In this episode Brook talks about identifying exactly what you want AND making sure that what you want is actually best for the children. Having seen such a large number of high conflict divorces Brook has valuable insights when it comes to what is actually worth fighting for. Remember, we are not trying to right wrongs done to us in the past, or get even, but rather move on and create a new, better life for ourselves and our children. Some of the conflict in your separation may be from aiming at things you don't actually want or need. Listen in as we discuss this very issue.