Louise has a foot fetish fan club?! Apparently so. It also reminded her of the time Lily Allen tweeted about her back when she was on Made in Chelsea… and let’s just say Louise was not pleased.

Then we turn to Molly-Mae, reflecting on her announcement of her second baby. We share our thoughts on navigating pregnancy and public life, and the difference in how Ryan and Louise experience sharing personal news in the spotlight. Louise opens up about how emotionally challenging it was to come to terms with her changing body, shifting identity within the world of social media. 

We also address the adoption comments we’ve received, explaining why it’s not the path we’ve chosen right now and why that feels right for us.

And we end our conversation discussing declining birth rates and why blaming women…looking at you, Steven Bartlett…isn’t helping. Louise shares how her work is actively challenging outdated ideas, and Ryan reflects on why it’s so important for future generations.

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(00:00) Coming up on this episode…

(00:30) Louise’s secret foot fan club exposed

(02:45) Why did Lily Allen tweet about Louise?!

(04:30) Why Louise is mortified by her dad

(09:35) The fear of becoming embarrassing parents to Leo

(10:40) What gives Louise the ick about Ryan…

(16:30) Louise’s oral hygiene ick

(18:22) Our honest thoughts on Molly-Mae’s pregnancy

(26:30) Why Louise struggled with how she looked while pregnant

(29:45) Navigating pregnancy in the spotlight

(32:30) Why we’ve chosen not to adopt right now

(36:59) Our reaction to Steven Bartlett’s birth rate conversation

(43:46) Andrew Tate and the misogyny debate

(45:30) Louise’s maternity commissioner petition

(51:45) Why Ryan is so proud of the impact Louise is making

(52:20) Final thoughts

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Louise and Ryan are going on their first date. Well, not technically their first ever, but one ten years after their first. Dressed up and ready to impress, they’re pretending it’s day one all over again.

Over starters, they rewind to their actual first impressions and that very unexpected first date. They talk about what they love most about each other, what men really look for in a woman, and whether they’d swipe right on each other if dating apps had been a thing back then.

As the mains arrive, things get a little deeper. Valentine’s Day comes up, along with the pressure that can sit around it and how romance looks different when you’re parents. They talk honestly about making time for each other, whether that means scheduling it in or keeping things spontaneous, and how ten years later they’re still figuring out how to keep things exciting.

By dessert, there are gifts, a little unexpected ex chat including a Made in Chelsea Valentine’s breakup reveal, and a very sweet surprise from Leo for Mummy that brings it all back to what really matters.

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(00:00) We’re Going on a First Date With Each Other! 

(01:17) What we think of each other’s First Date Outfits

(03:27) Our Brutally Honest First Impressions of each other 

(05:06) What Men Really Look for in a Woman

(14:06) We Create Hypothetical Dating Profiles

(20:00) The Pressure and Expectations Around Valentine’s Day

(21:12) The Origin Story of Valentine’s Day

(24:30) Louise’s Dream Valentine’s This Year

(28:50) The Valentine’s Break Up from Made in Chelsea…

(29:07) What No One Tells You About Life After Having Kids

(43:32) The Wuthering Heights Drama between Jacob Elordi and Margot Robbie 

(46:34) Our Valentine’s Gift Exchange

(52:42) Leo’s Valentine’s Surprise for Louise

(54:50) The end of our date…

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Ryan and Louise kick things off with a new favourite word of the week, a very creative term for “down there”, which quickly sparks a conversation about crossing swords, body hair, and Ryan being put to the test on whether he actually knows the difference between a pad and a tampon.

Things then take a more personal turn as Ryan opens up, for the first time, about a journey he’s quietly been on over the last few months. He speaks honestly about his decision to have a hair transplant, how it’s made him feel, and why talking about it openly matters to him, especially if it helps open up more honest conversations around confidence and self-image for men.

We also share where we are on our surrogacy journey, opening up about what the process has really looked like behind the scenes. Louise speaks candidly about why she can’t carry her own baby, and we talk about our next steps in navigating this journey together. 

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(00:00) Intro to the episode

(00:56) Leo’s new favourite word of the week

(02:06) What does “crossing swords” mean?!

(05:33) Can Ryan explain the difference between tampon and a pad?!

(15:33) Ryan opens up about his hair transplant decision

(22:13) Breaking down the stigma around men’s cosmetic procedures

(33:24) Talking through our IVF process

(43:16) Understanding why Louise can't carry a baby

(50:25) Exploring our surrogacy options

(56:36) Ryan’s perspective on surrogacy

(58:56) The Japanese philosophy of Misogi

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We’re back with He Said, She Said! After a little pause, Ryan and Louise are opening up for the first time publicly about their fertility journey and the path they’re about to take together through surrogacy. They share the why, the how, and what this next chapter really means for them.

We also hear what it’s like now that Louise’s younger brother Sam is her boss, the unlikely (and hilarious) bond between Leo and Pete, and Ryan even shares his theory that Louise might secretly fancy Pete... Plus, we get a revealing glimpse of what Louise’s dad is actually like and uncover a shocking phrase Ryan and Louise are hoping Leo doesn’t start repeating at nursery!

This is a vulnerable, funny, and unfiltered conversation, full of laughter and moments that truly reflect what real life is like as parents, as a couple, and as individuals figuring it out together.

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(00:00) Introduction and new studio

(01:17) Our thoughts on Sam and Pete as our neighbours

(06:24) Does Louise fancy Pete?!

(10:15) Leo and Pete are now best friends

(15:10) Will Pete become Leo's godfather?

(19:00) Why we took a break from the podcast?

(22:13) The importance of communication in relationships 

(25:38) Our fertility journey and surrogacy decision…

(34:57) Leo’s hospital emergency 

(44:16) Human connection vs AI technology 

(53:00) The power of physical writing 

(59:15) Our time capsule letters to each other…

(01:01:35) Our goal as Parents to Leo

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WE’RE BACK!

After a little pause, He Said, She Said is officially back. New home. New chapter. And we genuinely cannot wait to take you on this new journey we’re finally ready to share with the world.

It’s the same podcast you love, as we talk through the highs and lows of parenting, our relationship, and life as individuals. But this time, there’s a brand new chapter unfolding and we’re bringing you along every step of the way….

Launching TOMORROW, Wednesday 28th January! 

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Louise and Ryan are back with a BIG announcement this week…

In the final episode of He Said, She Said (for now!) Louise and Ryan discuss why they’ve decided to take a break, share their favourite conversations they’ve had on the podcast and reveal what’s next for them in their lives.

Plus, the pair unpack what the podcast has taught them about themselves and each other, and unveil their plans for the next iteration of the podcast…

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Artwork by @brittyflynn 

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Louise and Ryan are back and there is a LOT to discuss…

In this episode, Ryan’s gone viral! He’s been interacting with stars such as Khloé Kardashian and tells us all about how he’s found his recent fame. 

Plus, Louise shares what she learnt at her mole-mapping appointment, Ryan gives his thoughts on the recent killing of Charlie Kirk, and the pair discuss whether they would ever move abroad…

Check out Ryan’s ‘Letters to Leo’ here.

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It’s Monday, so you know what that means…it’s time for another Ask Us Anything episode!

This week, Louise and Ryan discuss their big dreams outside of parenthood and take a peek into the most savage DMs they’ve ever received…

Plus, Ryan shares what he’d love to discuss if he were to give a Ted Talk and the pair reveal the top questions they wish people would stop asking them.

Submit your questions for our next AUA here and don’t forget to come back on Wednesday for our full length episodes.

If you’ve got a dilemma, email us at [email protected] for Louise and Ryan to help you on the show.

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Louise and Ryan are back for another jam-packed episode!

This week, Louise and Ryan talk about their experiences of boarding school, debate whether millennials work harder than Gen Z and Louise reveals how a viral TikTok of her dad has led to a private dinner with Rick Stein…

Plus, Ryan gives us an insight into his skincare routine and the pair discuss their extravagant plans for Leo’s fourth birthday.

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Happy Monday! Grab a cuppa and settle down for another fun-filled Ask Us Anything episode.

This week, Louise and Ryan dive into the essentials they’d take to a desert island and debunk some of the biggest assumptions people make about them…

Plus, Ryan tells us about his recent trip to McLaren HQ, Louise reveals the one album she could listen to for the rest of her life and together they chat about how they hope to be remembered 10 years from now.

Submit your questions for our next AUA here and don’t forget to come back on Wednesday for our full length episodes.

If you’ve got a dilemma, email us at [email protected] for Louise and Ryan to help you on the show.

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