This weeks episode is all about teaching sex ed in primary schools! Join Nell and her guest, Heather Kirby as they delve into what it's like being responsible for teaching kids all about sex, reproduction, consent, sexuality and why the curriculum isn't that great. Be sure to check out the show notes for some gems!

 

Heather's Instagram: pageandinkliteracy

Consent videos:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lOS5_I3Yzog
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=raxPKklDF2k
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QSDjSetlGiw
 

Example of the planned parenthood info videos
Planned Parenthood youtube

Ontario Sex Ed Curriculum
 

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

(Skip to 24 mins for the main topic). The famously coined "Tension Orgasm' by yours truly is finally here! Nell is talking all about why you keep losing your orgasms, hitting that plateau or having itty bitty Os that will vanish if you move your big toe slightly to the left. Nell also shares a story about her neighbour who has a very odd concern about her boyfriend and later on at the very end, bitches about the reaction a foster coordinator had when she inquired about adopting another dog. 

 

Courses

• Transition out of Syntribation

Affiliate Links Dude!

• All Lelo Products (Get Sila though!)
• Want some consensual/ethical/women-run adult content?
• Want some sessions for yourself?

 

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

For the first time since season 1, Nell opens up about her personal life and what she's been going through that's causing frustration as she works to build her pleasure empire. If you're looking for sex advice - this is the one episode that doesn't have it - BUT, if you're wanting to connect on more of a personal, friend level with Nell and understand why the patriarchy is pissing her off in building her business then this will be a good one.

My guest this week is Sylvie Barak who shares all about her experiences with a shitty OBGYN, starting pelvic floor therapy, seeing a sex coach, opening up her marriage to explore her sexuality, being shocked at how cared for she was by her midwife, a crazy story about an anal dilator exploding inside her vagina while pregnant and SO MUCH MORE!

 

Sylvie's Instagram: @s3xandsensibility

Sylvie's e-mail: [email protected]

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Nell shares her opinions about the pressure to have surgery done on the labias in order to fit the ridiculous and inaccurate images that male-created porn has caused. She chats about the many types of vulvas, why she gets pissed when people who know the difference between vulva and vagina still insist on saying vagina (hello doctors from the talk show!). She explains what labiaplasty is and the many reasons why women and vsquad are getting it. 

Here's a direct link to my 'Vulva Power' Highlights in Instagram: 

Here's the 'Vulva Gallery'

Did you know that there's a Vagina Museum?

Here is the Vulva Printing

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Nell sits down with her client and now friend, Kate to discuss her experience of contracting, being diagnosed and managing genital herpes. They discuss each of the steps and the emotions that Kate experienced and how Kate manages herpes in a loving, long term relationship. 

The resources Kate found helpful with her diagnoses:

• https://www.herpes.org.nz/
• https://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/treatment.htm

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Skip ahead to 7:30 if you don't want to hear the personal info. In this episode, Nell walks you through how our clitoris can become a bit too used to our toys which then makes it nearly impossible to reach an orgasm with a partner. She gives advice and tips on how to change this and transition out of this one track kind of method so you can find a happy medium and get that sensation back.

 

Bunny Ear/Tooth Bullet Vibrators

- https://www.jejoue.com/products/rabbit-bullet-vibrator

- https://www.lovehoney.ca/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-vibrators/p/mantric-rechargeable-dual-tip-clitoral-vibrator/a41535g75601.html

- https://jimmyjane.com/products/form-2-rechargeable-clit-vibrator

- https://www.peepshowtoys.com/collections/clitoral-pleasure/products/svakom-nymph-moving-fingers-vibrator

 

Skipping Stone Vibrators

-https://www.lovehoney.ca/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-vibrators/p/lovehoney-clitoral-caress-usb-rechargeable-clitoral-vibrator/a38231g70595.html

-https://www.peepshowtoys.com/collections/clitoral-pleasure/products/je-joue-mimi-waterproof-rechargeable-silicone-vibrator-aspx

-https://www.lovehoney.ca/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-vibrators/p/mantric-rechargeable-clitoral-vibrator/a39047g71739.html

-https://www.lovehoney.ca/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-vibrators/p/desire-luxury-rechargeable-clitoral-vibrator/a33304g59245.html

-https://www.lovehoney.ca/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-vibrators/p/lelo-lily-2-luxury-rechargeable-clitoral-vibrator/a34535g62381.html

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this one, Nell explains further about the SILA toy review she did on Tiktok and answers the questions many of you had about it. Nell goes into why this toy is a major game-changer for VSquad pleasure and it may just be the answer to teaching you how to have an orgasm. This episode is not sponsored.

 

 

 

Looking for Sila by Lelo? https://lelo.to/Nell-SILA

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode Nell gets into the different ways that saying no during a sexual experience looks and sounds like, she gets into why it's so hard for the V-Squad to speak up, what freezing up looks like, how boundaries are important for protecting us from our own evolutionary design and she shares a personal story about when her own boundaries were crossed. Come be vulnerable and respectful during this episode and come with an open heart so that you can better understand what many V-Squads deal with.

 

 

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Whether the thought of your sister keeps popping up during masturbation or a trauma memory appears during sex, Nell takes you through her own method of interrupting intrusive thoughts and actually teaching the brain how to stop thinking of those unwanted thoughts. Trigger warning for a brief overview of how sexual abuse can affect our thoughts.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.