In this powerful and deeply personal episode of Hate To Lose, Christian sits down with Nate Dumlao—pastor, communicator, co-founder of the wildly popular Dads Who Try podcast (2.2M+ followers), and a man whose life has been defined by purpose, perseverance, and radical transformation.
From watching his father battle early-onset dementia to leading a global youth ministry, Nate shares how competition has evolved in his life—from paintball tournaments to parenting, from ego-driven ambition to Christ-centered leadership. Together, they explore what it means to compete in fatherhood, how to find rhythm over balance, and the tension between your eternal identity and physical reality.
🔥 Topics Covered:
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Competing as a dad vs. competing with your dad
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Learning to lead by loving, not dominating
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Winning by showing up: in life, marriage, and parenting
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Flow states, adrenaline addiction, and post-sport identity
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What it really means to die to your dream—and watch God resurrect it
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How the Cross redefines what it means to never lose
If you're a high-achiever, parent, or purpose-driven leader who hates to lose—but wants to grow in how you win—this one will speak to your soul.
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