Growth Instigators Hotline

Have you ever wondered if a random Spanish phrase could save your life? That's exactly what happened to me one fateful night in Miami, and it taught me an invaluable leadership lesson.

From the safe confines of small-town Ordway, Colorado to the edge of Miami where street smarts matter most, I found myself woefully unprepared for urban dangers. When my friend Chico and I approached a stranger's bonfire hoping to make friends, we couldn't predict how quickly the situation would turn violent. As fists connected with our heads and kicks followed, I blurted out the only Spanish phrase that came to mind: "La vaca flaca esta muerta" (The skinny cow is dead). Those five absurd words confused our attackers, broke into laughter, and ultimately saved us from a worse beating.

This story isn't just about my youthful naivety – it's about the transformative power of whimsy in leadership. Too often, we approach personal and professional development with unrelenting seriousness, forgetting that sometimes it's the unexpected, even silly moments that create the most powerful connections. Leadership doesn't always require perfect polish and corporate jargon; sometimes it demands vulnerability, authenticity, and yes, a bit of foolishness. The willingness to tell a story, to laugh at yourself, and to introduce moments of levity can transform relationships and defuse tense situations in ways that conventional approaches never could.

What about you? Are you willing to embrace whimsy in your leadership journey? Can you take yourself a little less seriously while still driving meaningful growth? I'd love to hear your thoughts – call the Growth Instigators Hotline or email me at [email protected]. And if you're feeling brave, try saying "la vaca flaca esta muerta" – it might not save your life, but it could change how you think about leadership.

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Perfectionism might be the most well-dressed enemy of your success. Ever notice how that pursuit of flawlessness often leaves your best work trapped inside your head? In this powerful episode, we unpack the deceptive nature of perfectionism and why it's really just "procrastination in a tuxedo."

John Acuff's wisdom resonates throughout our discussion: "90% perfect and shared with the world always changes more lives than 100% perfect and stuck in your head." This isn't just motivational talk—it's the fundamental difference between those who make an impact and those who remain perpetually "almost ready." We explore why progress builds unstoppable momentum, how imperfect action unlocks critical feedback loops, and the tremendous freedom that comes from letting go of unrealistic standards.

The question isn't whether you can achieve perfection—it's whether you're willing to choose progress instead. Would you rather endlessly refine something that never launches, or would you rather take imperfect action and learn through real-world experience? Your growth doesn't require flawless execution; it simply needs your commitment to taking the next right step. I challenge you today: Where are you holding back because it's not perfect? What small move could create real momentum in your life or work? You don't need to be flawless—you just need to be faithful to forward motion. Reach out and share your thoughts at [email protected], and keep instigating growth in everything you do.

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Leadership isn't just about vision-casting - it's about hearing what people really need. In a noisy world, listening is your most underrated leadership superpower that can build trust, reveal what's really happening, and sharpen your decisions.

• People follow leaders who make them feel seen and heard, not those who have all the answers
• Listening with curiosity rather than just to respond helps get to the heart of issues
• Being present allows you to catch nuance, read tone, and see emotion
• What seems like a motivation problem may actually be a listening gap
• Creating space for honest feedback unlocks new levels of connection and ownership
• Leaders should consider using a 360-degree evaluation tool
• Challenge: Ask yourself where you need to listen more than lead this week

Visit growthinstigatorscom to schedule a discovery call if your team feels unheard. I help leaders create cultures of clarity, trust and connection.

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We explore how follow-through builds trust, momentum, and credibility, while examining why the highest performers aren't those with the most ideas but those who consistently finish what they start.

• Starting is exciting, but finishing is what builds trust with yourself and others
• Follow-through creates a track record that builds confidence and compound energy
• Commitment doesn't depend on motivation—follow through even when you don't feel like it
• People may admire your vision, but they trust your consistency
• You don't need more goals, you need more finishes
• Consider working quietly and consistently, then surprising others with your results
• Focus on what's most important and let other things fall away

What's one unfinished thing you can follow through on this week? You're a doer, you're a finisher. What you're doing is worth it. Go kick some tasks today.

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Growth and comfort don't usually ride in the same car. We often say we want change, but when it arrives dressed as awkwardness, risk and hard conversations, we retreat to our comfort zones instead of embracing the opportunity.

• Choose courage over comfort for personal and professional growth
• Courage sounds like "I don't feel ready, but I'm willing"
• Breaking routines that aren't working anymore requires bravery
• Stuck never leads to joy, but courage does
• Courage is often quiet—simply showing up, not quitting, continuing to become
• Consider doubling down where you see movement and shutting down areas without progress
• Book recommendation: "The Comfort Crisis" by Michael Easter

Pause and ask yourself where in your life you're choosing comfort over courage. No one's asking you to be fearless, just willing. Share with us one area where you're ready to choose courage and one step you'll take this week. If your team is stuck in safety mode, visit growthinstigators.com to schedule a discovery call.

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Margin isn't a luxury but a critical leadership skill that gives meaning a place to land and protects our presence. Without space in our lives, even good things become burdens, leaving us with full calendars but empty souls.

• The importance of creating margin in your personal and professional life
• Why you can have a full calendar yet an empty soul
• How margin gives meaning a place to land
• Why margin protects your presence and connection with others
• The difference between surviving and truly leading
• How margin invites reflection and intentionality
• Why you need space between things rather than more time

Where in your life do you need more margin, and what's one thing you could release to create it? Leave a message after the beep or send an email to Aaron at growthinstigators.com and let me know what's one thing you can say no to in order to create margin, and what "enough" looks like for you. Visit growthinstigators.com to schedule a discovery call if your team is burning out from lack of space.

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Real, lasting growth often happens in quiet moments rather than loud, flashy successes that our culture typically celebrates. Personal transformation begins internally through consistent small choices before becoming visible externally, like roots deepening underground before a tree shows new growth.

• Growth appears when you pause before reacting
• Choosing alignment over attention is powerful growth
• Internal transformation precedes external changes
• Consistency builds strength even when progress isn't visible
• Creating quiet moments without distractions allows for deeper thinking
• Morning silence with coffee provides space to hear your own thoughts

Take a moment today to reflect on how you've grown recently, even if no one saw it. Share one way you've grown that isn't loud or flashy by leaving a message after the beep or emailing Aaron at [email protected]. If your team is chasing visible wins but missing internal growth, visit growthinstigators.com to schedule a discovery call.

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Leading when you're not at your best can be your most powerful moment of influence. Some of the most impactful leadership happens not when we're perfect, but when we continue showing up authentically through challenging times.

• The metaphor of a wobbly tire—still functioning despite imperfection
• Leadership isn't about appearing flawless but staying present during difficult times
• Vulnerability builds trust and gives others permission to be authentic
• Being honest about not being 100% can create deeper connections
• Your steadiness during personal challenges becomes someone else's anchor
• Leading through rough patches demonstrates true leadership character

We'd love to hear from you about how you've led well through difficult times and what helps you stay grounded when not at your best. Email Aaron at [email protected]. Visit growthinstigators.com for our free leadership assessment tool, daily email content, and to schedule a free discovery call if your team needs help building a trust-driven culture.

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High performers achieve greatness through small, consistent habits rather than occasional massive actions. The compound effect of these tiny efforts creates powerful momentum over time that becomes nearly unstoppable.

• Small habits work by reducing resistance and making daily actions more doable
• They build identity beyond just outcomes - becoming the type of person who does the thing
• Habits stack into momentum - one positive habit naturally leads to another
• Great harvests begin with single seeds - consistent small efforts yield spectacular results
• Five years will pass anyway - choose to look back with pride rather than regret

Email Aaron at [email protected] and share what small habit has helped you grow and what new habit you're ready to build. If your team struggles with consistency, visit growthinstigators.com to schedule a free discovery call to establish sustainable performance rhythms.

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Failure can be our greatest teacher when we shift our perspective and use it as fuel for growth instead of letting it define us. Aaron Havens explains why he hopes you fail miserably today and how to transform those failures into stepping stones for success.

• Reframing failure as feedback and small hints for improvement
• Aaron shares his experience of botching public speeches early in his career
• Shift from asking "why did this happen" to "what can it teach me"
• Normalize failure as a natural part of progress, not a sign you're broken
• The difference between success and staying stuck is continuing to show up after failure
• Identify one failure you've been carrying that might actually be trying to grow you
• You don't need a perfect past to build a powerful future

Leave a message after the beep or send an email to [email protected] sharing what failure taught you something valuable and what failure you need to reframe and release this week. Visit Growth Instigators to book Aaron for your next speaking event.

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