In this episode:

Follow-up from a listener who had a secret, slightly life-altering medical issue but was hiding it from the dudes she was dating (and us!). Not only is she mostly OK, but we were right, and her pee is the color of fruit punch! EVERYONE WINS.

A more serious question from a listener whose boyfriend has recently become overly-negative — and she's starting to feel it. How should she go about addressing the issue to him directly without making him feel bad about feeling bad? The Guy Friends do their best to lend their friend a hand.

And finally: a question about all the annoying bells and whistles on the Guy Friends' favorite dating site, OkCupid. What does it mean when a dude "chooses" you? What does it mean when he doesn't answer your message in response? Ever the OkCupid Experts, the Guy Friends bring the full brunt of their wisdom to bear and remind you of that thing you always knew, but so quickly forgot: OkCupid is completely meaningless, until it's not.

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