, and healing without shame

Because your pain may not be your fault—but your healing is your responsibility. And you don’t have to carry it alone.

👑 It’s time to stop suffering in silence and start building the man you were created to be.

🔥 Listen now to Grown Man University and learn how to heal the quiet pain of fatherlessness.

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Episode Title: Women Are Not Your Therapy—Build a Support System
Podcast: Grown Man University

Description:
Fellas, let’s get real. Too many young men are making the mistake of turning their girlfriends, hookups, or wives into their therapists. In this episode of Grown Man University, host Joseph Perkins unpacks the hard truth: your trauma, your healing, and your growth are your responsibility—not hers.

Drawing from scripture, real-life examples, and practical steps, this episode teaches why women can support you but can’t sustain you, and why building a masculine support system is critical for your manhood. You’ll learn:

• Why using women as your therapy damages both you and her.
• The difference between emotional dependency and emotional maturity.
• How great men like LeBron James thrived with brotherhood, while others struggled without it.
• 5 beginner steps to start building your own support system today.

📖 Scripture Reference: Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 – “Two are better than one… if either of them falls down, one can help the other up.”

This episode is a wake-up call for men ages 16–30: stop leaning on women to fix you. Build your brotherhood, mentorship, and accountability so you can become the man God designed you to be.

👉 Tune in now, share with a brother who needs this, and remember: She may love you, but she can’t raise you. That’s your job.

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Manhood Is a Daily Decision, Not a Destination
By Joseph Perkins | Multi-Award-Winning International Men’s Empowerment Speaker | Host of Grown Man University

Manhood isn’t a trophy you win or a level you unlock—it’s a decision you make every single day. Being male is biology. Being a man is commitment.

In this powerful episode of Grown Man University, Joseph Perkins breaks down why manhood isn’t about age, money, or milestones—it’s about daily choices that build character, discipline, and influence.

You’ll learn:
 ✅ Why manhood is a lifestyle, not a finish line (Luke 9:23)
 ✅ Lessons from Denzel Washington, Ja Morant, and Inky Johnson
 ✅ What real daily manhood decisions look like in action
 ✅ 5 beginner steps you can take today to start living with purpose
 ✅ Why falling doesn’t disqualify you—quitting does

Because here’s the truth: you don’t become a man once—you wake up and choose it every day.

👑 Stop waiting for manhood to arrive. Start building it with your decisions.

🔥 Listen now to Grown Man University and learn how to step up daily as the man you were born to be.

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Public Speaking & Influence: How to Command a Room
By Joseph Perkins | Multi-Award-Winning International Men’s Empowerment Speaker | Host of Grown Man University

Fellas, if you walk into a room and nobody notices… if you speak and nobody listens… if you try to lead and nobody follows—then this episode is for you.

In this powerful session of Grown Man University, Joseph Perkins reveals why public speaking is the single most valuable skill a man can master—not just for applause, but for leadership, respect, and legacy.

You’ll learn:
 ✅ What it really means to “command a room”
 ✅ Lessons from Moses, MLK, and Barack Obama on influence through voice
 ✅ 3 game-changing pros of mastering public speaking
 ✅ 3 hidden dangers of staying silent and overlooked
 ✅ Practical steps to build confidence, presence, and influence starting today

Because the truth is this: your voice is your steering wheel. If you don’t learn to use it, someone else will drive your future.

👑 Don’t shrink in silence. Stand, speak, and command the room.

🔥 Listen now to Grown Man University and unlock the voice that was built to lead.

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Masculinity Without a Blueprint: Where Do You Start?
By Joseph Perkins | Multi-Award-Winning International Men’s Empowerment Speaker | Host of Grown Man University

Most men weren’t handed a blueprint for masculinity. No fatherly guidance, no clear vision, no code to live by. And without one? Life feels like trial and error—lost, frustrated, and chasing culture instead of purpose.

In this powerful episode of Grown Man University, Joseph Perkins breaks down exactly how to build your own masculine blueprint from scratch.

Inside, you’ll learn:
 ✅ Why vision is essential to manhood (Proverbs 29:18)
 ✅ Lessons from men like David Goggins, Aaron Hernandez, and Giannis Antetokounmpo
 ✅ What a real masculine blueprint looks like—values, habits, standards, and brotherhood
 ✅ 5 beginner steps to start today: from writing your code to finding a mentor
 ✅ Why you are not too broken, too late, or too far gone to build

Because the truth is simple: you don’t need a perfect start—you just need a blueprint.

👑 Build your structure. Define your manhood. Live with vision.

🔥 Listen now to Grown Man University and begin building the life you were meant to live.

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Discipline Over Motivation: The Secret to Consistency
By Joseph Perkins, Multi-Award-Winning International Men’s Empowerment Speaker & Host of Grown Man University

Motivation feels good—but it fades. Discipline hurts—but it builds power. In this raw and practical episode, Joseph Perkins breaks down why discipline is the single greatest weapon every man must master if he wants respect, success, and influence.

Inside this episode, you’ll discover:
 ✅ Why motivation fails when life gets hard—and how discipline outlasts it
 ✅ Lessons from Jesus Christ, Kobe Bryant, and David Goggins on the power of consistency
✅ 3 pros of living a disciplined life that set you apart as a man
✅ 3 deadly cons of chasing motivation that keep men weak and stuck
✅ Practical steps to build discipline daily—no matter how you feel

Because at the end of the day: motivation makes you start, but discipline makes you legendary.

👑 Be a man. Be consistent. Be unstoppable.

🔥 Listen now to Grown Man University and start building the habits that will outlast hype.