The Remembrance Codes

Harm Is Not Holy: Spiritual Bypass, Redemptive Suffering & Accountability


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Is suffering part of a divine plan? Are abuse and corruption “lessons” souls signed up for? In this episode, we draw a clear line: harm is not holy.

As details surface about corruption, trafficking, and abuse of power, it’s easy for spiritual language to blur accountability. We explore how concepts like archetypes, karma, collective awakening, and redemptive suffering can unintentionally excuse harm or numb our moral clarity. Understanding patterns is not the same as excusing choices. Exploitation and abuse are actions—and actions carry responsibility.

We also talk about anger and trauma healing. Many survivors of childhood abuse could not access anger because it threatened safety and attachment. The nervous system did what it had to do and said, “I’m fine.” Anger, when it comes, is not a spiritual failure—it can be the body reclaiming boundary. And if it hasn’t come, that makes sense too. Resilience does not retroactively sanctify harm. Growth may arise from wounds, but we do not call the wound sacred.

Finally, we revisit a deeply embedded theological narrative: the idea that suffering was required for redemption. What happens when violence is framed as part of God’s plan? How does that shape the way we interpret abuse, corruption, and power today? We question redemptive suffering without dismantling faith, and we move the holy center away from violence and back toward compassion, presence, and love.

Pattern is not possession.
 Archetype is not destiny.
 Wrong now is still wrong.

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The Remembrance CodesBy Susan Sutherland