Happily Ever After with Hannah Harvey

My ex-husband is getting remarried today so I figured what a perfect time to talk about when they move on... 

If you've ever felt blindsided, heartbroken, or totally unravelled after your ex found someone new — this one's for you.

In this deeply personal episode, I share:

The story of how my ex moved on just weeks after I asked for a divorce (and why I had asked for one)

What spiralled me into pain and shame — and the tools that helped me claw my way out

How I coped without falling back into alcohol... but still making mistakes (Tinder anyone?)

The somatic healing that caught me by surprise — and brought unexpected peace

And how I finally learned how to get what I most wanted to feel... 

This episode is a journey through the messy, beautiful, heartbreaking, empowering rollercoaster of healing — and a reminder that you can get to a place where your ex getting remarried doesn't derail you.

✨ Resources mentioned:

How to Divorce Sober: my book that shares the full story

Free 7-Day Mini Course for divorcing mums who need a reset

Free Venus Yoga Class: your chance to explore embodied healing through intention-based yoga. Tonight's Free class is all about embodying FREEDOM! (and if you get this after the event, follow the link as you can still do the replay video)

The Magic Divorce Club: my upcoming group for women ready to turn divorce into alchemy

Book a free 1:1 call with me - let’s chat about what's happening for you at the moment.  💌 you can message via:

> Instagram: @hannahharveyuk

 > Email: hannah@hannahharvey.co.uk

"If you’re going through a divorce and you're having a really hard time, I just want you to know that you’re not alone. You’re really not alone. And I hope that this podcast, and hearing other people’s stories, and hearing from me, makes you feel like it’s okay. You’re doing okay. You're not broken." Hannah Harvey

In this 100th (!!) episode of Happily Ever After with Hannah Harvey, Katie and I are celebrating a heartfelt milestone — 100 episodes of walking through the mess, magic, and transformation of divorce and I'm so glad you're here with us!

We reflect on the evolution of the podcast, sharing how it began from a place of breakdown and slowly turned into a space of deep healing, community, and courage.

This episode is a raw and tender love letter to you — the listeners — who’ve found strength, solace, and sisterhood along the way.

✨ In this episode:

The personal story behind the podcast and my own divorce

The surprising gift that came from losing everything

What I learned from speaking to a LOT of guests and 10s of thousands of listeners

The recurring theme that unites every woman going through divorce

A loving reminder that we are not broken!

🎧 Whether you’ve been with the show since episode one or you’re just tuning in now, this episode is for you - I'd love to hear what resonated...

💌 Love the show? Here’s how to stay connected:

Join the waitlist for The Magic Divorce Course launching 2nd June

Download the free video course: Love Notes Reset | 7 Days of Calm for Divorcing Mums

Subscribe to the Love Notes newsletter on Substack for weekly inspiration

Episode 99: How I Manifested My Divorce (Wait… What?!)

What if the universe gave you exactly what you didn’t ask for?

In this episode of Happily Ever After, I dive into the unexpected way I manifested my divorce — not intentionally, but as part of a deeper journey of self-discovery and healing. Along the way, I share my personal manifesting process, how to shift your energy (without toxic positivity), and why obstacles might just be detours in the right direction.

Plus, I talk about:

Ready to tap into the magic of manifesting? Press play and let’s dive in.

Links + Resources:

Get in Touch:

P.S. Next week is the 100th episode and my 42nd birthday — tell me how you think I should celebrate!

This week on Happily Ever After I'm sharing what I do on a bad day - almost like a checklist, so I know exactly what to do and I don't have to think about it - so I end the day better than I started it.

It's 5 things TO DO and 4 things NOT to do. See what you think and let me know if I've missed any of your must do things for a bad day! DM me on instagram @hannahharveyUK or drop me a message through my substack: Hannahharveyuk.substack.com

In this show I talk about...

My spring events:

Love Notes:

Also:

Do you ever feel like you're not enough? Not good enough ... lacking in some undefined way. Me too! It's very common.

Welcome to Happily Ever After, in this episode, I'm exploring the concept of 'Enough'.

For someone who never had enough alcohol... and now ZERO alcohol is enough. It's a weird concept for me and yet this feeling of 'Feeling Enough' lingers on.

I had a profound experience at the Rebecca Campbell live event at the weekend, which has helped me to reframe the whole thing. Have a listen. Does this resonate with you? Get in touch and let me know on instagram @hannahharveyuk or through my website hannahharvey.uk.

other things mentioned in the show:

When we're in crisis—whether it's divorce, grief, anxiety, or panic—it can feel like we’re completely on our own, with no one to turn to.

In those moments, our brains convince us that we’re isolated, without a friend in the world. But the reality is, we aren’t. That’s why it’s so important to build our support network before crisis hits.

There’s so much more on this topic (because it's SO IMPORTANT) in my book, How to Divorce Sober. If you need more encouragement and permission to build your team, head there!

I also talk about my not-so-secret love of online courses and how they’ve become an essential part of my support system:

I also go for walks and chat with friends, but there’s something so comforting and familiar about learning from these people I’ve grown to love.

Creative mentor and all-round babe. She was on ep 43 (love and slow living) and 58 (back to school) and you can find her treasure trove of online goodies at Creatively Conscious and Sparkle on Substack

Mother-centric business and life course that was truly transformational for me last. So many ah-ha moments, it helped to get through my book publishing fears and I loved doing it with my pal, Claire. We'd send each other long voice notes about what came up for us. Super bonding!

I've never seen motherhood and business being spoken about at all, never mind in such an insightful and practical way.

Just magic! The live round starts again on 27th Feb 2025 so have a look now so you don't miss it: Art of Alchemy. Use the code AOAFRIENDS for a 10% discount.

Incredible teacher who's been around forever so I'm sure you already know her! But boy do I love her. Such wise, brave, sensible, encouraging, get-your-head-out-your-own-butt tough love. Just what we all need from time to time!

The first course I did: Money manifesting and multiple streams of income

She's done hundreds of courses so now I'm in her Biz & Life Academy as you get everything for a fraction of the cost.

Yoga with intention, online courses for the soul, magic that works... I've been subscribed to Jambo's online world for about 5 years now and couldn't live without him. I tried. Those months were rough.

**Trigger warning: I talk about the death of my pet**

This episode is named with all the loving kindness there is because these are MY excuses!

I've been meditating FOR YEARS and have recently taken extra training so I can teach it even better.

AND YET, we all have the same excuses as to why we don't do these things.

Even though Meditating is one of the easiest, cheapest and most incredible mental health tools there are.

Here to get us all out of our own ways I give you 5 excuses that just really don't wash.

In the episode I talk about:

Hot off the back of a super, grown up and mature birthday party for my youngest, where both parents AND our new partners were present, co-parenting has been very much on my mind, so for what it's worth, here are my thoughts on the matter!

I talk about why I don't like the term narcissist. 

And share my boundaries that helped me keep communication alive during a high conflict divorce and why it was so important to me.

I also share the exact words I was using every morning to manifest the best outcome of the divorce for my children. It kept me focused during the court battles on what was important and helped me keep check of my motivations for everything (i.e. for them and not for spite!).

you can read all my boundaries and survival tools for divorce in my new book How to Divorce Sober, available in audio, ebook and print here. If you'd like a signed copy, head here!

Katie and I are talking about the fact we bought our own houses for the first time after our relationship break ups. We talk about the positives and negatives of this huge, grown up step and share our 3 essential tips for doing it successfully -  1 of which is very unlike me!!

Show notes...

I refer to a Brene Brown book which I completely forgot the name of... it was DARING GREATLY. Lol, as if I forgot.

We also discuss moon cups at great length and would love your feedback on how you get on with them and any suggestions for Katie! 

The house discussion starts around 14 mins in as we have a lot to catch up :)

You can contact me, Hannah, on Instagram here @hannahharveyuk, or Katie here @katiewomblingfree

On this week's episode of Happily Ever After, I'm joined by my business coach to talk about MONEY and how we are once again sabotaging ourselves from receiving more of it.

Rachel talks about money as a spirit who wants to be with us and wants to flow through our lives. Love that! She explains the mindset shifts we can do (in a gentle and pragmatic way), that will really start to rewire the brain ready to spot opportunities and bring in more abundance.

She also talks about the importance of understanding our shadows and how in fully embracing who we are, money (and the people who want to buy from us) love authenticity.

We talk about:

AOA - Art of Alchemy by Kat Rivers (all about motherhood and business and a course I did over the summer which I LOVED!)

Money Magic - Rachel's course on changing your money mindset - come and join me, I'm doing it too!

Human Design - this is a great intro place to start and if you want to go deeper head here << both are free to access your results (and then tell me, I'd love to know what you are!).