Overview:

As a parent, it’s tough to watch your child face difficult life choices—college, friendships, sports, leadership roles—and resist the urge to steer them in the “right” direction. But what if the best way to guide them is not to direct, but to help them clarify what they value? In this episode, Scott Schimmel unpacks a practical, research-backed tool parents can use to support their kids in making better, values-aligned decisions. Whether your child is choosing whether to run for student office or debating a college major, this framework fosters autonomy, motivation, and clarity.

If you want to raise a self-aware, purpose-driven young adult, this episode is for you.

Key Takeaways:

Kids don’t need you to decide for them—they need help figuring out what matters to them.

Teaching values-based decision-making increases motivation and reduces burnout.

A simple values clarification exercise can unlock self-awareness and long-term direction.

Intrinsic motivation leads to greater persistence and satisfaction.

Parents can be guides without being controlling—by asking the right questions.

Timestamps:

00:00 Navigating Tough Decisions as Parents
02:14 Clarifying Values and Priorities for Better Choices
05:03 Empowering Kids to Make Autonomous Decisions

Call to Action:

Want to help your kid make confident, motivated choices?
Guide them—not by telling them what to do, but by helping them discover who they are and what matters most.