After taking a step back from social media, we're finally back.

In this honest catch-up episode, we share what life has really looked like over the past few months—from Bali to Thailand, navigating visa challenges, injuries, homesickness, personal growth, and everything in between.

This isn't a highlight reel.

It's a conversation about what happens when you slow down, disconnect from the noise, and allow life to teach you what healing really looks like.

In this episode we talk about:

• Why we disappeared from social media

• The emotional reality of moving to Thailand

• Lessons from Bali that changed us

• Facing unexpected setbacks with resilience

• What recovery really means beyond addiction

• Building a life based on purpose instead of survival

• Why authentic coaching is about walking alongside people—not fixing them

• Our plans for the future, our community, and what's coming next

Whether you're navigating recovery, healing from trauma, rebuilding your life, or simply trying to become a more authentic version of yourself, we hope this conversation reminds you that you're never alone.

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Remember...

Recovery isn't just about addiction.

Sometimes it's recovering from trauma.

Sometimes it's recovering from heartbreak.

Sometimes it's recovering from a version of yourself you've outgrown.

Thank you for walking this journey with us.

With love,

Peter & Sophia

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We left two couches in Sligo… and somehow ended up recording this from two couches in Bali. Life is wild.

In this episode of Having the Chats with Peter and Sophia, we cover:Peter nearly breaking himself in Crocs “sport mode”Slipping on moss like it’s an Olympic eventBooking a dreamy jungle villa… that came with bonus wildlife (including a rat who clearly paid no rent)Why you absolutely bring your head with you wherever you travel

The reality of “finding yourself in Bali” (spoiler: you might also find your nervous system having a meltdown)

There’s laughs, lessons, a few unexpected deep moments, and the reminder that real love isn’t the sunset Instagram version — it’s riding out the storm when the jungle gets a bit too real.

We also chat about the beautiful people we’ve met, spontaneous connections, and why sometimes you just have to say the thing instead of overthinking it.

If you enjoy the episode, hit follow, subscribe, leave a rating, share it with someone who needs a laugh (or a reality check before booking a jungle villa).

Next stop… Thailand 👀

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In this deeply honest and empowering episode of Having the Chats with Peter and Sophia, we are joined by Sarah and Sandra, the founders of TABB for Women - a global online community supporting women to transform their relationship with alcohol and build lives they truly love.

TABB stands for Take a Break from Booze and Thriving and Amplifying Beyond Booze - and that is exactly what this conversation is about.

We explore:

• Why language matters in recovery

• Why women need safe, women-only spaces

• The difference between just stopping drinking and truly healing

• Shame, identity, co-dependency and self-worth

• Why recovery doesn’t have to fit into one box or one model

How community, connection and compassion change everything

Sarah and Sandra share their own lived experience, their journey into sobriety, and how TABB for Women was born from a desire to create a space where women can land safely, grow at their own pace, and thrive beyond alcohol.

This is a conversation about empowerment, choice, healing, accountability, and building a life that no longer needs escape.If you or someone you love is questioning their relationship with alcohol, this episode is for you.

You are not broken.You are not alone.And there is another way.

Find out more about TAB for Women at:

www.tabbforwomen.comInstagram: @tabb_for_women

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In this deeply honest episode of Having The Chats with Peter and Sophia, Sophia speaks openly about the torment of feeling pushed away by the people she loved, and the emotional weight that comes with rejection, grief, and healing old wounds.

We also share the excitement and the sadness behind our move to Bali - navigating the emotional pull of leaving loved ones while stepping into a new chapter. We talk candidly about our experiences with plant medicine, the emotions it stirred, and what it taught us about connection, loss, and self-compassion.

Peter reflects on what Christmas can be like for people in recovery - the loneliness, the triggers, the quiet battles - and offers grounded, compassionate insight into how friends and family can truly support loved ones during this time.

This is a conversation about love, grief, growth, and staying connected - even when change hurts.

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In this raw and unfiltered conversation, Peter and Sophia open up about healing in real time- not the polished version, but the messy, honest, beautifully human reality of recovering from trauma, addiction, dissociation, and destructive cycles.

Together they explore:

• What spirituality really is (and isn’t)
• Coming to terms with who you are as a survivor - across every age and version of yourself
• What it’s like being in a relationship when both partners have lived through abuse, triggers, and emotional shutdowns - and how they communicate through it
• Revisiting childhood memories, flashbacks, and the painful reconnection with the inner child
• Ego, masks, and why the body protects itself even long into adulthood
• Attachment wounds, early neglect, and learning how to soothe the self from the inside out
• The ripple effect of generational trauma and the weight of one person's actions across decades
• The resurfacing of old memories during healing practices and the body’s instinct to protect itself from vulnerability
• Burnout, emotional collapse, and the frightening experience of losing connection with yourself completely
• Why destructive behaviours, addiction, and escape make sense in the context of severe childhood trauma - and how survival mechanisms become lifelong patterns

This episode is heavy, real, and full of moments most people never talk about, but should.

It’s a conversation about love after trauma, about healing that isn’t linear, and about finding your way back to yourself piece by piece.

If you’ve lived through trauma, dissociation, relationship struggles, addiction, or inner-child wounds… this episode will sit deeply with you.

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In this powerful and deeply emotional episode of Having the Chats with Peter & Sophia, we sit down with Professor Marie Keenan.

World-renowned restorative justice practitioner, psychotherapist, and researcher.

Together, we explore the life-changing impact of restorative justice in cases of sexual violence.

Sophia shares her own transformative journey of sitting face-to-face with her father in a restorative process that became a turning point in her healing.

Peter opens up about how that experience changed his own understanding of justice and humanity.

Professor Keenan offers profound insight into how restorative justice challenges conventional legal systems, centers the voice of the survivor, and facilitates deep accountability and healing, even in the most complex and painful circumstances.

This episode is not only a conversation, it’s an invitation to rethink justice, healing, and what it means to take our power back.

Trigger Warning: This episode includes discussion of sexual violence, trauma, and personal stories of abuse. Please listen with care.

📚 Professor Keenan’s book Sexual Violence and Restorative Justice: Addressing the Justice Gap is available free online — https://www.researchgate.net/publication/380756032_Sexual_Violence_and_Restorative_Justice_Addressing_the_Justice_Gap

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In one of our most emotional and courageous episodes yet, we’re joined by Mark Rickard.

An incredible man who shares the raw, unfiltered truth about his experiences with childhood sexual abuse, addiction, borderline personality disorder, and the painful process of healing.

From the age of five, Mark’s identity was shaped by trauma. He opens up about the confusion, shame, and destructive patterns that followed him into adulthood, and how therapy helped him begin to piece himself back together.

This conversation covers everything:

• The silence surrounding male sexual abuse

• Living with BPD and navigating intense emotions

• Addiction as a form of slow suicide

• The struggle for self-worth, self-forgiveness, and trust

• How turning pain into purpose can light the path forward

Now a youth coach and fierce advocate for mental health, Mark’s story is one of unimaginable hurt, but also one of strength, honesty, and hope.

If you’ve been affected by the themes in this episode, here are some free and confidential services in Ireland:

• Men’s Aid – www.mensaid.ie / [email protected]

• RCNI (Rape Crisis Network Ireland) – 1800 77 8888 / www.rcni.ie

• Pieta House – 1800 247 247 / www.pieta.ie

• Samaritans – 116 123 / [email protected]

• Aware – 1800 80 48 48 / [email protected]

• Turn2Me – www.turn2me.org

• GROW Mental Health – 1890 474 474 / www.grow.ie

• Childline (under 18) – 1800 66 66 66 / www.childline.ie

👉 If you're in immediate danger, call 999.

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In this sacred and soul-nourishing episode of Having the Chats with Peter and Sophia, we sit in deep conversation with the radiant and grounded Dr. Bláithín Sweeney, known to many in her community as a healer, guide, space holder, and the heartbeat behind the Having a Laugh charity.

Bláithín’s journey is a unique and powerful one.

From the structured world of synthetic organic chemistry, where she earned her PhD, to the intuitive, heart-led realm of spiritual healing and community care. She is a woman who walked away from titles and expectations to walk others home to themselves.

Today, she offers her gifts through yoga, meditation, and breathwork, holding space for people to reconnect with their bodies, emotions, and essence. Whether on the mat, in ceremony, or through laughter and movement, Dr. B is deeply committed to helping others remember who they are beneath the noise.

🌿 In this episode, we explore:

• Her evolution from academic intellect to embodied wisdom

• What it means to hold space for others on their healing path

• The magic of breath as a bridge between pain and peace

• The importance of community, service, and showing up with love

• Her work with Having a Laugh, a beloved charity rooted in joy, connection, and healing through creative outlets

• Releasing the pressure of labels and choosing a softer, more truthful life

This episode is a reminder that healing doesn’t always look how we expect it to, and that often, the most powerful medicine is presence, compassion, and the courage to let go of who we were taught to be.

✨ If you’ve ever longed to merge science with soul, intellect with intuition, or if you’re simply craving a conversation that feels like a deep exhale, this one’s for you.

🌀 About Dr. Bláithín Sweeney

Bláithín is the founder of Havin’ a Laugh, a Sligo-based charity established in 2013. The organization aims to promote positive mental health through life-enhancing activities. By providing activity vouchers for pursuits like surfing, yoga, and art classes, the charity supports individuals in mental health recovery, helping them reconnect with joy and community .

In our conversation, we explore:

• 🧪 Bláithín’s transition from the world of chemistry to holistic healing

• 🌬️ The power of breathwork and somatic practices in trauma recovery

• 🤝 The mission and impact of Havin’ a Laugh in the community

• 🎨 How creative and physical activities can aid mental health recovery

• 💬 The importance of community support and open conversations about mental health

This episode is a testament to the healing power of community, the importance of accessible mental health support, and the incredible work being done by individuals like Bláithín.

🔗 Learn more about Havin’ a Laugh:Website: www.havinalaugh.comInstagram: @havin.a.laugh🔗 Learn more about Your Wellbeing Warrior:Website: www.yourwellbeingwarrior.comInstagram: @your_wellbeing_warrior

🧡 Trigger Warning: This episode discusses sexual abuse, addiction, suicide, and grief. Please listen with care.

In this deeply moving and powerful episode of Having the Chats with Peter and Sophia, we open our hearts like never before.

Originally set to feature a guest, we found ourselves with an unexpected space, and we chose to fill it by sharing the raw truth of our own stories.

From childhood abuse, addiction, and prison to the loss of loved ones and the long road to healing, this is an unfiltered conversation about the pain we've lived through, the resilience we’ve found, and the love that now guides our lives.

Sophia shares the harrowing experiences of abuse she endured growing up, the impact of addiction, and the profound loss of her sister, and how recovery has helped her rebuild.

Peter reflects on his journey from abandonment, emotional disconnection, and criminality to finding peace, identity, and purpose.

This episode isn’t easy, but it’s real. And it’s needed. Because when stories like these are told, they break silence, reduce shame, and remind others that healing is possible.

If you’ve ever felt alone in your pain, or wondered if things could ever change, this one’s for you.

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In this raw and powerful episode of Having the Chats with Peter & Sophia, we sit down with Gareth McGuirk, the inspiring voice behind Find Motivation With Gareth.

At just 19, Gareth has already lived through intense trauma, cannabis-induced psychosis, family upheaval, homelessness, and the pull of street life in Dublin.

What sets Gareth apart isn’t just his survival-it’s his mission. Through honesty, humour, and heart, he opens up about what it’s like growing up surrounded by addiction, violence, and normalized chaos, and how he's finding his way out through self-awareness, real talk, and community motivation.

We cover:

• The dangers of synthetic cannabis and substance misuse

• What psychosis actually looks and feels like

• Growing up in an environment of addiction

• The reality behind social media success

• His drive to break cycles and build community support

This episode isn’t just a conversation, it’s a mirror held up to youth, resilience, and the power of purpose.

Whether you're in recovery, supporting someone who is, or simply trying to make sense of the chaos around you-this one's for you.

Connect with Gareth:
Follow him on Instagram & TikTok: @findmotivationwithgareth