HATE TO LOSE

HATE TO LOSE

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HATE TO LOSE episodes

  • Thando Mbhele on The Art and Science of Storytelling, Faith, and Making Jesus Practical

    In this powerful and thought-provoking episode, Christian John Bradley sits down with South African filmmaker Thando Mbhele to explore how storytelling, faith, and discipline intertwine to create meaningful art.

    Thando shares his journey of learning the science of creativity—from daily practice and artistic systems to his deep passion for editing and filmmaking. He opens up about seeing himself as a "gatekeeper" of stories, his desire to make Jesus practical through authentic storytelling, and how film builds real community across cultures.

    Whether you're a filmmaker, storyteller, or believer passionate about purpose-driven creativity, this episode offers timeless lessons on consistency, nuance, and making faith relatable through art.

    You'll Hear: 🎬 The formula behind creating good art 🧠 Why discipline fuels creativity and consistency ❤️ How storytelling connects communities ✝️ Making faith and Jesus practical through film 🎞️ The power of editing as the "final writing" of a story

    If you love conversations about filmmaking, faith, creativity, and storytelling, this one's for you.

    56 min
  • Kris Germaine on Redefining Winning, Embracing Loss & Finding Success Through Faith

    In this inspiring conversation, Kris Germaine joins Christian John Bradley to unpack what it truly means to hate to lose — and how faith, growth, and perspective redefine what winning really looks like.

    Kris shares powerful lessons on embracing the process, staying grounded through success and failure, and keeping faith at the center of your competitive drive. From his experiences in coaching, fatherhood, and personal growth, this episode challenges the idea that losing is failure — and reveals how it can actually be transformation.

    You'll learn:

    • How to embrace the process, not just the outcome

    • Why faith is the foundation of true success

    • Lessons from Kobe Bryant on mindset and work ethic

    • How competition refines character, not just skill

    • Leadership, humility, and purpose in the face of loss

    If you're driven by growth, leadership, or faith in action, this episode will motivate you to redefine success and stay committed to your higher purpose.

    1 hr 56 min
  • From Near-Death to Divine Purpose: Composer Erik Couttolenc on Faith, Excellence & Working with Hans Zimmer

    In this powerful episode of The Hate to Lose Podcast, host Christian John Bradley sits down with Erik Couttolenc — visionary film composer and artist currently working with Hans Zimmer's Bleeding Fingers Studio — to explore how faith, discipline, and surrender can shape true excellence.

    From discovering music as a child in Mexico to studying at Berklee College of Music, surviving a near-fatal car crash, and ultimately finding his divine calling, Erik shares a raw and inspiring story of perseverance, faith, and purpose.

    Together, Christian and Erik unpack what it means to "be on belay" with God — trusting Him to hold the rope through seasons of waiting, uncertainty, and breakthrough. They discuss creativity as worship, the power of sound to move the soul, and how excellence becomes an act of obedience when rooted in faith.

    🎶 Whether you're an artist, athlete, or believer pursuing purpose, this conversation will challenge you to redefine success, embrace surrender, and live with conviction.

    1 hr 6 min
  • Cowboys Chaos: Jerry Jones, Micah Parsons & Ben Johnson's Chicago Bears | NFL Preseason Week 2

    🔥 Cowboys Conundrum

    • Jerry Jones' missteps in handling Micah Parsons' contract negotiations

    • Dak Prescott's playoff failures still haunting Dallas

    • Why the Cowboys' culture is "rotten at the core" and destined for another lost season

    🐻 Fresh Air in the Windy City

    • Ben Johnson brings confidence, honesty, and energy to the Chicago Bears

    • Caleb Williams' promising preseason performance under Johnson's leadership

    • Why Johnson is the complete opposite of Matt Eberflus and is primed to deliver the Bears' first winning season in 7 years

    💡 Final Takeaway A rotten core cannot produce good fruit — in football, in business, and in life.

    • Entrepreneurs can't build joyful cultures if they are depressed.

    • Parents can't build discipline in their kids without being disciplined first.

    • Leaders reproduce who they are.

    9 min
  • Nate Dumlao | Competing as a Father, Leading with Purpose, and Winning from Within

    In this powerful and deeply personal episode of Hate To Lose, Christian sits down with Nate Dumlao—pastor, communicator, co-founder of the wildly popular Dads Who Try podcast (2.2M+ followers), and a man whose life has been defined by purpose, perseverance, and radical transformation.

    From watching his father battle early-onset dementia to leading a global youth ministry, Nate shares how competition has evolved in his life—from paintball tournaments to parenting, from ego-driven ambition to Christ-centered leadership. Together, they explore what it means to compete in fatherhood, how to find rhythm over balance, and the tension between your eternal identity and physical reality.

    🔥 Topics Covered:

    • Competing as a dad vs. competing with your dad

    • Learning to lead by loving, not dominating

    • Winning by showing up: in life, marriage, and parenting

    • Flow states, adrenaline addiction, and post-sport identity

    • What it really means to die to your dream—and watch God resurrect it

    • How the Cross redefines what it means to never lose

    If you're a high-achiever, parent, or purpose-driven leader who hates to lose—but wants to grow in how you win—this one will speak to your soul.

    🔔 Subscribe and drop a comment if this episode resonated with you.

    🎧 Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube 📲 Follow @hatetolosepodcast | @christianjohnbradley | @dadswhotry

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    1 hr 20 min
  • Mishnrz' Matt Reezy shares his journey from Rebellion to Redemption, his near-death spiritual awakening, and how music came into the picture

    In this transformative episode of Hate To Lose, host Christian John Bradley sits down with Platinum and Gold seeling songwriter and artist Matt Reezy of Mishnrz—artist, producer, and storyteller—whose life journey spans continents, creative industries, and spiritual awakening. 🎙️ What You'll Hear:

    • Growing up between LA and Argentina, and overcoming identity and academic challenges
    • Starting a clothing brand and vlogging before YouTube even existed
    • Dropping out of college to pursue theater, music, and purpose in LA
    • The near death spiritual moment in Vegas that changed everything
    • Forming a band, signing with Virgin Records, and eventually pivoting to songwriting and producing for others
    • The balance between commercial success and personal faith—and the dream of writing worship music for future generations

    Matt opens up about rejection, resilience, and redefining success. He shares how faith and music helped him find clarity and confidence in a noisy world—and how he now helps artists feel truly seen in their creative process.

    Plus, Christian and Matt explore: The difference between looking at someone and truly seeing them What it means to offer value with no strings attached Why faith, family, and authenticity are non-negotiable in the long game ✨

    If you're chasing success but craving substance, this episode is for you. 🔗 Connect with Matt Reezy: [IG: @Matt_Reezy / Youtube: @Mishnrz] 📌 Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode if it inspired you.

    1 hr 25 min
  • Rob Parker's Journey: From Queens to ESPN, Fox Sports, and Beyond, His passion for sports journalism at age 7, Covering major sports leagues, Working at ESPN, Fox Sports Radio and MLB Network, Breaking Barriers

    In this powerful episode of the Hate to Lose Podcast, veteran sports journalist Rob Parker reveals how hard work, resilience, and authenticity fueled his rise to success. From his roots in Jamaica, Queens, to becoming the first Black sports columnist at the Detroit Free Press, Rob shares inspiring lessons from over 40 years in the sports media industry.

    Hosted by Christian John Bradley, this conversation dives deep into:

    • How Rob developed an unstoppable work ethic from his mother's example

    • His passion for sports journalism starting at age 7

    • Launching his first newspaper at 16 years old

    • Covering major sports leagues and working for ESPN, Fox Sports Radio, and MLB Network

    • Building lasting influence while mentoring the next generation of journalists

    • His unshakable belief in meritocracy and the power of authenticity in sports and media

    Whether you're an aspiring journalist, a sports fan, or someone chasing their dreams, Rob's story offers powerful insights into grit, excellence, and staying true to yourself.

    👉 Subscribe for more interviews with high achievers who hate to lose more than they love to win. 👍 Like this video if Rob's journey inspired you! 🗣️ Comment below: What's one lesson from Rob Parker's story that resonates with you?

    #RobParker #HateToLosePodcast #SportsMedia #JournalismCareer #ESPN #TheOddCouple #FoxSportsRadio #SportsJournalism #WorkEthic #Motivation #BlackExcellence

    1 hr 8 min
  • Daryl Akutagawa: From Bullied Kid to Battle-Tested Leader, How martial arts rewired Daryl's fear into focus, The lesson of wrestling against men twice his size—and why losing mattered more than winning

    What does it take to rise from fear to fortitude?

    In this raw and revealing episode, Daryl Akutagawa joins host Christian John Bradley to share the deeply personal journey from a timid, bullied child hiding behind a sandbox to an Air Force captain, martial arts master, and resilient competitor in every arena of life.

    From martial arts dojos and wrestling mats to military boot camps and boardrooms, Daryl opens up about the mindset forged through hardship, the courage to embrace challenge, and the confidence built by showing up, again and again.

    🔍 In this episode:

    • How martial arts rewired Daryl's fear into focus at age five

    • The lesson of wrestling against men twice his size—and why losing mattered more than winning

    • Life inside Air Force ROTC, boot camp, and military leadership

    • Why preparation isn't just about performance—it's about identity

    • Facing a rare brain condition, Moya Moya, and finding strength in the scar

    • Choosing love over military rank—and starting over in the civilian world

    Whether you're an athlete, a leader, or someone rebuilding confidence from the ground up, this episode will challenge your perspective on competition, failure, and what it really means to fight for yourself.

    🎧 Tap play to hear how mental toughness is built, not born—and how setbacks shape the strongest warriors.

    1 hr 17 min
  • David Pailin Jr lives life "Play(ing) on All-Madden," Dives into learning how to lead through failure and feedback, turning losses into data, identifying as a winner, and the origin story of the King of Games

    "Play on All-Madden" with David Pailin Jr. | Hate To Lose Podcast

    In this high-impact episode of the Hate To Lose Podcast, David Pailin Jr. shares how a competitive childhood, a culture of excellence, and a relentless mindset shaped his journey from AP classrooms to UCLA's MBA program—and into the world of entrepreneurship.

    Host Christian John Bradley and David dive deep into what it really means to hate to lose more than you love to win. From launching Plutocrats Club and King of Games, to learning hard lessons through failure, David drops wisdom on leadership, resilience, and redefining what success looks like.

    🔑 Inside the episode:

    • Why David always chooses to "play on All-Madden"

    • The difference between pivoting vs. quitting

    • Growing up in a gamified, purpose-driven home

    • Learning how to lead through failure and feedback

    • The origin story of King of Games as a networking experience

    • Turning losses into data—and data into strategy

    1 hr 3 min
  • Jesse Smith on Building Confidence, Winning Mentality, and the Power of Trash Talk

    In this episode of Hate to Lose, host Christian John Bradley sits down with lifelong friend and fierce competitor Jesse Smith to unpack what it truly takes to develop a winning mentality. Raised in a high-achieving household with relentless standards, Jesse shares how his competitive edge was sharpened through sibling rivalries, sports, and the pressure to excel in every aspect of life.

    From building confidence in high-stakes environments to learning the art of trash talk without crossing the line, Jesse delivers powerful insights on how competition shapes character and fuels greatness. He dives into the difference between quitting and pivoting, shares the truth about accountability, and unpacks how to cut off distractions that derail your vision.

    This episode is a masterclass for high-achievers, entrepreneurs, athletes, and anyone who hates to lose. Whether you're battling setbacks, refining your purpose, or chasing excellence, Jesse's story will challenge you to compete with conviction, sharpen your focus, and embrace pressure as a tool for growth.

    🔑 Topics Covered:

    • Growing up competitive and confident

    • Healthy trash talk as a competitive strategy

    • The mindset of high-performers

    • Work ethic and owning your mistakes

    • When to burn bridges to reach your goals

    • Why losing is never an option

    This is more than a podcast—it's fuel for the fight. Tap in and take notes.

    1 hr 2 min

About HATE TO LOSE

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Hate To Lose brings together thoughtful sports commentary and meaningful conversations with athletes, leaders, creators, and people whose stories deserve to be heard. From the moments shaping the sports world to the experiences shaping people's lives, every episode explores what happened, why it matters, and what we can take from it.