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Having It All Without (gasp) a Nanny

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Episode 3: 

Having It All Without (gasp) a Nanny 

Shock and horror when I tell folks I'm saying no to nannies and night nurses 

Can you really have it all? And I mean ALL of it: the career, the relationship, the friendships, the beautiful home, the body, the hair, the nails... while also being a present mother who gets to enjoy every little piece of motherhood? And can you do it without, wait for it... having a nanny?

I'm here to tell you, from my own "have it all experiment," that the answer is a big, resounding YES!

In this episode of the Style Like a Mother podcast, I'm getting real about the unsolicited advice, the pressure to hire a nanny before my son was even born, and how I found my own way. I'll walk you through my strategies that allow me to run my businesses, coach my students, and launch new projects, all without missing out on my son's giggles and funny faces.

I'm talking practical, actionable steps to redefine what "having it all" looks like for YOU. It's not about achieving some perfect, unattainable balance; it’s about creating a life that feels authentic and joyful. The real secret? Learning to be adaptable and go with the flow.

 

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Here’s what we’re diving into:

 

  • My Nanny Story (or Lack Thereof): I’m sharing why I decided against hiring a nanny, despite the overwhelming societal pressure, especially in places like L.A.​

  • The "Having It All" Experiment: For the past six months, I’ve been on a mission to prove that you can maintain your spiritual practice, fitness, business, and personal life without a nanny. I get my nails done, see my friends, and haven't missed a moment of my son growing up.

  • Busting Mom Stereotypes: For so long, we've been sold this either/or story. You're either a stay-at-home mom, or you're a "working mom" who kisses the baby on the forehead and dashes out the door, leaving a nanny to do the rest. But what if you don't fit into either of those boxes? What if you want to build your empire with your baby right there with you?
  • Time Collapsing Strategies: Learn how I manage to run my business, coach students, and launch a new division—all while being a full-time mom. I'm giving you my secrets to collapsing time and getting more done.
  • Redefining Your "All": I'll show you how to have your own version of "all" by making strategic adjustments, not sacrifices. Your life doesn't have to be perfectly balanced to be fulfilling.
  • The Power of Flow: The real secret to making it all work? Being adaptable and learning to go with the flow, even when things get chaotic.

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    Episode Highlights:

     

    "My plan was to give up nothing and still be there for my child."​

    "If you tell me something's impossible, I am going to make it possible."

     "I want to live the life of both. I don't want to live the life of either or. I want it all."​

       
     Resources Mentioned In This Episode:

     


    ⬇️ **FREE DOWNLOAD**:  The Boss Mom Time Blocking Template

     Or you can download it for free at style.laurenmessiah.com/episode3

     

     

     Connect with Me:

    I'm curious about what today's conversation brought up for you. Feel free to shoot me a DM over on Instagram or email me at [email protected], I’d love to hear your thoughts.

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            See you next time!
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            XO,


            Lauren

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