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Episode 17: The Return, the Becoming, and Being Your 10.0 Version

I'm bacckkkk and with Episode 17 hitting the restart button, we explore what it really means to return to yourself after growth, burnout, or loss and how becoming isn’t about transformation overnight, but alignment over time.  You can't stay in healing mode like most do!! NO!  Get up & Get out!!  Start reinventing yourself and your life!!!

This episode unpacks the quiet courage it takes to shed old versions of yourself, old systems and patterns that never really grooved anyway, its about walking out of the dark and back into the light where we are meant to live., integrating the lessons learned, and stepping fully into who we are right now. 

We talk about releasing outdated identities, redefining success on your own terms, and choosing consistency over perfermoring as you build your “10.0 version.”  

This isn’t about mainstream hustles or airy fairy reinvention, its not a Tarot lesson ether, it’s about embodiment, self trust, and showing up with intention to live your Second Chapter fully and aware.

If you’re in a season of rebuilding, reclaiming, or realigning, this episode is your reminder that becoming is not a destination it’s a practice, a personal ritual you choose or not... the choices are always made for you, or by you, this episode  asks you  who is driving you? 

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Part 1- Erika M returns with a powerful, free-flow tribute to Charlie Kirk—honoring his life and legacy while calling listeners to rise above division and fear.


Part 2- Erika M returns to Hart2Harts with a heartfelt tribute to the late Charlie Kirk—reflecting on legacy, faith, resilience, and what it means to rise from tragedy. This episode also covers verified facts surrounding the case, public reactions, and a moment of reflection with Maya Angelou’s “Still I Rise.”
Disclaimer: The views expressed are personal opinions for commentary/information only. All individuals are innocent until proven guilty.

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MOMMY NEEDS A DRINK! The Shame-The Secrets of Midlife Drinking

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She’s not at the club. She’s not sloppy. She’s not posting about it.
She’s the mom( or Pops ). The caregiver. The over-functioner.
And she’s pouring “just one” every afternoon — sometimes by noon.

In this Episode 15, Erika M gets brutally honest about midlife drunks, and the women hiding booze in a boot in the closet, for the IG Moms, the Tik Tok Moms, the bored housewife in her early 30's married to Pro Golf hubby that's old enough to be her actual Father.  For the Divorcee that just can't get over him leaving you for younger her. The hidden epidemic of daily drinking — the polished exterior, the wine-in-the-Stanley culture, and the emotional chaos many are trying to hide quietly., has gotten so loud with Jose, Rosé and Xani it's its own secret culture.

With truth, compassion, clarity, and zero judgment, Erika shares hard statistics, real stories, and her own journey through sobriety and the shame of relapse. 

Whether you’re sober curious, in recovery, or silently wondering if your “normal” drinking isn’t so normal — this one’s for you.  It's for anyone with a desire to stop drinking.

💔 Why are so many midlife women drinking more than ever before?

What are the lies we tell ourselves to keep going?

This isn’t about shame — it’s about waking up. It's about NOT being so "Anonymous" its about not feeling ashamed and reclaiming your place, maybe for the first time ever.

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Disclaimer:
This episode contains sensitive content related to addiction, mental health, and recovery. Erika is not a licensed therapist or doctor, but a sober woman in midlife sharing her lived experience and becoming certified in sober, trauma, and life coaching.

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If you’re tired of numbing and ready to feel again — press play.

Get REAL. Change. It begins with YOU!

#midlifesobriety #soberwomen #soberpodcast #recoveryjourney #alcoholawareness #hart2harts

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Episode 14 

Breaking Generational Curses – The Truth they don't want me to tell you...

Returning to personal Power
In this deeply personal and spiritual episode, Erika M speaks candidly about healing the hidden wounds that travel through families—from betrayal and manipulation to silence and shame. She explores what it really means to break generational curses—not just through faith or ritual, but through clarity, boundary-setting, and fierce self-love.

You’ll hear a powerful reversal prayer, cleansing practices, and how to recognize when ancestral patterns are affecting your present. Whether you’re dealing with spiritual attacks, toxic family dynamics, or a painful inheritance of emotional baggage, this episode is your reminder: it ends with you.

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BONUS EPISODE - PART 1 - Episode 13 

" When the Melting Pot Throws Molotov Bombs at Society..."

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⚖️ Legal Disclaimer
This episode contains strong personal opinions, editorial commentary, and references to public figures and current events. While grounded in factual reporting, some content reflects opinion and protected free expression. Allegations mentioned remain unproven unless legally confirmed. Listener discretion is advised.
 

This episode is not for the politically correct — it’s for the politically exhausted.

California may be the setting, but what’s happening here isn’t local — it’s a warning. This week, Erika M rips the veil off the carefully curated narrative surrounding immigration, crime, political hypocrisy, and media manipulation in America. From $2.3 billion mysteriously “lost” under Mayor Karen Bass, to firebombs thrown at peaceful protests with barely a whisper from the White House, we break down how justice is being weaponized — and how the wrong people are being protected.

ICE is deporting the wrong people. Terrorists are being excused as “protestors.” And Gavin Newsom’s staged sainthood is just a mask for mismanagement, insider deals, and selective morality. Meanwhile, Gov. Gavin Newsom and Mayor ff L.A. Karen Bass roll out a welcome mat for entitlement and chaos — while vilifying ICE and TRUMP and the very citizens they Lie to Steal from and have impaired by feeding them leftist agendas trying to hold it together. 

This isn’t just about California. This is America’s blueprint for destruction — where corruption is policy, and accountability is canceled.

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🔥 In this episode:

• $2.3 billion in homeless funding — gone with zero answers
• The selective deportation of workers while agitators stay protected
• A Molotov cocktail attack in Colorado that the media ignored
• Obama’s deportation legacy — and the silence that followed
• The border disaster and the lie of “compassion”
• The two-tier justice system that’s punishing loyalty and rewarding extremism
• Why California’s collapse is no longer a regional issue — it’s the playbook



🎧 If you’re tired of being lied to, silenced, or ignored — you’re in the right place.
Welcome to The Hart 2 Harts with Erika M Podcast. This is Episode 13: “When the Melting Pot Throws Molotov Bombs at Society.”

Share it. Save it. Speak it. The truth won’t tell itself.

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Episode #12

The Real on Demon Narcissists

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LEGAL DISCLAIMER

Disclaimer:
The content in this episode of The Hart 2 Harts with Erika M Podcast is intended for informational and personal reflection purposes only. It does not constitute professional medical, psychological, or legal advice. The views and opinions expressed by the host and any guests are their own and do not reflect those of any affiliated organizations.

Listener discretion is advised, as this episode contains discussion of emotional manipulation, narcissistic abuse, and trauma. If you are experiencing abuse or in need of professional support, please seek help from a licensed mental health provider or a trusted crisis resource.

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EPISODE DESCRIPTION

Episode 12: The Real on Demon Narcissists

In this bold and unfiltered episode, Erika M pulls back the mask on the manipulative, soul-draining personalities she calls demon narcissists. These aren’t just toxic exes or difficult family members—this is spiritual warfare disguised as love, attention, and control.

Through personal truth and spiritual insight, Erika walks you through how to recognize the patterns, protect your energy, and begin to reclaim your power. If you’ve ever doubted your instincts or felt spiritually attacked in a relationship, this episode is your confirmation.

Trigger warning: This episode includes sensitive topics like narcissistic abuse and emotional trauma.

Interested in connecting with Erika M for guest appearances, bookings, or speaking opportunities?
Visit www.Harts2Harts.com (https://www.harts2harts.com) and please use the contact form to get in touch. 
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Tap in. Take what you need. Leave what you don’t.

#Hart2HartsPodcast #NarcissisticAbuse #SpiritualWarfare #HealingJourney #ErikaM

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This episode of The Hart 2 Harts with Erika M dives headfirst into cosmos, chaos, and Carrie Bradshaw’s bad decisions.

We’re unpacking the real archetypes behind Sex and the City—and why maybe, just maybe, Mr. Big was never the prize.

Maybe the villain wasn’t Big Afterall? 

Trigger warning: your early 2000s dating dreams might not survive this.

Press play… if you dare.

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THE “OK” CLUB


Welcome to The “OK” Club — where being just “okay” is more than enough. This raw, real, and refreshing space invites listeners to sit in the discomfort, embrace the in-between, and unlearn the toxic pursuit of perfection. Hosted by Erika M, a midlife creative, truth-teller, and professional reinventionist, The “OK” Club is a no-filter zone for honest conversations about life after loss, identity, aging, burnout, survival, silence, and starting over.

This isn’t your typical motivational podcast. It’s for the ones who are functioning but fragile. Achieving, but aching. Still standing, but slightly slumped. This is where we say: “If all you can be today is OK… that’s holy.”

Think of this as your permission slip to pause, cry, laugh, cuss, and keep going — slowly.

#TheOKCLub #Hart2HartsOkCLub

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Episode 9 – 

FORGIVE   HEAL   LOVE

In this deeply personal episode, Erika M opens her heart and shares the transformative power behind three of the most misunderstood words: forgive, heal, and love. Through raw storytelling and hard-earned wisdom, she explores what it really means to let go—not for them, but for you.

From childhood wounds to adult betrayal, Erika walks us through how she confronted pain, reclaimed her peace, and began loving from a place of wholeness. This episode is an invitation to pause, reflect, and ask: Who am I still holding hostage in my heart?

Whether you’re in the thick of it or on the other side of healing, this episode offers soulful insight, a few tears, and the gentle reminder that loving yourself sometimes starts with forgiving someone else.

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Episode 8: The BIG "O": The Myths & The Lies About Orgasms

In this provocative episode of "Hart 2 Harts With Erika M," Erika takes the reins and delves into the tantalizing world of orgasms, peeling back the layers of myths and lies that surround this essential aspect of human sexuality. 

Join Erika as she navigates through the various misconceptions about orgasms, exploring everything from the science behind them to the societal pressures that shape our perceptions of pleasure. She’ll tackle questions like: What truly defines an orgasm? Are there different types? And why do so many people experience frustration when it comes to achieving that peak moment of ecstasy?

With her signature blend of candidness and humor, Erika invites listeners to rethink their views on sexual fulfillment and encourages open dialogue about desires and experiences. This episode is a fearless exploration of pleasure, designed to empower listeners to embrace their sexuality and understand their bodies better. Tune in for an enlightening journey that promises to challenge norms and celebrate the beauty of the "big O"!E:**Episode 8: The Big O – The Myths & The Lies About Orgasms**

In this provocative episode of "Hart 2 Harts With Erika M," Erika takes the reins and delves into the tantalizing world of orgasms, peeling back the layers of myths and lies that surround this essential aspect of human sexuality. 

Join Erika as she navigates through the various misconceptions about orgasms, exploring everything from the science behind them to the societal pressures that shape our perceptions of pleasure. She’ll tackle questions like: What truly defines an orgasm? Are there different types? And why do so many people experience frustration when it comes to achieving that peak moment of ecstasy?

With her signature blend of candidness and humor, Erika invites listeners to rethink their views on sexual fulfillment and encourages open dialogue about desires and experiences. This episode is a fearless exploration of pleasure, designed to empower listeners to embrace their sexuality and understand their bodies better. Tune in for an enlightening journey that promises to challenge norms and celebrate the beauty of the "big O"!

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