Palesa dropped one of those confessions that will have you stopping to think about your own life. She loves her friends, has real history with them and would not trade those memories for anything. But something has shifted and she just cannot unfeel it.

The conversations, the energy, the mindset, it all feels like a different chapter now. So does she create distance and give herself room to grow, or does she stay loyal to the people who helped shape her? J Sbu put it to KZN and, as always, people had a lot to say!

Missed the conversation live? Here's what KZN had to say...