Every form of relationship is forged based on time, love, attraction,interest, communion, compassion.
When you spend time with any of these category of persons i mentioned you begin to bond and form a relationship.
This is obtainable when you spend time with God Almighty.
A husband and wife have a time they are left alone. And they plan, program and bond better.
The quality time, communion and communication you have with God influence a lot of things.
Hear this , as a believer you must have time you spend alone with God.