Hard Wig, Soft Life Podcast

Meet DJaysoFunnyy — content creator, comedian, actor, former D1 athlete, and the guy who amassed 100,000 subscribers on one app in two months by taking six videos viral. He's a country boy from a town of 500 people in Mississippi who moved to Tampa, Florida, and is quietly becoming one of the funniest creators on the internet — and he's just getting started.

In this episode, we dive deep into:

• Growing up in Mississippi with a population of 500 — and being the first person from his city to build something like this
• Playing baseball and basketball at the D1 level and walking away when content creation started buzzing
• How a toxic relationship skit filmed at midnight went viral on TikTok and changed the entire trajectory of his life
• Why Facebook is the platform every creator is sleeping on — and how he gained 60,000 followers in under two months
• Creating 100% original content and why he refuses to copy what's trending
• The stand-up comedy sets written in his notes app that he's too scared to perform — yet
• The day he threw his work shirt in the garbage and walked out of his job to go all in on content creation
• Why he does everything himself and what it costs him mentally
• The guilt of leveling up while the people back home stay behind — and the moment he finally let that go
• Building Top of the Line Films and the dream of producing and starring in his own feature film
• Why Desi Banks is his dream collaborator — and how Brandy and Ray J are actually his cousins
• What a zero dollar month looks like and how faith keeps him going

Connect with DJaysoFunnyy:
📱 TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, YouTube: @djaysofunnyy (two Y's at the end)

DJ keeps it completely real about the grind, the algorithm, the doubt, the guilt, and what it actually takes to bet on yourself when nobody from your city has ever done it before. This is what happens when a country boy goes all in on the big city dream.

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Meet Representative Angie Nixon — Florida State Representative, mother of five, union organizer, small business owner, domestic violence advocate, and US Senate candidate. She's the woman who brought a pink megaphone onto the House floor, got arrested the next day for a sit-in outside the Governor's office, and showed up the day after that ready to fight again. She's not performing. This is just who she is.

In this episode, we dive deep into:

• Growing up in Jacksonville as a fifth generation native in a household filled with domestic violence — and how that shaped everything
• Being a single mom for 12 years and what it really takes to build a village
• Why she changed her major from pre-med to political science — and never looked back
• Interning for Mia Jones at 24 while pushing Natalie in a stroller and running for City Council
• Opening Cafe Resistance Bookstore in a predominantly Black community — free food pantry, free African American history classes, free tutoring and all
• Why she brought a pink megaphone to the House floor and how she matched it to her outfit on purpose
• Redistricting, gerrymandering, and why your vote is being engineered — explained simply
• The Republican leader who told her she talked too much and had to choose between advocacy and bringing money home — and what she said
• Running for US Senate against an appointed incumbent who won't debate her
• Why "vote blue no matter who" isn't enough and what she actually wants from voters
• What government programs did for her as a single mom — and why those programs are being cut right now
• How to register as a Democrat by July 20th to vote in the August 18th primary

Connect with Representative Angie Nixon:
📱 Instagram, X, Facebook: @angie4fl
🌐 angienixon.com
🗳️ Register as a Democrat by July 20th | Early voting starts August 3rd | Election Day August 18th

This conversation will make you feel something. Melissa walked in not knowing much about politics and walked out a few inches taller. That's what happens when you put the right person in the room.

#HardWigSoftLife #AngieNixon #FloridaPolitics #USSenateFlorida #BlackWomenLead #Podcast #BlackPodcast #FloridaSenate #VoteFloridia #Angie4FL #CafeResistance #WhenTheyGoLowGetLoud #GrassrootsPolitics #FloridaElection2026 #BlackWomenInPolitics #HumanityFirst #PeopleOverPolitics #TampaBay #Jacksonville

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Meet GittFai — Tampa-born producer, rapper, and the man behind one of the biggest records in the country right now. From making beats at 11 years old to landing a song on 200,000 TikToks and charting at #45 on the Billboard Hot 100 with BossMan Dlow's Motion Party, GittFai has been quietly putting Tampa on the map — and the city is finally getting its flowers.

In this episode, we dive deep into:

• Starting to make beats at age 7 and getting a regional radio hit in high school
• The obsession with figuring out how to replicate a hit — and how that obsession became his superpower
• Staying a student of the craft and why staying current kept him from becoming obsolete
• The Tampa sound, the cowbell, and why skroll music is the culture
• How Motion Party went viral on TikTok before it even officially dropped
• What actually moved him during the Billboard moment — and it wasn't the chart
• Being homeless and starting over — and why his story is proof that it can happen
• His unexpected new love for country music and why it makes total sense
• Favorite producers: Kanye West, Pharrell, No I.D. and what he learned from each
• Street Kanye — his upcoming trilogy of EPs dropping soon
• Skroll or Die — his compilation project and the vision behind it
• Making a beat live in the studio — and giving Melissa her own Hard Wig Soft Life intro

Connect with GittFai: 🎵 Stream Motion Party feat. BossMan Dlow wherever you listen to music 📱 Instagram: @gittfai

GittFai keeps it real about the grind, the come up, the city, and what it means to build something from nothing in Tampa, Florida. This is what happens when talent meets time.

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Keywords: GittFai, Motion Party, BossMan Dlow, Billboard Hot 100, Tampa music producer, skroll music, Tampa Bay hip hop, beat making, FL Studio, Street Kanye, Skroll or Die, Tampa sound, independent music, Black podcast, Hard Wig Soft Life

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Meet Jodi Campbell — Pilates instructor, founder of PRSNC Fitness, and the woman building Tampa's first Black-owned Pilates studio experience one pop-up at a time. From saying yes to a phone call that changed everything to surrendering her vision to God and watching it come back bigger, Jodi proves that unorthodox paths still lead to the destination.

In this episode, we dive deep into:

• How a single phone call from a friend sparked the idea for PRSNC Fitness
• Why her word of the year — surrender — completely changed how she moves in business
• Building a brand while still teaching classes and paying your bills
• The doubt that shows up before every single one of her 90+ events and how she handles it
• How Corner Haus became her home base and why it was a God thing, not a plan B
• Removing the vowels from PRSNC and what it actually means
• Celebrating other people's wins even when you're still in your building season
• Her mantra: work like it's gonna work — because it is

Connect with Jodi: 📱 Instagram:  @jcampbell35 🧘🏾‍♀️ PRSNC Fitness: @prsncfitness 📍 Corner Haus — Seminole Heights, Tampa FL

Jodi keeps it real about faith, doubt, community, and what it looks like to build something from nothing in a city that's watching. This is what happens when purpose meets presence.

#HardWigSoftLife #JodiCampbell #PRSNCFitness #TampaBay #BlackWomenWellness #Pilates #BlackOwnedBusiness #FaithAndBusiness #EntrepreneurMindset #WorkLikeItsGonnaWork #SoftLife

Keywords: Jodi Campbell, PRSNC Fitness, Black owned Pilates, Tampa wellness, faith and entrepreneurship, building a brand, Black women in business, Pilates instructor, community wellness, Tampa Bay fitness

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We're back on the couch and this time I brought someone with me.

June Archer — media executive, author, entrepreneur, and what I can only describe as a dot connector — is sitting with me today and I need you to clear your schedule because this conversation is not one you're gonna want to rush through.

We met backstage at the Power Networking Conference in Atlanta and I knew immediately that this was someone I needed to get on this couch. June has built a career across music, media, entertainment, and now publishing — not by pivoting, but by evolving. And there is a difference.

In this episode we get into what it really means to push the button on your dreams instead of just talking about them, why trying is not the same as doing, how June went from working in the executive suite at Cigna as a college freshman to becoming one of the most connected people in the room, the lost art of human connection in a world that hides behind devices, and why your word for the year means nothing without execution behind it.

Oh — and we talked about Jay-Z for a solid minute. You already know.

June also brought his brand new book, The Definitive Art of Networking, and broke down why networking is actually the wrong word for what we're all trying to do. This one is going to shift how you move in every room you walk into.

New episodes every two weeks. Subscribe so you don't miss what's coming.

🎙️ Hard Wig, Soft Life is available on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and Amazon Music.

Produced by BUSSALENZ Media

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We're back, baby. Give yourself your flowers.

Season 3 is HERE and we are back on the couch where we belong.

I'll be honest with you — I filmed this episode way more times than I'd like to admit. Between planning and executing The Intersection (a 100-person culture event that I threw entirely by myself), doing 75 Hard, co-hosting Shake the Room, and moderating at the Power Networking Conference in Atlanta where I shared a stage with Les Brown — I was not mentally available to show up for this podcast the way it deserved. But we're here now.

In this episode, we're catching up on everything that went down between Season 2 and Season 3: what it really took to pull off a first event solo and actually land sponsors, why I'm moving to Atlanta in September, how I'm redefining my relationship with time and the baby conversation, what it feels like to be almost 35 and still feel like you're racing the clock, and why this season I'm done being polished.

And more than anything — we're talking about giving yourself your flowers. Before someone else does. Before you're ready. Right now.

If you've been rocking with HWSL since Episode 0, this one is for you. And if you're new here — welcome. Get comfortable.

New episodes every two weeks. Subscribe so you don't miss what's coming.

🎙️ Hard Wig, Soft Life is available on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and Amazon Music.

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This is it - the Season 2 finale of Hard Wig, Soft Life.

11 months ago, I started this podcast not knowing if I had anything valuable to say. I just knew I wanted to share my story - from being a felon who faced jail, eviction, and homelessness to building a life I'm proud of.

Season 2 became so much more than that. I trademarked the name (by myself, no lawyer). I got invited to speak at events. I moderated a panel at Nike Wellness Collective. I'm heading to Atlanta for a speaking engagement. This little idea kept growing.

But the real growth happened behind the scenes. Watching myself back on camera forced me to confront things about myself I didn't even realize - how I respond to trauma, how I've spent my life trying to be palatable, how I hide behind my guests instead of showing up fully as myself.

Therapy every two weeks alongside releasing episodes every two weeks? That combination exposed everything. I'm unlearning the need to assimilate. I'm learning to show up unapologetically. I'm embracing my accent, my directness, my authenticity - not as a buzzword, but as who I actually am.

This season taught me:

• Empty the clip on your ideas, even when it feels cringey
• Growth isn't linear and that's okay
• You don't have to be perfect to start
• Finishing something you're proud of is its own reward

Some personal news: My husband Ryan and I are actively trying for a baby. For the first time in my life, I feel ready to be a mom without resentment or feeling like I'm giving up on myself. I've accomplished things I'm proud of, and I'm ready for the next chapter.

Thank you to everyone who made Season 2 possible - Justin Story for Creators Escape, Sabrina and Imani from Blackstock Footage for producing, and every single guest who trusted me with their story: Tracey Baker-Simmons, Esso, Pastor Tekoa Pouerie, Jada Urban, Monique, and more.

Most importantly, thank you to my community. Without you listening, there's nothing for me to create.

Season 3? We'll see what happens. But I promise more episodes of just me talking. No more hiding behind interviews.

It's been real. See you soon.

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Sometimes the best conversations start with discovering you have the same favorite rapper! When I reconnected with Jada Urban in NYC after three years, we ended up bonding over everything from Jay-Z to growing up Afro-Latina in spaces where we were often the only ones who looked like us.
Jada's been behind the scenes on some of your favorite productions - from "Owning Manhattan" (where she watched people casually drop $7.7 million on apartments) to the Tony Awards. But what I love about her is that she shows up authentically in every space, no code-switching required.
In this candid girl talk, we dive into:

- What it's really like being the production assistant who speaks up about diversity on set
- The reality of working 12-hour days while being a mom to a three-year-old
- Our shared experiences growing up Afro-Latina and the identity confusion (like teachers asking me "how are you black AND Hispanic?")
- Why she prefers controlling the vision from behind the camera
- Her dream to work with Henry Louis Gates Jr. on PBS projects
- The art of advocating for yourself without burning bridges
- Music memories that shaped us (shoutout to Watch the Throne tour!)
- Secret talents that involve toes (yes, we went there)

This episode is for anyone who's ever felt like the only one in the room, anyone trying to balance career ambitions with motherhood, or anyone who refuses to dim their light to make others comfortable. Plus, we settle the age-old debate about whether KIX cereal still exists.

Two women just catching up and keeping it 100 about representation, motherhood, and making it in entertainment.
#HardWigSoftLife #ProductionLife #DiversityInMedia #WorkingMoms #AfroLatina #EntertainmentIndustry #BehindTheScenes #Authenticity #NoCodeSwitching #RepresentationMatters #SingleMom #ProductionAssistant #RealTalk #JayZ

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This episode is so special! 🎬✨ For the first time, I'm bringing someone from behind the camera to the front - meet Zebrina Lee, co-founder of Blackstock Footage and the creative genius who's been helping bring Hard Wig, Soft Life to life visually.

What started as a professional relationship has blossomed into a beautiful friendship, and today Zebrina shares her powerful journey of finding her voice through art, healing, and entrepreneurship.

In this episode, we dive deep into:

• Her evolution from journalism dreams to becoming a cinematographer and visual storyteller
• How endometriosis and trauma led to a profound healing journey through holistic health
• Building Blackstock Footage with her husband to preserve and celebrate Black culture
• Using art as medicine - from photography to painting to herbalism
• The importance of authentic representation in media and stock footage
• Creating with intention: "I'm creating with a clear mind and an open heart"
• Supporting women entrepreneurs in telling their visual stories

Zebrina's story is one of resilience, creativity, and the power of using your voice to heal not just yourself, but your community. From sexual assault survival to endometriosis battles to building a groundbreaking stock footage company, her journey proves that our greatest challenges can become our most powerful purpose.

Connect with Zebrina: 📱 Instagram: @ArtByZebrina
🌐 Blackstock Footage: blackstockfootage.io 🎬 Visual storytelling for women entrepreneurs and healers

This conversation will inspire you to see art as more than creativity - it's healing, it's purpose, and it's a pathway to finding your authentic voice.

#HardWigSoftLife #ZebrinaLee #BlackstockFootage #ArtHealing #VisualStorytelling #Endometriosis #HolisticHealing #BlackRepresentation #WomenEntrepreneurs #CreativeJourney #FindingYourVoice #ArtAsMedicine

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Meet ESSO - entrepreneur, podcast host of Bag Fuel, and the man who's literally making business sexy for the culture. From surviving an attempt on his life at 22 to building a six-figure empire while navigating personal struggles, ESSO proves that authenticity isn't just a buzzword - it's a business strategy.
In this episode, we dive deep into:

- Why "marketing yourself like a rapper" changed his entire approach to business
- How putting your heart first in everything creates genuine connections and opportunities
- Building from rock bottom: losing everything in 2010 to hitting 100K YouTube subscribers
- The power of authentic networking without asking for anything in return
- Why he only talks to 3 people a day and how that protects his energy
- Creating the Business Brunch movement and teaching financial literacy to youth
- Having his biggest year financially while going through his hardest time personally
- Why vacation and travel opened his mind more than any college degree
Building multiple revenue streams and knowing your worth ($3,500 speaking fees!)

Connect with ESSO:
📱 Instagram: @EssoWrld
🎙️ YouTube: Bag Fuel
🎓 ESSO University: SKOOL app ($47/month)
📅 Upcoming: Business Brunch Texas (Sept 13)
ESSO keeps it 100 about everything - from his champagne habit to intermittent fasting, from authentic networking to turning personal pain into business profit. This is what happens when authenticity meets entrepreneurship.


#HardWigSoftLife #esso  #MakingBusinessSexy #AuthenticEntrepreneurship #BagFuel #BusinessBrunch #BlackEntrepreneurs #EntrepreneurMindset #AuthenticNetworking #FinancialLiteracy #YouTubeSuccess #BusinessEducation #GenerationalWealth #ESSOwrld
Keywords: ESSO, making business sexy, authentic entrepreneurship, bag fuel podcast, business brunch, financial literacy, authentic networking, entrepreneur mindset, black entrepreneurs, YouTube success, business education, generational wealth

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