The High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast

In this episode Brook and Michelle  take another deeper dive into the subject of preparing for and dealing with the stresses of the holidays. When dealing with high conflict co-parentis it is important to have an open mindset of solving the problems out front and deep understanding of how you are stuck trying to fit a square peg in a round hole. Challenging your beliefs about what is important vs what solves the problem and takes the children out of the chaos isn't easy. Listen to Brook and Michelle in this episode in order to get some fresh and deeper perspective. Enjoy!!!

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In this episode Brook has special guest Nicola Ranson L.C.S.W. Brook and Nicola discuss the concepts of Transference and Projection as pertain to working with a coach or therapist. These are always taking place in all relationships and unconsciously affect the interaction. When working with a coach or therapist it is important the coach or therapist is trained to consciously identify it and not get entangled with but use it as an informative process to uncover deeper solutions and processes. 

As a client it is important to find a coach that is seasoned and proficient so as not to collude or inappropriately direct.  Enjoy!!  You can find more on Nicola and her writing at www.nicolaranson.org

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In this Episode Brook has as his special guest Attorney Kelli Avallone in to discuss the frustrations that clients have when dealing with their attorneys as well as those frustrations of the attorney with their clients, in high conflict custody cases. The discussion explores the topics that can cause the frustration and how using a qualified coach can go a long way in keeping both the client and the attorney on a productive path that is efficient both financially and emotionally. Enjoy!!! 

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In this episode Brook and Tony delve into the notion of how anxiety  is one of if not the main driver of conflict and at the base understanding this and learning how to navigate the terrain of ones own anxiety is the avenue toward a  high threshold of tolerance can make the difference in disengaging. The basis in the defensive response even in those with narcissism and other personality disorders can be found in navigating the internal sensation that comes with the anxiousness. Enjoy!!!

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In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss the narcissistic practice of email Carpet Bombing. This is the practice of incessantly sending repeated emails in order to hook you into an argument, to tell you are doing it wrong, to harass and demean you and to cause as much chaos as possible to get you to engage. This is an important concept to understand and to get the tools needed to navigate the barrage. Enjoy!!!

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In this episode Brook has special guest Lisa Johnson from  Been There Got Out to discuss how High Conflict Personalities can drive legal abuse in the family court system and how to organize yourself to be able to go it with out an attorney. Lisa brings some good information to a scary subject. 

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In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss the struggles that come with dealing with a ex that isn't on the same page and exhibits narcissist like behaviors and how to navigate keeping the kids out of the middle of ongoing conflict.

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In this episode Brook Olsen and Kelli Avallone Join the Talking Parents team on their Co-Parenting and Coffee webinar to discuss Parallel Parenting and the use of Co-Parenting Apps. During High Conflict Co-Parenting and dealing with Narcissism and other personality disorders the use of Co-Parenting Apps like Talking Parents can be a useful tool in getting the conflict under control and tracking the conversation between parents. The use of such apps can all so help when going to court to show the level of conflict and who is in may ways causing the conflict to continue. This is a rich conversation that I think will help listeners understand the value in using these tools. Enjoy!!!

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In this episode Brook, Jussi and Bryson have a complicated discussion around the reasons and solutions for not only solving the difficulties of children resisting conjoint therapy but the reasons for the resistance. The discussions explore some very uncomfortable topics for parents to explore and own and how the court, attorneys and therapists can be more informed and better help these families. Enjoy!!!

Jussi and Bryson can be contacted through their website at https://www.newgrowthcounseling.com

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In this episode Jussi Light LMFT and Bryson Greaves Ph.d return to discuss How Family of Origin Dynamics can Translate into High Conflict Relationship Later in Life. This episode is a in-depth discussion the talks about how early beliefs can distort present time experiences that can lead to being reactive and taking things personally as well as creating the transference or projection of those early experiences on to the other co-parent. Often these behaviors are talked about in the context of Personality Disorders like Narcissism or Borderline and in less intrusive labels like Attachment Styles, but in this episode Jussi and Bryson lean away from those tables to speak more directly to some of the behaviors that can lead to high conflict. Enjoy !!!

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