Rachel Welcher is an editor at Fathom Magazine, a poet, and an author whose book Talking Back to Purity Culture: Rediscovering Faithful Christian Sexuality is about to be released. Today, Rachel shares how she followed all the purity culture rules before marriage, how she felt when her marriage ended in divorce, and developing a more holistic sexual ethic. Rachel’s story reminds us that God wants our hearts no matter what our circumstances are.
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- Growing up in Northern California as a pastor’s kid
Realizing at age 11 that she could have her own a relationship with GodHaving a “blessed life” without suffering through her mid 20sFollowing all the rules as she dated her first husbandHer husband’s crisis of faith that created her ownWhy “it could have been worse” doesn’t bring comfortThe friend who allowed her to lamentDealing with shame and depression after her divorceWhat the Lord taught her through wrestling with himLearning that following Jesus doesn’t require all of her previous theological commitmentsGoing to graduate school at St. AndrewsBeginning to be published as a writerDiscovering that spiritual disciplines are not a replacement for necessary medicationWhy she loves writing poetryDeciding to reread purity culture books for how they impact a victim of sexual abuseGreat quotes from Rachel:
Doing the right things does not guarantee a good inner life.
God can allow great suffering for his children and still love us.
The calling to honor God with our sexuality doesn’t end at the alter.
What if we talk to teenagers about the spiritual growth through periods of unmet longing?
Rachel’s TwitterTalking Back to Purity Culture: Rediscovering Faithful Christian Sexuality by Rachel Joy WelcherTwo Funerals, Then Easter by Rachel Joy WelcherLament for a Son by Nicholas WolterstorffThe Ragamuffin Gospel: Good News for the Bedraggled, Beat-Up, and Burnt Out- Thomas Umstattd and Untwisting the Gospel
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