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This Valentine’s week, skip the couple goals content. Here’s a real marriage.
He had a full-blown affair in year 2 of their marriage. She flew to Oklahoma, drove him to the other woman’s house, and asked one question:
“Is there something you want to tell me?”
They just celebrated 20 years of marriage.
In this raw and unfiltered episode, Tosin and Sanmi Laja-Akintayo (“The LAs”) share the real story of their marriage including the infidelity that nearly ended it, the five-year journey to rebuild trust, and why they believe there’s “no finished product on the marriage market.”
This episode is not about excusing betrayal. It’s about what real repentance, accountability, and rebuilding actually looks like.
In this episode:
• How they met at a picnic in 2003
• Getting married at 23 while still in college
• The affair that almost ended their marriage
• Why she chose to walk away and what made her reconsider
• The work he had to do to rebuild trust
• Why “red flags” didn’t exist the way they do today
• Why marriage is two people on the assembly line together
TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 – Introduction
03:00 – How They Met (The Picnic Story)
06:00 – “I Don’t Shake Girls”
09:30 – Getting Married at 23
12:00 – The Affair
19:00 – Flying to Oklahoma
22:00 – Confrontation at the Door
27:00 – From Betrayal to Rebuilding
31:00 – His Journey to Christ
42:00 – “No Finished Product”
50:00 – Marriage, Money & Differences
56:00 – The Offender Can’t Make Demands
💬 Would you have stayed? Why or why not? Drop your thoughts in the comments.
CONNECT:
Instagram: @pfunfiltered
Church: https://www.newcovenanthouse.org
#PF Unfiltered, #Christian marriage, #marriage podcast, #infidelity recovery, #forgiveness in marriage, #real marriage, #Christian relationships, #Valentine’s Day podcast, #relationship advice, #Black marriage, #African marriage, #marriage testimony, #faith and relationships
By PF OmotayoThis Valentine’s week, skip the couple goals content. Here’s a real marriage.
He had a full-blown affair in year 2 of their marriage. She flew to Oklahoma, drove him to the other woman’s house, and asked one question:
“Is there something you want to tell me?”
They just celebrated 20 years of marriage.
In this raw and unfiltered episode, Tosin and Sanmi Laja-Akintayo (“The LAs”) share the real story of their marriage including the infidelity that nearly ended it, the five-year journey to rebuild trust, and why they believe there’s “no finished product on the marriage market.”
This episode is not about excusing betrayal. It’s about what real repentance, accountability, and rebuilding actually looks like.
In this episode:
• How they met at a picnic in 2003
• Getting married at 23 while still in college
• The affair that almost ended their marriage
• Why she chose to walk away and what made her reconsider
• The work he had to do to rebuild trust
• Why “red flags” didn’t exist the way they do today
• Why marriage is two people on the assembly line together
TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 – Introduction
03:00 – How They Met (The Picnic Story)
06:00 – “I Don’t Shake Girls”
09:30 – Getting Married at 23
12:00 – The Affair
19:00 – Flying to Oklahoma
22:00 – Confrontation at the Door
27:00 – From Betrayal to Rebuilding
31:00 – His Journey to Christ
42:00 – “No Finished Product”
50:00 – Marriage, Money & Differences
56:00 – The Offender Can’t Make Demands
💬 Would you have stayed? Why or why not? Drop your thoughts in the comments.
CONNECT:
Instagram: @pfunfiltered
Church: https://www.newcovenanthouse.org
#PF Unfiltered, #Christian marriage, #marriage podcast, #infidelity recovery, #forgiveness in marriage, #real marriage, #Christian relationships, #Valentine’s Day podcast, #relationship advice, #Black marriage, #African marriage, #marriage testimony, #faith and relationships