How are Christian husbands and wives to conduct themselves in a fallen world? How important is external adornment when compared to what God wants adorned? Is the popular notion of �soulmate� within a marriage supported by scripture? A wife who possesses a calm and gentle spirit is of great worth in God�s sight. �Does feminism belong in a marriage?� Pastor explains why �Disneyfication� can damage a marriage relationship. In scripture, God says both husband and wife have duties, and happiness is not what God wants, He wants holiness! Husbands are to treat wives with understanding and thoughtfulness [33:00]. Hiding faults and praising what she does well is the way to honor her. If married couples are looking for �a pill�, it should be a red-pill that causes each to know the vocational duties God gives them in scripture.