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  • 352: Lyndsey Medford and Releasing Expectations

    Lyndsey Medford is a writer and speaker living with a rare autoimmune disorder in the crumbling empire of the American South. Today, Lyndsey shares what her disorder was like as a child, the pressure she felt to make her story a redemptive one, and the kind response of the Lord who only wanted to be with her. We talk about how to develop a holistic view of yourself and the spiritual implications of doing so. Learning to listen to God, to our bodies, and to one another is a crucial discipline for the spiritual journey. Lyndsey reminds us that doing so means letting go of expectations and learning to simply be with God.

    Listen to Lyndsey’s story in your favorite podcast player now!

    Stories Lyndsey shared:

    • Moving and finding herself back with family
  • Her experience of learning to live in her body
  • Growing up in North Atlanta and how church was part of her life
  • Experiencing an autoimmune disorder as a child
  • Praying for healing a lot
  • The pressure she felt to turn her story into a redemptive one
  • What the Lord said about her suffering
  • The idol of productivity and how her time on the couch addressed it
  • How studying theology shaped her faith
  • Asking questions about what it means to be human and vocation
  • Experiencing an intense depression after college
  • Understanding incarnation and empire
  • Great quotes from Lindsey:

    I did have a strong sense of having a relationship with God and being loved by God and that didn’t depend on being good at suffering or hiding my suffering in the ways I though it did at the time.

    To turn [suffering] into a nice pretty story while it’s still happening is an unfair pressure we put on people.

    I’ve been told all my life that there’s things you have for me to do. So when are we going to do them?

    When we are really still, God is inviting us to let of some of the expectations about ourselves that no longer serve us.

    Resources we mentioned:

    • Lyndsey’s website
  • My Body and Other Crumbling Empires: Lessons for Healing in a World That Is Sick by Lyndsey Medford
  • Related episodes:

    • Becky Castle Miller and Trusting Your Emotions
  • Skye Jethani and Living Life with God
  • Jim Barnard Finds Hope in Suffering through Community
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    56 min
  • 351: Matt Fagioli and Beyond Check Box Faith

    Matt Fagioli coach, consultant and a serial entrepreneur. His company is called Certain Success and he works with business owners and entrepreneurs to help them grow amazing Christ centered businesses while becoming (as closely as possible to) exactly what Jesus intended for them to be. Today, Matt shares his upbringing in the Roman Catholic church, why he decided to return to church after he had children, and how the pandemic shifted his perspective. He also tells the story of discovering that there is so much more to walking with Jesus than checking the boxes on the Christian to do list. He’s found a new way of relating to the Lord. Matt’s story reminds us that wherever you are now on the journey, the Lord has more to show you.

    Listen to Matt’s story now in your favorite podcast player!

    Stories Matt shared:

    • Wrestling with how to be a Christian business owner
  • Growing up in the Philadelphia area in a Catholic school
  • Not thinking very much about the Lord during his 20s
  • Wanting something more at a time in life when he had it all
  • Asking around for a church and going to an Evangelical church for the first time
  • Beginning to investigate Christianity
  • Giving his life to Christ and wanting to change everything
  • Believing that he did all the right things as a Christian
  • Checkboxing his faith
  • How Covid changed his business and life
  • Business events that changed his trajectory
  • How suffering has helped him grow
  • Learning to ask the Lord every day who he is
  • What the experience of listening to the Lord is like for him
  • Leaving his bag at the airport and how God spoke to him
  • Great quotes from Matt:

    The front door for me was worship.

    I spend massive amounts of time speaking to the Lord but not a lot of words are said.

    Resources we mentioned:

    • Matt’s website
  • Dirty Disciple by Matt Fagioli
  • Living Fearless: Exchanging the Lies of the World for the Liberating Truth of God by Jamie Winship
  • Related episodes:

    • James Bryan Smith and Loved Beyond Imagination
  • Phileena Heuertz and Christian Contemplation
  • Brian Zahnd and The Beauty of Christ
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    55 min
  • 350: Beth Allison Barr and Christian Curiosity

    Beth Allison Barr is the James Vardaman Professor of History at Baylor University and author of the book The Making of Biblical Womanhood: How the Subjugation of Women Became Gospel Truth. Today, Beth shares how she grew up knowing Jesus, learning that there were some things women didn’t do, and how intellectual curiosity is deeply important for her spiritual journey. We also discuss how knowing Church history and taking a curious approach to biblical interpretation can shape our faith in positive ways. Beth’s story reminds us that understanding church history with an inquisitive mind is a vital part of Christian growth.

    Listen to Beth’s story here or where you get your podcasts.

    Stories Beth shared:

    • Growing up in a Christian family in Texas
  • Never not knowing faith in Jesus and getting baptized as a young woman
  • Realizing that there were expected gender roles in high school
  • Using her intellectual curiosity and how that clashed with a literal interpretation of the Bible
  • The distinction between man’s interpretation of God and who God really is
  • Meeting her husband
  • Seeing churches regressing in terms of intellectual curiosity
  • Why KJV only is problematic
  • Why historical context is critical to understanding texts
  • How medieval history can help us now
  • Being angry at God and the letters of despair that helped her
  • When God spoke to her after her husband was fired
  • Historical context and how it helps our hermeneutic
  • Great quotes from Beth:

    My parents were never afraid of me being curious.

    My story fits into a story that’s a lot bigger than me and I’m thankful to be part of that story.

    Historical context does not diminish the Bible as God’s Word. It just helps us better understand God’s Word.

    God does not look like the white, Evangelical church.

    Resources we mentioned:

    • Beth’s website
  • The Making of Biblical Womanhood: How the Subjugation of Women Became Gospel Truth by Beth Allison Barr
  • The Rise of Christianity by Rodney Stark
  • The Showings by Julian of Norwich
  • Related episodes:

    • Aaron Niequist and Swimming in the Eternal Current
  • Aimee Byrd and Recovering from Biblical Manhood and Womanhood
  • Scot McKnight and Laura Barringer and Becoming an Agent of Good
  • Kristen Du Mez and Knowing Church History
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    59 min
  • 349: Frank Viola and the Subtlety of the Kingdom of God

    Frank Viola is a bestselling author, conference speaker, blogger, and podcaster. Today, Frank shares how he found Christ, a moment when he experienced the overwhelming love of God, and an encounter with a demon. Frank shares that his calling is to those who want to experience Jesus more fully and he shares multiple stories from his writing. We also explore the idea of the dark night of the soul and how he understands it and whether he’s experienced one. Frank’s story reminds us that the Lord is active even when we can’t directly sense him.

    Listen to Frank’s story in your favorite podcast player now!

    Stories Frank shared:

    • Exploring the deeper journey
  • Growing up in New York and then moving to Florida
  • The “two conversions” he experienced
  • The awakening he had when he was 16 years old
  • Sensing a call to ministry at 17
  • Encountering a demon and asking for help from his church
  • Feeling like God is far away
  • The distinction between the dark night of the soul and the dark night of the spirit
  • What it’s like to have a sense of God’s presence
  • Why you don’t need to have a conversation with God for everything when you know him
  • The value of coincidence in the Christian life
  • The meaning of the word evangelical
  • Great quotes from Frank:

    You can put yourself in a position to hear from the Lord.

    When you have the mind of Christ, you don’t have to consult the Lord about everything that comes up.

    One of the ways God speaks to his children is coincidence.

    The flesh is nailed to the cross and that’s where it ought to be in the life of the Christian.

    Resources we mentioned:

    • Frank’s website
  • Pagan Christianity by Frank Viola & George Barna
  • Insurgence by Frank Viola
  • Jesus Speaks by Frank Viola & Leonard Sweet
  • Hang On Let Go by Frank Viola
  • 48 Laws of Spiritual Power by Frank Viola
  • 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene
  • When Christian Leaders Deny the Faith
  • Ministry Mastermind
  • Related episodes:

    • Mike Bolton and the Power of Yes
  • Sara Billups and Moving Toward Community
  • Skye Jethani and Living Life With God
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    1 hr 22 min
  • 348: Sara Billups and Moving Toward Community

    Sara Billups is a Seattle-based writer and cultural commentator whose work has appeared in the New York Times, Christianity Today, Ekstasis, and others. Sara writes Bitter Scroll, a monthly Substack letter. She is completing her Doctor of Ministry in the Sacred Art of Writing at the Peterson Center for the Christian Imagination at Western Theological Seminary. Today, Sara shares about her 90’s youth group kid upbringing, moving to Seattle and finding a devastated church, and the dark season when she compartmentalized her faith. Sara’s story reminds us that while the spiritual desert is isolating, community is the best way through.

    Listen to Sara’s story in your favorite podcast app now!

    Stories Sara shared:

    • Growing up in a house where her father converted to Christianity from Judaism
  • Her parent’s relationship and her father’s conversion
  • Celebrating Jewish holidays and how that shaped her
  • How growing up in 80s Christianity influenced her
  • Exploring a Christian counterculture and finding her people
  • Reading creative people in high school
  • Moving to Seattle to start an intentional community
  • The cultural impact of the Mars Hill implosion
  • The season of disillusionment she faced
  • Realizing that her husband was carrying her
  • Writing for believers who feel like they are orphaned by the Church
  • Her church experience as she processed
  • Practices that help when you feel alienated
  • Great quotes from Sara

    If I actually believed the Christian story, I needed to make a change.

    There are seasons when the people who love us carry us.

    It doesn’t do any good to burn things down but I do think we need to talk about this stuff.

    Being faithful to a congregation through many waves, throughout decades is a really interesting place to sit and I’m grateful that I can.

    Resources we mentioned:

    • Sara’s website
  • Orphaned Believers: How a Generation of Christian Exiles Can Find the Way Home by Sara Billups
  • This Cultural Moment 
  • The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill
  • The Case Against Sermon Centric Sundays by Skye Jethani
  • Related episodes:

    • Brian Zahnd and the Beauty of Christ
  • Brandon Andress and the Controversy of Love
  • Becky Castle Miller and Trusting Your Emotions
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    50 min
  • Mike Bolton and the Power of Yes

    Mike Bolton is a husband, father, grandfather, and loyal friend. While he defines himself more by relationships today, he also is an author, podcaster, former pastor, and businessman. Today, Mike shares the story of how he found faith in Christ, the scholarship he lost and how that changed his life, and the ways crisis has shaped him. He tells the story of how he discovered the Lord at work in unexpected places which taught him to say yes to opportunities and see what He was up to. Mike’s story reminds us that while life with God has twists and turns, it’s a beautiful sight to behold.

    Listen to Mike’s story in your favorite podcast app now!

    Stories Mike shared:

    • Growing up in Manitoba, Canada
  • Deciding not to go to church in high school
  • Life falling apart and the question it made him ask
  • Deciding to follow Jesus because of the peace he saw in others around him
  • Why we need to ask, seek, and knock
  • Losing his hockey scholarship in school because of his faith
  • How the Lord provided at his church instead
  • The mindset that helps him face adversity
  • Having a crisis in his marriage and digging in to figure it out
  • His wife’s business and living out her faith in it
  • Discovering God at work where he did not expect
  • Learning how to think of others
  • Unlearning the sacred/secular divide
  • Great quotes from Mike:

    God’s got a great track record.

    I thought everything had to happen in the church but it seems like God is at work everywhere.

    What you believe about God and his purpose in your life has to be tested.

    Resources we mentioned:

    • Mike’s website
  • Ignite Your Mission: The Spark That Empowers Your Purpose by Mike Bolton
  • Related episodes:

    • Todd Johnson says Just Say Yes
  • Shā Sparks and Finding Purpose
  • Andrew Klavan and The Truth and the Beauty
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    1 hr 6 min
  • 346: Lisa Lamb and the Spiritual Formation of Preaching

    Lisa Lamb is a professor of preaching, a writer, and a pastor working to equip leaders in South East Asia. Her passion is to develop leaders who preach radically good news, deeply rooted in Scripture. The Lord took her and her husband on a surprising pandemic journey to seven countries, where they experienced his amazing provision at every turn. Today, Lisa shares the story of how she fell in love with preaching of the Word, the journey of becoming a professor, and why she wrote a book for pastors. Her story reminds us that the Lord is leading even when the circumstances may not appear so.

    Listen to Lisa’s story in your favorite podcast app now!

    Stories Lisa shared:

    • Serving in South East Asia and how that’s different from the US
  • Growing up in California in a Christian family full of prayer
  • How she was shaped by her sister’s disabilities
  • The wholehearted way here sister approached life
  • Reading a lot of four views books in college
  • Going to seminary right after college and leaving
  • Her sense of calling as a child
  • The moment she realized she wanted to help others learn
  • Going on staff with InterVarsity, getting married, and doing campus ministry
  • Her first homiletics class
  • Going to get her PhD in homiletics
  • Graduating in 2008 and how that affected her
  • The spiritual formation of preaching
  • The hope of the preacher for the listener
  • Trying to move overseas during the pandemic
  • Why she wrote a book for pastors
  • Great quotes from Lisa:

    I still think there’s something really holy and beautiful when we open the Word together.

    When it’s working as intended, preaching is meant to nourish us.

    God is still at work through the Church to bless the world, to be a light and a witness.

    Resources we mentioned:

    • Lisa’s website
  • Resonate: How to Preach for Deep Connection by Lisa Lamb
  • Related episodes:

    • Dan Rudman and Ripples of the Gospel
  • Christy Boulware and Love that Casts Out Fear
  • Markus Watson and How Suffering Transforms
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    54 min
  • 345: Christopher Grainger and Growing Through Trials

    Chris Grainger is the founder of The Lion Within Us and has a passion for serving others. He is building a community that provides Christian men encouragement to become the leaders God intends them to be. Chris connects with others by sharing personal stories of professional success, hurdles encountered and how every circumstance is an opportunity to build the Kingdom. Today, Chris shares how he found Christ as a young man, sensed the Lord’s presence during one of the most difficult moments in his life, and the questions he asked when tragedy struck his family. He also shares how suffering catapulted him to a place of service and led to creating the men’s community, The Lion Within Us. Chris’ story reminds us that even in our darkest moments, the Lord is with us.

    Listen to Chris’ story in your favorite podcast app now!

    Stories Chris shared:

    • Creating a ministry for men
  • Growing up in Virginia in the countryside
  • Started going to church because his girlfriend went to church
  • Giving his life to Christ at 16
  • Going to college at Old Dominion University and spending a lot of time at the bar
  • Feeling resistant to God as he got into adulthood
  • Believing his life was good before his wife left him
  • The eerie silence that told him he needed people
  • Having his Bible at the custody hearing open to James 1 to help him
  • Beginning to serve others at his church
  • How courting his wife helped him grow
  • Wanting to have children
  • Having a stillborn child and how it challenged him to run to God
  • The additional tragedies that came in a short period
  • Feeling angry at God and how he handled it
  • The emotional intimacy found through struggling with grief
  • Starting a podcast for his company
  • Starting The Lion Within Us as a membership for men
  • Helping men go from lost and along to connected
  • Great quotes from Chris:

    Anytime we say “I got this” is a moment we are about to be humbled.

    Most men’s ministry sucks.

    What you’re really craving in your relationship with your spouse is intimacy.

    Resources we mentioned:

    • Chris’s website

    Related episodes:

    • Jerry Dugan and Becoming A New Man
  • Nicole Jacobsmeyer and Joy After Suffering
  • Jon Fugler and Ditching Performance Christianity
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    48 min
  • 344: Melony Brown and Empowered to Meet the Challenge

    Melony Brown Author, speaker, and host of the Challenges Won’t Stop Me podcast. Today, Melony shares about the neurological condition she’s had since she was two years old, how living with her condition changed her relationship to the Lord, and the peace she felt leading up to brain surgery. We also talk about the mindset she developed that allowed her to overcome the challenges she faced and help her students as a result. Melony’s story reminds us that two things can be true at the same time: suffering is difficult and the Lord is present within them.

    Listen to Melony’s story in your favorite podcast app now!

    Stories Melony shared:

    • Growing up in Atlanta, Georgia
  • Having a stroke at the age of 2 and the health challenges that ensued
  • Her family’s reaction to the stroke and the mindset they instilled in her
  • The family’s sudden decision to return to church
  • Mom’s visit to find a church while she was in college
  • Meeting her husband at the first church she went to
  • Learning to study the Bible
  • Deciding to get baptized as a result of their studies
  • Beginning to have migraines and questioning God
  • The passage that helped her through a dark night
  • Struggling with how much she wasn’t able to accomplish
  • Learning the value of relying on others
  • Beginning to have mini-strokes and struggling with other issues
  • Getting a diagnosis and having neurosurgery
  • The peace that she felt leading up to the surgery
  • The mindset you need to overcome challenges
  • Knowing that God will empower you to meet the challenges you face
  • Great quotes from Melony:

    It’s hard to pray when it feels like your head is in a vice.

    I am glad to have gone through the challenges that I did.

    We’re facing challenges all the time and we have to have the right mindset.

    Trusting God as your navigator takes a lot of pressures off you.

    Resources we mentioned:

    • Melony’s website
  • Challenges Won’t Stop Me: An Interactive Survival Guide for Overcoming & Thriving (Journey On!) by Melony Brown
  • The Journey On quiz
  • Related episodes:

    • Alicia Michelle and the Renewing of Your Mind
  • Jesse Eubanks and Relationships in the Enneagram
  • Dr. Amy Sherman and The God of Shalom
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    55 min
  • 343: Alex Sezer and Creating Culture

    Alex Sezer is helping other do business better by transforming their culture. Always a high achiever, Alex led the Texas A&M football team as captain and scaled multiple business in his 20s. Today, Alex shares how he learned the value of hard work, his calling to preach, and the season of doubting his faith that helped shape him along the way. Ales also shares how he knew it was time to leave his fancy job and start something new which is a fascinating look inside his experience. Then, we talk about how to create a culture wherever you find yourself.  Alex’s story reminds us that culture is what we create through our treatement of other.

    Listen to Alex’s story in your favorite podcast app now!

    Stories Alex shared:

    • Growing up in Orange, TX in a pastor’s family
  • How the Lord came through to get a scholarship to play football
  • How his grandfather and father influenced him
  • Giving his life to Christ at 13
  • Falling in love with the Lord and reading the Bible voraciously
  • Studying preachers like Dr. Tony Evans and H.B. Charles Jr.
  • Getting involved in apologetics in college
  • What God showed him through apologetics
  • Getting into the SEC to play football
  • Learning the value of hard work
  • Going to work for a consulting firm
  • Deciding to get into real estate
  • How God speaks to him and how he knew it was time to leave his job
  • Questioning his foundation
  • How to build a positive culture
  • Great quotes from Alex:

    It’s hard when you feel it but nothing in your world looks like it.

    Everything we are blessed to steward should be

    If Jesus was here in the flesh, he’d probably be a content creator.

    Resources we mentioned:

    • Alex’s website
  • On Preaching: Personal & Pastoral Insights for the Preparation & Practice of Preaching by H.B. Charles Jr.
  • Related episodes:

    • Os Guinness and Carpe Diem Redeemed
  • Chris Staron Calls for Truce to the Culture War
  • Felicia Song and Digital Discipleship
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    56 min

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Each episode of Halfway There features an ordinary Christian sharing their story of spiritual formation on the journey of life with God. Go beyond the classic Christian testimony into the ups and…