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Dating should be simple, but somehow it never is. In this Dear Guyset episode, I'm answering the questions guys actually deal with every week. How long should you wait after she cancels a date? What do you text after getting her number at a bar? And what are you supposed to do when someone you like suddenly starts pulling back or straight up ghosts you?

I talk through the mistakes most guys make when a date gets rescheduled, what the first text should really sound like, how to keep the momentum going, and the signs that she might be losing interest. I also break down what ghosting usually means, how to respond without overthinking it, and how to move forward with your confidence intact.

If you've ever stared at your phone trying to figure out the right move, this episode will help you understand timing, tone, and what actually matters when you like someone. Think of this as your guide for rescheduling dates, sending the first text, dealing with the aftermath of getting ghosted, and many more.

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Ever had a conversation go so badly that you replay it in your head for days? In this episode, I'm sharing my most awkward networking moment yet: approaching a successful movie producer and completely fumbling the interaction. From forgetting everything I planned to say to asking cringe-worthy questions, this is a masterclass in what NOT to do when introducing yourself to someone successful.

But here's the thing: awkward moments are still better than never trying at all. I break down why I'm glad I went for it, what I learned about pitching yourself on the spot, and how to build confidence when approaching people out of your league. Whether you're navigating networking events, professional conferences, or just want to get better at introducing yourself, this episode covers the uncomfortable truth about making connections in your 20s.

I share how to prepare better introductions, what to say when you meet someone influential, and why embarrassing yourself is actually part of the process. Plus, I talk through practical tips for following up after awkward interactions and turning nervous energy into action.

Topics I cover:

• Networking strategies for guys in their 20s
• How to introduce yourself to successful people
• Overcoming social anxiety at professional events
• Career development and making meaningful connections
• Learning from awkward social moments
• Building confidence in uncomfortable situations

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In this episode, I talk with Simon Gervais, a former counterterrorism agent who once protected presidents like Barack Obama and Queen Elizabeth II, and Ryan Steck, founder of The Real Book Spy. Together, they co-wrote the new book, The Second Son coming December 1st.

What happens when you leave a life of danger for a life of storytelling? Simon opens up about trading high-stakes operations for high-stakes writing, how discipline still drives everything he does, and why believing in yourself sometimes means betting it all. Ryan shares what it was like to go from critic to creator, how he deals with self-doubt, and why collaboration can make you sharper.

We get into:

• How to push through fear when there's no safety net
• The mindset shift from control to creativity
• The truth about ambition, burnout, and purpose
• Why discipline and self-belief matter more than motivation

If you've ever wondered how to reinvent yourself or stay grounded under pressure, this one's for you. It's about learning to keep your edge, build discipline that lasts, and create a life that actually feels worth living.

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I've been on both sides of the hiring table recently, and I'm sharing exactly what makes candidates stand out (and what makes them forgettable) in today's virtual interview world.

This isn't your typical "straighten your tie and walk into a high-rise" interview advice. This is real talk about going from your bathroom to your Zoom call and still landing the job. I'm breaking down the interview turn-ons and turn-offs I've noticed while conducting interviews, plus the confidence strategies that actually work when you're nervous.

You'll learn:

• Why being yourself beats "perfect" prepared answers every time
• The biggest mistakes candidates make in virtual interviews
• How to stand out when competing against dozens of similar applicants
• Confidence hacks to use right before you hit "join meeting"
• What to do after the interview to leave a lasting impression

Whether you're fresh out of college, between jobs, or ready for a career change, this episode gives you the insider perspective most job seekers never get to hear. I wish I'd heard this type of advice when I was in college. Perfect to listen to right before your next interview.

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Guyset: A guy's guide to what should be talked about. Real talk on careers, relationships, and life in your 20s.

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Feeling lost in your career? You're not alone. In this episode, I'm talking about what happens when your job doesn't feel right anymore, when everyone else seems to have it figured out, and when the conventional career path just isn't working for you.

What I Cover:

When to Leave Your Job Why the two-year rule is BS, how to know when you're actually ready to leave, and why staying in the wrong job often feels easier than making a change.

The Reality of Career Change in Your 20s Job searching while employed is exhausting. Rejection piles up. The job market always feels impossible. I'm in it right now, figuring this out alongside you.

My Mindset Shift: "The Unconventional Part" Two words from Night at the Museum changed everything for me: "How exciting." What if not knowing what's next isn't failure? What if being off the conventional path is actually where you're supposed to be? I'm sharing how I'm choosing to see career uncertainty as opportunity, not adversity.

Dealing with Comparison Why does everyone else seem to have their career figured out? I talk about why your career doesn't need to look like anyone else's and how to stop ruminating on what could have been.

Listen If You:

• Feel stuck in your job but don't know what to do next
• Wonder if you should quit without another job lined up
• Feel like you're falling behind your peers
• Know something needs to change but you're scared

Episode Timestamps:

• 00:00 Intro: The pressure to have it figured out
• 04:58 Why the two-year job rule is arbitrary
• 09:38 Why staying feels easier than leaving
• 16:37 Dealing with comparison and feeling behind
• 19:08 What is "the unconventional part"
• 23:32 The "How exciting" mindset shift
• 25:59 Reframing uncertainty as opportunity

Questions Answered in This Episode:

• Should I quit my job if I feel lost?
• How do I know if it's time to leave my job?
• Is it bad to leave a job before two years?
• What do I do if I don't know what career I want?
• How do I deal with career anxiety in my 20s?
• Should I quit my job without another one lined up?
• Why does everyone else seem to have their career figured out?
• How do I stop comparing my career to others?

I'm 25, figuring this out right alongside you. Join me.

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Guyset: A guy's guide to what should be talked about. Real talk on careers, relationships, and life in your 20s.

We've all done it. One good date and suddenly you're imagining the wedding playlist. In this episode of Guyset, I break down what I call the Ted Mosby Syndrome, when your expectations race ahead of reality and set you up for disappointment.

I talk about why so many of us build storylines around people we barely know, how that pressure kills real chemistry, and what it actually means to hold high expectations, loosely. Building on my last episode about how to approach someone at a bar, I share practical advice for handling early dating, managing expectations, and keeping your confidence intact.

The biggest mindset shift: Don't tie your self-worth to someone else's approval. When you stop chasing potential and start focusing on reality, dating gets easier, more fun, and a lot more honest.

If you've ever felt let down after a first date or caught yourself overanalyzing every text, this episode will help you approach dating with clarity, confidence, and calm.

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In this episode, I'm breaking down one of the biggest questions guys in their twenties ask: how to talk to girls at a bar without being awkward.

Walking up to a girl at a bar can feel awkward. You start overthinking, psych yourself out, and end up doing nothing. I've been there. We've all been there.

I share the three-step framework that helped me stop overthinking and actually start conversations that feel natural. I talk about how to give a real compliment, what to say next, and when to ask for her number.

More than that, I get into mindset of how to stop assuming you'll get rejected, how to carry yourself with confidence, and why rejection doesn't define you.

If you've ever stood across the room thinking, "I should say something" but didn't, this episode is for you. It's about confidence, connection, and getting out of your own way, because you either know or you never know.

Listen if you want to learn:

• How to talk to girls at a bar with confidence
• What to say when you walk up
• Real dating advice for guys in their twenties
• How to handle rejection without losing confidence

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I used to walk into the gym and feel completely out of place. Everyone seemed to know exactly what they were doing, and I was stuck in the corner wondering how to even start. In this episode, I talk about what it's really like to deal with gym anxiety, imposter syndrome, and that fear of looking clueless.

This episode tackles the universal experience of "gym imposter syndrome" that most men face but rarely discuss. I reveal exactly how I broke through mental barriers by taking each challenge one movement at a time - a practical approach that transformed not just my fitness journey, but my entire mindset toward obstacles.

I share how I went from hiding in my own little space at the gym to finally building the confidence to move around, ask for help, and try new workouts. It wasn't easy—I psyched myself out for months—but learning to break things down one rep at a time changed everything.

And this isn't just about lifting weights. The same mindset applies to life, work, and relationships. Just because you've done something once doesn't mean it'll always be easy. But if you take it step by step, you'll realize you're capable of more than you thought.

In this episode, I get into:

• My experience with imposter syndrome at the gym
• Why nobody is actually paying attention to you when you're working out
• How finding a starting place gave me confidence
• Why breaking big challenges into small steps makes them manageable
• How showing up consistently builds strength in and out of the gym

Whether you're struggling with gym anxiety or facing any overwhelming challenge, this episode offers actionable strategies for pushing past self-imposed limitations and discovering what you're truly capable of.

In this candid conversation, 22-year-old American tennis pro Zach Svajda shares his extraordinary journey from starting tennis at age 2 to facing Novak Djokovic on Arthur Ashe Stadium at the US Open. Discover the untold reality of professional tennis as Svajda details his rigorous training regimen (70% focused on leg strength), the grueling 35-week travel schedule that spans the globe, and what it really takes to compete at tennis's highest level.

Svajda offers rare insights into his mental approach to the sport, explaining how he manages pressure in crucial moments and bounces back from disappointments by reminding himself "it's just hitting a yellow ball over a net." He shares the exhilarating experience of winning the first set against Djokovic in their US Open clash and the valuable advice he received from the tennis legend about keeping all aspects of life in balance.

From his pre-match routines to his post-match practices (yes, even after wins), this conversation reveals the dedication required to succeed professionally in a passion-driven career. Whether you're a tennis enthusiast or seeking motivation to pursue your own dreams, Svajda's wisdom about maintaining balance, embracing discipline, and finding joy in the journey offers valuable lessons for anyone chasing greatness.

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Welcome back to another Ask Me Anything episode where I tackle the real questions guys are actually thinking about, wondering, and asking but don't know where to find answers to.

This episode covers 10 questions that make you feel like you should already know the answer but have no idea where to find. Every single question I answer here, I've personally wondered about and felt weird for thinking. These types of questions are exactly why I started Guyset in the first place.

Questions I Answer in This Episode:

• [4:55] When should I text her after getting her number at the bar?
• [7:13] How often do you drink?
• [11:52] What's the best way for girls to flirt with guys?
• [14:09] How do I tell my friend he smells?
• [16:27] How should I feel about my girlfriend reading smut?
• [20:50] How can I sound more confident instead of insecure?
• [25:36] When's the last time you cried?
• [26:45] How do I know if this is "it" with a girl?
• [29:50] What are little things to show your girl you care?

These aren't definitive answers in the sense of answers but they're my honest perspectives based on experience, mistakes, and what I've learned. I hope they make you feel less alone in wondering about these things and less weird for not already knowing the answers.

I'm also thrilled to announce that guyset.com is officially live after months of development! It's now a complete resource hub with weekly blog posts, dating advice, confidence tips, and perspectives on all the uncomfortable topics we need to talk about but usually avoid.

If you have questions you want me to tackle anonymously, head to guyset.com and click "Ask Me Anything." These episodes are my favorite to record because they address the topics that should be talked about but usually aren't.

Thanks for listening to Guyset - A Guy's Guide to What Should Be Talked About. New episodes every Tuesday with real advice for real situations guys face.

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