Originally aired on Jason's You Winning Life Podcast

Dr. Jim Van Allan is an accomplished speaker and trainer for schools and organizations across the country. He is also a Professor of Communication Studies with Keiser University. Dr. Van Allan is the host of the hit podcast 'Communicate To Motivate' which focuses on different areas of communication applied to real life situations. His goal is to turn personal experiences into powerful learning moments with engaging stories, research, and takeaways.

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Originally aired on Jason's You Winning Life Podcast, this episode is a must listen to anyone trying to build a healthy relationship.

Premarital cohabitation has consistently been found to be associated with increased risk for divorce and marital distress in the United States. Two explanations for this "cohabitation effect" are discussed: selection and experience. We present an empirically based view of how the experience of cohabitation may increase risk for rela-tionship distress or divorce for some people beyond what is accounted for by selection. Specifically, using a commit-ment framework, we suggest that some couples who otherwise would not have married end up married because of the inertia of cohabitation.

Leading researcher Dr. Scott Stanley discusses concerns over the patterns of contemporary relationships that most impact a couple's long-term commitment: Sliding through major transitions before making clear Decisions about what they want for the future.

Dr. Scott Stanley, Research Professor and Co-Director of the Center for Marital and Family Studies at the University of Denver, presents his definitions and suggestions for building and sustaining a dedicated commitment in a relationship.

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We are back!! 
Yes, it's been a while but we can happily blame Chava for getting married since our last episode!
Chava and Jason open up the conversation about understanding "Emotional Infidelity" through each stage of relationships from dating to marriage.
Of course, we talk about co-dependence, healthy boundaries and what's needed to navigate the dating/relationship world.

We discuss:

• Can you just be friends with someone of the opposite sex and creating boundaries with the opposite sex while dating and once you are in a relationship
• Where we spend our time and energy leads us to the outcomes we get in life
• How to be honest with yourself about what your needs are and how you get them met
• Navigating the friend zone

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Keshet Starr is the CEO of @oraagunot, a Nonprofit Organization that focuses on eliminate abuse from the Jewish divorce process.

We discuss the Jewish Marital (Halachic) Pre and Post-nup agreements  as well as navigating the process of divorce.

ORA works within the parameters of Jewish law and civil law to advocate for the timely and unconditional issuance of a get. ORA believes that the protracted refusal to issue or receive a get is a form of domestic abuse which must never be tolerated. ORA seeks to foster a Jewish community in which a get is never used as a weapon. ORA pursues its mission through agunah case advocacy, early intervention programs, and educational initiatives for agunah­ prevention.

Click on the links below to access various halachic prenuptial and postnuptial forms.

To learn about other halachic prenup and postnup forms, contact us or the Beth Din of America.

Halachic Prenup (for before one is civilly married):    Reciprocal Prenup (Beth Din of America)

Halachic Postnup (for after a couple is already civilly married):  Reciprocal Postnup (Beth Din of America)

 If you are planning on living in California, you should sign the California version of the halachic prenup:

California Version of the Halachic Prenup. If you are already civilly married and living in California, click here to access the California halachic postnup.

 Midwest Panel: This form provides for the dayanim (arbitrators) to be Rabbi Shmuel Fuerst (Chicago), Rabbi Yona Reiss (Chicago) and Rabbi Mendel Senderovic (Milwaukee).

 In Israel, the Agreement for Mutual Respect should be used. To learn more about the Agreement for Mutual Respect, please see: http://www.iyim.org.il/prenup/

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Although recorded during the middle of the pandemic, many of this episodes insights still apply!

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Part Three of figuring out how to have more successful relationships!

Jason and Chava continue breaking down the science of romantic attraction.
According to the Imago Theory by Harville Hendrix, we attract partners that have both the positive and negative character traits of our family of origin.
In other words, we may be biologically pre-disposed to who we unconsciously are attracted to.
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Jason and Chava continue breaking down the science of romantic attraction.
According to the Imago Theory by Harville Hendrix, we attract partners that have both the positive and negative character traits of our family of origin.
In other words, we may be biologically pre-disposed to who we unconsciously are attracted to.
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In this episode, Jason and Chava start breaking down the science of romantic attraction.
According to the Imago Theory by Harville Hendrix, we attract partners that have both the positive and negative character traits of our family of origin.
In other words, we may be biologically pre-disposed to who we unconsciously are attracted to.
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Want to learn the easiest way to connect with someone else?
Learn both yours and their love language!
Most of my relationships clients ( Jason) come in for communication issues.
Go figure, that really isn't the basis of their challenge. 
It's knowing what they want and need to feel loved, connected, desired, supported and more.
Each person has their own style of connecting.
Check out this episode and visit https://www.5lovelanguages.com to figure out yours!

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On this weeks episode, Chava & Jason discuss healthy relationship patterns and focuses on codependent dynamics.

Codependency refers to a pattern of prioritizing needs of relationship partners or family members over personal needs and desires. 

It goes beyond:

• wanting to help a struggling loved one
• feeling comforted by their presence
• not wanting them to leave
• occasionally making sacrifices to help someone you love

We know it’s normal to want to help your partner, especially if they’re having a tough time but knowing where you end and they start is key to health boundaries.

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