כא אייר

Hayom Yom

Hashem already gave you the ability you just have to bring it into reality 🙏Holiness isn’t meant to stay abstract

It’s built through everyday choices 🛤️, quiet effort 💪, and continuing to show up 💫 Your struggles 🌧️, strengths 🔥, and moments in life aren’t random

they’re part of the specific avoda only you can bring into the world 🤲✨💙

Sefer Hamitzvos

Birds🐦 Check for kosher signs, forbidden list in Torah.

Grasshoppers. Need jointed legs above regular legs.

Fish 🐟 Must have fins + scales.

Mammals. No eating unless split hooves AND chew cud. 🐑

Non-kosher birds. 🦅 Forbidden list = can't eat.

Chessed shebYesod is love that becomes real connection ✨

Not just caring internally 💭

but showing up consistently 🤲, building trust 🫂, and creating real closeness 💫 .Because sometimes the deepest avoda is simply being there with warmth, patience, and heart 💙

כ אייר

Hayom Yom

Real strength is quiet ✨ Patience, humility, and kindness grow people far more than ego ever will 🌱💫

Sefer Hamitzvos

No touching women you're forbidden to marry.

Check land animals for split hooves + cud before eating.

Malchus shebHod is humility you can feel 💙✨It’s when humility changes the way you speak 🗣️, listen 👂, and treat people 💫 Because once you realize everyone is carrying invisible weight 🫂💭 you stop needing to stand above them ⬇️ and start leading with patience 🌱, softness , and understanding ✨

יט אייר

Hayom Yom

Chassidus teaches you how to be humble without shrinking and how to grow without ego It shows you that you’re small in the face of something infinite… yet your choices and growth still deeply matter . So you stop thinking you’re everything but you also stop thinking you’re nothing

Sefer Hamitzvos

Kohen Gadol + widow. Can't marry her.

Kohen Gadol + widow. Can't have intimacy with her. Both = 2 rules broken.

Kohen Gadol. Must marry a virgin.

Kohen + divorcee. Can't marry her.

Kohen + zonah. Can't marry a woman who had forbidden intimacy.

Kohen + chalalah. Can't marry a "profaned" woman or her daughter.

Yesod shebHod is humility that creates connection ✨ Real humility isn’t disappearing it’s becoming open When you stop protecting your ego, you can connect more deeply, to Hashem, to people, and to the person you’re becoming 💫

יח אייר

Hayom Yom

Lag B’omer is a day of when things open 🔥 On י״ח אייר, the Mitteler Rebbe would go out to the fields with the Chassidim 🌾🌳 Even though he didn’t eat bread, he drank mashkeh 🥃 something unusual for him showing the day carried a special energy ✨ People saw real yeshuos, especially for couples without children 👶💫 It became a day people waited for all year because something opens 💙

Sefer Hamitzvos

No marrying non-Jews.

No marrying male converts from Ammon or Moab.

Egyptian converts: grandkids can marry Jews.

Edomite converts: grandkids can marry Jews.

Mamzer can't marry regular Jews.

Castrated men can't marry Jewish women.

No castrating males, human or animal.

Lag B’omer י״ח אייר, the chai of the month lights up the quiet in-between of Iyar and shows you that even when growth feels slow and unseen, it’s actually full of life 🔥 It’s a burst in the middle between Pesach (breaking out) and Shavous (becoming), revealing that Hod shebHod isn’t just quiet acceptance it’s living gratitude ✨ a moment where you feel warmth, depth, and realize that the process itself is alive, and so are you 💫

יז אייר

Hayom Yom

When saying Shema early, you complete it properly

If you say Shema before davening, you repeat “Ani Hashem Elokeichem” and end with “Emet” But with Rabbeinu Tam tefillin you don’t repeat,

just end with “Emet”

You’re deeper than what you’ve seen so far💫. Like the earth with hidden oceans, mountains, minerals, and life we’re still discovering you also carry layers of strength, faith, and depth that haven’t surfaced yet 🌍So don’t underestimate yourself… but also don’t assume you’ve reached your limits. There’s more in you waiting to be uncovered 💫

Sefer Hamitzvos

Don't be intimate with your uncle on dad's side.

No adultery with a married woman.

Don't be intimate during a woman's period until she goes to mikvah.

Netzach shebeHod is quietly not giving up on yourself ✨ Even when you feel small… even when you don’t see anything yet, you keep digging. Because you trust there’s more inside you, even if you haven’t uncovered it yet 💫

טז אייר

Hayom Yom

Impact isn’t about how much you know it’s about what you do with the moments you’re in. Like Reb Elyeh Abeler, who wasn’t a great scholar but turned simple/random business conversations into something real. Because sometimes the biggest impact doesn’t happen in a massive moment/stage…it happens in everyday moments.

Sefer Hamitzvos

Men can't sleep with animals.

Women can't sleep with animals.

Men can't sleep with other men.

A son can't sleep with his father.

Tiferet shebeHod is quiet, beautiful impact.Not loud, not trying to stand out but real, warm, and grounded. Like Reb Elyeh simple, but able to touch people in a deep, natural way Because the deepest beauty comes from humility.

יד אייר

Hayom Yom

Pesach Sheini means it’s never too late ✨ Even if you missed it. Even if you chose wrong. Your story isn’t defined by that moment it’s defined by what you do next Because the door doesn’t close…

it opens again 💫

Sefer Hamitzvos

No relations with your daughter.

No relations with your daughter's daughter.

No relations with your mother-in-law or stepdaughter.

No relations with your wife's paternal grandma or step-granddaughter through her son.

No relations with your wife's maternal grandma or step-granddaughter through her daughter.

Pesach Sheini is your second chance in the moment. Not fixing everything

just responding a little differently this time.Choosing softness over reaction,

kindness over ego, even in something messy 💫 That is your redo.

יג אייר

Hayom Yom

At Mincha, tachanun is said.

What’s above you… comes from you ✨

Your choices, your reactions, your effort

they don’t stay “down here.”

They shape something bigger

So you’re not just living life

you’re influencing it 💫

Sefer Hamitzvos

The suspected adulteress' offering has no frankincense.

Don't sleep with your mom.

Don't sleep with your stepmom.

Don't sleep with your sister.

Don't sleep with your half-sister.

Don't sleep with your granddaughter.

Malchus ShebeNetzach is letting your endurance show. It’s not just “I’m trying” it’s turning that into real action, real change. Because inner strength matters most when it becomes something you can actually see 💫

י אייר

Hayom Yom

Growth isn’t just counting days it’s becoming brighter through them ✨

“Usfartem” doesn’t just mean count… it means shine

Real growth is dipping in again and again refining who you are until you’re no longer fighting yourself…

but aligned, whole, and shining 💫

Sefer Hamitzvos

If a man dies childless, his wife can’t marry anyone yet Only the brother can marry her (yibbum), or they do chalitzah to release her. Until then she’s not permitted to be with another man.

Netzach shebNetzach is not quitting when it feels pointless 🔥 ✨

It’s showing up… even when nothing feels different, even when you don’t feel growth

Because real change doesn’t come from big moments it comes from staying… again and again 💫

ט אייר

Hayom Yom

Nothing in your life is random ✨

Every moment what you see, hear, feel is a message meant for your growth

You might not catch it in real time…

but if you pause and come back to it,

what is this trying to teach me? 💫

Sefer hamitzvos

If a man dies childless, his brother should marry the widow (yibbum) ✨

If he doesn’t, they do chalitzah, and she’s free to marry someone else

Tiferet shebNetzach is pushing forward with awareness ✨

Not just “keep going”

but keep going while listening

Holding both

the strength to move…

and the honesty to ask what this moment is teaching you 💫