Grumpy Young Lady

Grumpy Young Lady

By Kate BrunottsSociety & Culture
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Grumpy Young Lady episodes

  • You don’t need an aesthetic: the power of being "unfashionable"

    Your bestie is coquette, I dream of the soft life, your neighbor bought a Stanley cup to replace the Hydroflask. How we present ourselves and determine personal style (if you can even call it that) has become ever expansive to include more items and aspects of everyday life. Though it is not fair by any means, how you dress does matter, at least to the outside world - but we can make the conscious choice to prioritize cultivating our own perspective regardless of whether or not that aligns with our immediate environment, type beat.

    I'd love to hear about what style and fashion means to you, and the thought process (or lack thereof, I think both are equally valid) behind how you represent yourself visually.


    0:00 - The politics behind what we wear + fashion week

    1:20 - “Professional” dress
    2:06 - The death of personal style
    3:01 - Exclusion and scarcity marketing
    3:47 - Evergrowing aesthetics and dilution of subculture
    4:38 - Quiet luxury + clothing bias
    6:51 - Lana Del Rey, the Maxxinista
    8:07 - The ever expanding aesthetic
    9:09 - The struggle to find new voices in fashion
    10:00 - Fast fashion
    11:00 - Styling over Buying
    12:15 - How do we find our style?

    15 min
  • The emptiness of content: a public health crisis

    social media is officially a public health crisis (but we knew) ! I've been feeling a lot of content fatigue lately and wanted to explore what might be at the end of this endless, overwhelming technicolor road. I feel like content bloat / over saturation is more or less inevitable if not already here especially with A.I. ANYHOW! Loneliness is a big deal! Would love your thoughts!

    I have two shows coming up in NYC as well if you're into that sort of thing 🫶:
    2/3 - @heavencanwaitnyc
    2/11 - @tveyenyc
    Find me elsewhere: https://linktr.ee/katebrunotts
    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1vV2H...
    Instagram:   / katebrunotts  
    TikTok:   / katebrunotts  
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    0:00 - god bless autoscroll
    0:38 - Is digital minimalism possible?
    1:48 - Digital FOMO
    4:40 - Does anyone want content anymore?
    5:52 - Winner takes all
    6:40 - The inevitable downfall of genuinely fun apps
    8:10 - The demise of curation and monoculture
    10:46 - Creator fatigue and the YouTube exodus
    11:24 - Cheaper, faster, empty
    12:05 - hope????

    15 min
  • you don't have to be the main character

    I've been hearing a lot about main character syndrome, main character energy, the what about me effect, pick me, etc. which I do think can bring about a lot of positive change for people. Though sometimes going so into ourselves we can lose site of all the joy there is in investing in others and also not putting so much pressure on ourselves to have an *exceptional* existence. Also I adore Esther Perel. 


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    0:00 - The Pressure of Main Character Energy

    1:34 - The Positives of Main Character Syndrome

    2:35 - The Big Shift

    4:04 - Extreme Characterization 

    5:13 - The Self is a Dead End

    6:00 - The Limits of Self Care

    6:57 - Our Collective Lack of Self Awareness 

    8:17 - Americana 

    9:09 - Cultural Gaps

    9:53 - That Girl

    10:50 - We Are Lowkey Judgemental

    12:15 - Blue Zones

    12:50 - Finding Your Aesthetic 

    13:43 - Sonder!

    14:27 - Your Personal *Brand*


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    Find me elsewhere: https://linktr.ee/katebrunotts 

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1vV2HAeSNkp97JK2tPpEoN?si=vjGI6UlqSMa0G8ReQieLeQ 

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katebrunotts/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@katebrunotts


    16 min
  • Olivia Rodrigo and The Tyranny of Girlhood

    Guts by miss Olivia Rodrigo, I kid you not, has dominated my on repeat ever since it came out. I've been trying to figure out precisely WHY Guts and Sour seem to hit so hard and I've landed on that they hold the pain, joy, energy, and outrage that comes with the girlhood / young adult experience and wow! I'm a fan. Favorites are likely All American, Lacy, get him back, bad idea right, ballad of a homeschool girl, I know I named like half the project but that's the point. So refreshing. Would love to hear your thoughts!

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    0:00 - Intro
    0:24 - Guts vs. Sour
    1:26 - Who am I if not...?
    6:25 - I know my place, and this is it!
    8:19 - Making space for the transition into adulthood
    9:30 - Discovering and defining boundaries
    11:08 - Sorry I couldn't be your teenage dream
    13:37 - Repression for the "greater good"
    15:21 - Emotion! Is! Positive!
    16:26 - Discrediting younger generations
    18:07 - Songs and Speculation
    20:00 - Be yourself ❤️
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    Find me elsewhere: https://linktr.ee/katebrunotts
    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1vV2H...
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katebrunotts/
    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@katebrunotts

    22 min
  • Stop checking your numbers. Why we engage with what makes us feel terrible.

    Listen if there is anything I love to blame the end of the world on, it is social media. Do numbers actually matter? Why are we constantly putting ourselves into states of hyper vigilance? There are far too many ways to measure ourselves regardless of what you're into but information overload is real, and can be quite a doozy!


    0:00 - INTRO 

    0:43 - The dance between monetization and passion

    3:20 - Analytic accessibility 

    3:52 - Spotify is Instagram

    4:15 - Is more information power? 

    5:01 - Numbers pave pathways 

    6:20 - Analyzing our way to vitality 

    7:06 - The utility of numbers and social media

    7:45 - Is bigger always better?

    9:00 - We can’t escape the number of wealth 

    9:45 - The good, the bad, it’s all ugly

    12:25 - Numbers dictating our schedules

    12:50 - Digital boundaries are difficult to enforce

    13:40 - Transforming your personality into a metric

    14:45 - Earned privacy 

    15:45 - Sugar is sweet

    17:00 - Can I participate in a healthy way? 

    18:08 - Numbers flatten the *nuance*
    19:17 - Thx 


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    Find me elsewhere: https://linktr.ee/katebrunotts 

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1vV2HAeSNkp97JK2tPpEoN?si=vjGI6UlqSMa0G8ReQieLeQ 

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katebrunotts/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@katebrunotts



    21 min
  • Your Favorite Artist is Broke: Clout is Not a Paycheck

    From fashion, film, visual art, to music, the starving artist is very much a thing. Santigold, Elena Velez etc. are, actual superstars struggling to make ends meet and they aren't alone-- they're just brave enough to talk about it. I don't think most artists go into the profession expecting to strike riches, but it's quite surprising just how difficult it is just to make minimum wage in some of the disciplines we hold so dear. Fame does not equal funded.

    I'm excited that it seems across the board we're having a bit of a reckoning with labor conditions/pay transparency, so definitely hopeful for an eventual actual creative middle class? We shall see.
    In any case, it's important to remember to separate your art's worth and your self-worth from the numbers behind it. Would love to hear your thoughts/any personal anecdotes you have! I can primarily speak to music, but would love to hear especially from those in other industries.



    CHAPTERS:

    0:00 - Intro
    0:50 - Image tells you nothing about financial health
    1:55 - Fashion: Elena Velez
    5:30 - Film, SAG, writers, oh my!
    8:48 - Visual art is a mystery, please educate me
    9:11 - The pressure to package your creativity into a product
    9:38 - Dance !
    10:45 - Patronage is nothing new
    11:58 - The financial ruin that is the music industry
    13:32 - No, you can't just "make music"
    14:00 - It's getting worse
    15:21 - The known monopoly
    17:00 - Even sold out shows aren't necessarily profitable
    19:58 - Why artist merch is so expensive right now
    21:32 - Streaming fraud and the vulnerabilities of DSPs
    22:30 - Lots of baby scams throughout the music business
    25:00 - The problem with monetizing your personality
    26:24 - Fame isn't going to make you happier
    28:23 - Why we should talk openly about it
    29:04 - Guess what buttercup
    30:38 - I am a simp

    Thanks for listening :)
    Find me elsewhere: https://linktr.ee/katebrunotts
    NYC Upcoming Shows:
    9/22 - @rockwoodmusichall
    9/24 - @hartbarnyc presented by @seebeepresents

    32 min
  • We did Lorde dirty: Rejecting the projected persona

    Lorde is love, Lorde is life. I am a Solar Power defender, a Melodrama Obsessor, and a Pure Heroine purist. I am very much invested in the Lorde dynasty, and am so FOR the multifaceted artist. We love miss Lorde. So ready for Silver Moon still WAITING for precious metals. But yes, Lorde was quite literally the first artist who really changed my life and has most certainly shaped who I am today as an artist. I’m endlessly grateful for her ability to set public boundaries for the sake of her well-being and her art.

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    0:00 - Intro

    1:14 - Let me be your RULER

    2:57 - Changing the modern music landscape

    4:16 - Pure Heroine changed my life!

    6:00 - A series of public misunderstandings

    9:05 - 2017 VMAs

    10:00 - Shush gate

    12:04 - Creative careers are fickle

    15:10 - Music doesn't come without marketing

    18:25 - Solar power and public perception

    20:32 - Can you reach me?

    22:00 - Rejecting the celebrity pedestal

    25:00 - Reshaping the artist and fan relationship

    29:00 - What's next?

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    Thanks for listening :)

    Find me elsewhere: https://linktr.ee/katebrunotts

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1vV2HAeSNkp97JK2tPpEoN?si=7GAI2GdpSfmG2E2JiG4aDg

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katebrunotts/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@katebrunotts?lang=en

    NYC Upcoming Shows:9/14 - @tveyenyc

    9/22 - @rockwoodmusichall

    9/24 - @hartbarnyc presented by @seebeepresents

    30 min
  • Is music getting silly again?


    0:00 - Intro

    0:14 - Utility of humor
    0:45 - I love silly
    1:41 - Parody tubers
    2:19 - Mozart's "A Musical Joke"
    3:44 - Unintentional or too intentionally funny songs
    4:34 - Using funny music to draw attention elsewhere
    5:12 - Education!
    6:17 - Planet of the Bass
    8:35 - When the audience decides it's a meme
    10:47 - Music and comedy are two peas in a pod
    11:42 - Transgression!
    14:00 - Escapism
    14:49 - Petition to possess a funny bone
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    The Science Behind Funny Music by Benjamin C Helton: https://medium.com/@bch51/the-science...
    Find me elsewhere: https://linktr.ee/katebrunotts
    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1vV2H...
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katebrunotts/
    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@katebrunotts
    NYC Upcoming Shows:
    9/14 - @tveyenyc
    9/22 - @rockwoodmusichall
    9/24 - @hartbarnyc presented by @seebeepresents

    18 min
  • Miski isn't private, you just aren't listening.

    I have fallen too deeply down the interview hole so it's time to use some Mitski analysis to uncover some of the all too common realities of being an artist. For the record my favorite Mitski records are Puberty 2 and Laurel Hell and this was so fun I need to make more of these.

    0:00 - Intro
    1:10 - How I descended into the Mitski universe
    2:28 - Stars! They're just like us!
    3:10 - Expectations v reality
    4:15 - Full-time art is very pricey
    6:08 - Diminishing the downsides
    7:27 - Illusion of freedom
    9:20 - Marketability
    10:45 - Dayjob supremacy
    13:40 - Fulfillment comes in many forms
    Thanks for listening :)
    Find me elsewhere: https://linktr.ee/katebrunotts
    NYC Upcoming Shows:
    8/26 - @bkslayage
    9/14 - @tveyenyc
    9/22 - @rockwoodmusichall
    9/24 - @hartbarnyc presented by @seebeepresents

    17 min

About Grumpy Young Lady

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Hi! My name is Kate and I'm an artist and musician. I like to share my creations, and I also have a video essay series called Grumpy Young Lady. I post them here for convenience, sometimes it's about…