Haven

Shopping for rich, authentic, organic fruit in the grocery stores can be very expensive. Unfortunately there is no substitute for the real thing. Therefore the cost is real.
So is the case with salvation and justification before God as well as the fruit of the Spirit. There are not shortcuts. There is a cost for the real thing. Ultimately that cost was paid by Jesus and to add anything on our end to aside from accepting that payment is to diminish the work of the cross and the resurrection.
The quickest way to see the fruit of the Spirit in our lives is to call on God for help, recognizing the cost and focusing our faith on the seed of the fruit, which is Jesus Christ, as opposed to the fruit itself.

Check out Episode 21 of The After Service as a few of our young adults talk about this and more.

Healthy fruit can only come from healthy roots. It is very easy for one to begin with the right beliefs and slowly become distracted by the enemy only to replace what is right with what is good. What is good, may not be bad, but it certainly isn't right. In order to have the right fruit it must begin with rich soil for the right seed.
"We mustn't be so focused on the fruit that we neglect to recognize it's root."

Check out Episode 20 of The After Service to hear a group of young adults talking about some of these things and how they battle against distractions from the simple gospel of Jesus.

Nathan & Rebecca Blank share with young adults 5 myths about being single, dating, and marriage. They also sat down with a couple other young adults to answer a few questions that were text in during the service. You can check that out on The After Service, Episode 19.

There are a number of circumstances that make life messy leaving us discourage, confused, and with many questions. What is our response when this happens? Where do we go? Who do we go to?
One thing is certain. Regardless of how messy life can be, the presence of God is the beauty in the mess.